What is the appeal of SM?

[Longan]

Just trying to understand why some people like SM? I find it kind of sickening to be honest. Isn't sex meant to be enjoyable, where is the enjoyment of getting hurt? Getting hit in the balls is the biggest example - I find it extremely odd some people would enjoy let alone want this. Not only does it hurt a lot physically, it also hurts mentally. The balls is what makes a man a man, it produces testosterone. To have it hit by a girl just feels so wrong and the fact that it is such a fragile spot... don't know how i feel about this but I sort of feel less of a man, it's a confusing feeling. Anyone care to explain the appeal? Just seems bizarre.

[Mr Bastard]

Everyone is made of different stuff mate, what is good for some is not good for others, I am not a fan myself but each to their own.........whatever floats your boat................

[wilisno]

It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.

[rooter]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dj4tZgpzUjo&app=desktop

[AHLUNGOR]

It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.

+1!

If someone is into S&M and getting his fix, he could be pretty harmless except for his own body, much worst when he turned violent and became a serial something something !

Just watch Silence of the Lamb ! And all the SVU and the Criminal Minds series , very scary stuff !

[scooper]

Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.

[Longan]

Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.
Although I'm not into it myself, I can see why some people may be into it. The tingly sensations are pleasurable to some since it feels a bit like getting your balls sucked. But I'd be interested to know where the pleasure from SM is...

[Raybo]

Everyone is made of different stuff mate, what is good for some is not good for others, I am not a fan myself but each to their own.........whatever floats your boat................

Totally agree, not for me but each to their own. It is a far bigger community than most would believe, i guess like the male punting community. A lot of women are fully into it!

For those inquisitive minds here, may i suggest checking out some of the BDSM dating sites/forums. Whilst most of us vanilla guys and gals still won't get it, still makes for very interesting if not bizarre reading and in some cases watching. On that I am aware of is Fetlife.

https://fetlife.com

[Babycat]

It's more sickening if he likes to inflict hurt on the girls.
+100000000000
You're so right!

[Babycat]

Same question could be asked for men who enjoy getting their bum hole licked.
I don't understand why someone like to lick bum hole too. :surprise:

+1!

If someone is into S&M and getting his fix, he could be pretty harmless except for his own body, much worst when he turned violent and became a serial something something !

Just watch Silence of the Lamb ! And all the SVU and the Criminal Minds series , very scary stuff !
Have to admit that that's my favourite kind of movies. So scary but irresistible

[Mitch2]

SM...

Ever Fantasied about being tied up, and being given a handjob job, and the lady kept tugging after cumming, when its ultra sensitive.

I have... too scared to go to a SM though..

[aussie_jack]

For some of us, we're in control of 100% out our lives all the time. At work, at home we always need to be in charge. Having a break from that is relaxing. But also I've never wanted someone to kick my balls