How to say goodbye?

[otokosg]

so i have been seeing an ML for a while, and i knew we wouldnt click from day 1. but as luck would have it, it's been over 3 months since i first saw her.

so my question is what's the best way to stop seeing her?

1. just stop, without saying anything.

2. see her one more time then make up an excuse: eg getting too busy at work?

3. taper it off

any other polite way to do it?

i know i'm over thinking it, and in previous cases i would just stop, but for this time, i want to hear other bros suggestions.

[caff3ry]

so i have been seeing an ML for a while, and i knew we wouldnt click from day 1. but as luck would have it, it's been over 3 months since i first saw her.

so my question is what's the best way to stop seeing her?

1. just stop, without saying anything.

2. see her one more time then make up an excuse: eg getting too busy at work?

3. taper it off

any other polite way to do it?

i know i'm over thinking it, and in previous cases i would just stop, but for this time, i want to hear other bros suggestions.

Hmmm I would just tell her that it ain't working and you stop seeing her quick and painless.

[handcockJ]

Dating or seeing her for sessions?
If dating just be honest bro, you are both humans and she can probably sense it as well.

[carrot2]

If it's purely as a customer then I see no obligation for you to do anything. How many times are we talking about?

No need to lie or make excuses. Just stop going.

[eyo1032]

The post sounds like a date - in which case I would just say be open and upfront. And honest.

[beta101]

so i have been seeing an ML for a while, and i knew we wouldnt click from day 1. but as luck would have it, it's been over 3 months since i first saw her.

so my question is what's the best way to stop seeing her?

1. just stop, without saying anything.

2. see her one more time then make up an excuse: eg getting too busy at work?

3. taper it off

any other polite way to do it?

i know i'm over thinking it, and in previous cases i would just stop, but for this time, i want to hear other bros suggestions.
If u are married n she knows where u live. You are pretty much dead lol. The only way out is to get her a younger, richer n better version of urself hahaha. Try pming caffery.

[des888]

Just tell her straight up that you don't feel like it's going to work because these things fuck with their head. I'm assuming you guys have been dating for the last three months right.

[rooter]

Just stop seeing her.
Simple.

[Babycat]

Go for a double, then go for the second girl, :)
Just kidding. It may set a war between them , :((
Just book another girl. Simple.

[Punterman2]

I have similar reoccurring issues like this as well. I punt daily and usually go to the same few shops so as you can imagine, I get similar but slightly different lineups each time ie a mixture of my regulars and some newbies. When you don't choose your regular in the line up some of them are ok but others you can tell get the hump and the next time you see them, that 'special' bond if that is what you call it, is slightly broken and the session is not as good as before.

I have also had two regulars recently that I saw about 10 times each over a period of about three months. At first the sessions with them were always amazing but slowly the novelty factor wore off to the point where the last session with one of them a few weeks ago I could not even get it up as my style was slightly different from hers and I started to concentrate on the differences and lost my confidence.

The way I get over this is just to rationalise what we are doing ie paying girls for sex services and move onto the new girls and keep the regulars that don't mind that you are fucking around other girls and shops ie separate the emotions from the reality.

[woods23]

Bro stop being OVER too nice lol.... It's a job to them they know the game.
You don't have to feel bad about it .....if you want see her just go if not see other girls. If you run into her in the shop say a quick hello or look away.
This things happened all the time come on bro...

We know they provided the best GFE .

i think you are obsessed with all these mls??
Take care man.

Enjoy the moment

[AHLUNGOR]

You never have to say goodbye unless it is the ml leaving the industry or the country - and most of times you won't even know and she just disappeared!! Then where was your goodbye ??

If you are regular enough for her to tell you that it was her last week or something or you two have exchanged details like phone number , WeChat etc. then I would imagine you won't be asking the question in the first place !

Like woods said , move on bro !

[CunningLinguist]

so i have been seeing an ML for a while, and i knew we wouldnt click from day 1. but as luck would have it, it's been over 3 months since i first saw her.

so my question is what's the best way to stop seeing her?

1. just stop, without saying anything.

2. see her one more time then make up an excuse: eg getting too busy at work?

3. taper it off

any other polite way to do it?

i know i'm over thinking it, and in previous cases i would just stop, but for this time, i want to hear other bros suggestions.

Dude we need to know are you dating her outside the shop or are you just a regular customer in the shop ???

[Mr Bastard]

I cant believe you knew you wouldn't click from day 1, yet still see her for three months, and now you don't know how to say goodbye? The mind boggles and is a very complex organ is it not.............

[traveller1]

I also saw a ML for few months then when she had a surgergy on her boobs after a holiday. It was a big turn off for me, I just stopped going to see her - there are too many other WL for me to come back.

[Hammerhead]

All these replies from the forum and OP is nowhere to be seen....

[Longan]

Let me get this straight:

- You saw a ML 3 months ago, it turned out to be a bad session
- You have not visited said ML since that session
- Now 3 months later you're wondering how to say goodbye?

Have you ever been to a restaurant only to realise the chicken laksa wasn't as tasty as you expected? What did you do?

Did you:
1) Never order the chicken laksa again?
2) Come back 3 months later, order the chicken laksa again just to tell the waiter this dish is not going to work?
3) Slowly taper off by ordering the chicken laksa less frequently over the next half a year?

[otokosg]

thank you all for the kind suggestions. i think i know what's the best next step now.

for what it's worth, i'm not dating her, just regular sessions in the shop.

[Mr Bastard]

Let me get this straight:

- You saw a ML 3 months ago, it turned out to be a bad session
- You have not visited said ML since that session
- Now 3 months later you're wondering how to say goodbye?

Have you ever been to a restaurant only to realise the chicken laksa wasn't as tasty as you expected? What did you do?

Did you:
1) Never order the chicken laksa again?
2) Come back 3 months later, order the chicken laksa again just to tell the waiter this dish is not going to work?
3) Slowly taper off by ordering the chicken laksa less frequently over the next half a year?

I think he has been seeing her for the last 3 months, as luck would have it....

[Shoryureppa]

How would OP even go about dating an ML?

Would you ask her out during her session or what...

[CunningLinguist]

thank you all for the kind suggestions. i think i know what's the best next step now.

for what it's worth, i'm not dating her, just regular sessions in the shop.

FFS FMD this really is a lame question then, just stop seeing her if you don't want to see her anymore ...

[cuteguy]

These days it's so common for people to send an SMS to say they are breaking up. It saves the trouble of confronting the other person and trying to explain why you don't want to see them anymore.

[harrycd]

Phil Collins used a fax, try that

[Alan86]

Go for a double, then go for the second girl, :)
Just kidding. It may set a war between them , :((
Just book another girl. Simple.

Hilarious idea Babycat! Rofl!

I'd say just end it like you'd end any other relationship. With honesty and respect

[TallyHo]

thank you all for the kind suggestions. i think i know what's the best next step now.

for what it's worth, i'm not dating her, just regular sessions in the shop.

Sounds like you like her but you are just a regular customer. Probably, she has many others like you so no need to say goodbye.

[simplelife]

Legit just see another girl... if you're too soft to do that .. just go to another shop ... lol

[Palooka]

There are so many fish. Remember this girl most likely has 10 other regulars she
is stringing along and weighing up the best offer. Move on bud.

[solowang]

I think OP is over thinking the situation. You are the customer you can see who you like. If you really don't want to upset her just visit the shop on a day she is off otherwise try a different shop.

[1igh7ning1]

How about "see you again soon" gives the impression you enjoyed and really want to come back?

[Nekman]

I think it is easier to just stop booking and seeing her. No need to say good bye. They will forget about you and just disappear from the shop and roster eventually and you will lose track of her....

[Alex T Bear]

It sounds to me that you are seeing her as in dating, not as a customer because if it's the latter you can just change the day you visit or change shops. If, as I suspect, you are dating her then have a heart to heart and explain that you've had you time together and now it's time to move on. Awkward, embarrassing, hurtful, yes but you'll be glad when it's done with some dignity intact.

[6sixty9nine]

Strewth mate you makin me cry.
Every shiela is a soft kiss away from fallin in love and become a ball breaking bitch while every bloke is one step away from promising the world to every girlie that takes his fancy in the room, on the street, in da hood or the factory floor. Get fuckin over it.
You are sounding like a soft poofta or one of those young inner city types with the beard and shit like our ol mate ned Kelly.
She: wants a night in shining armour to come sweep her off her feet and give her a house, a new car and little babies to coo over.
You: want to be seen a nice guy and hate that men are painted as sexist crazy lovin machines.
You are board? Then just stop seeing her until she asks. And then you tell her ya board.
She is a bad fuck? Just stop seeing her until she asks. And then tell her you've had better.
You don't want to be tied down? Tell her its just business for you and start seeing other girls, if not ignore her altogether.
She annoys the fuck outta you? Just tell her.
Grow a spine mate and act like a man. This wishy washy shit is what makes women women. It is fun until you have to put up with the shit every day when all you wanna do is watch porn, get high and get her to suck and swallow.
There ends the wisdom of the cranky 69 who's horny as hell but working all fuckin weekend from 3pm friday


so i have been seeing an ML for a while, and i knew we wouldnt click from day 1. but as luck would have it, it's been over 3 months since i first saw her.

so my question is what's the best way to stop seeing her?

1. just stop, without saying anything.

2. see her one more time then make up an excuse: eg getting too busy at work?

3. taper it off

any other polite way to do it?

i know i'm over thinking it, and in previous cases i would just stop, but for this time, i want to hear other bros suggestions.

[Punterman2]

Strewth mate you makin me cry.
Every shiela is a soft kiss away from fallin in love and become a ball breaking bitch while every bloke is one step away from promising the world to every girlie that takes his fancy in the room, on the street, in da hood or the factory floor. Get fuckin over it.
You are sounding like a soft poofta or one of those young inner city types with the beard and shit like our ol mate ned Kelly.
She: wants a night in shining armour to come sweep her off her feet and give her a house, a new car and little babies to coo over.
You: want to be seen a nice guy and hate that men are painted as sexist crazy lovin machines.
You are board? Then just stop seeing her until she asks. And then you tell her ya board.
She is a bad fuck? Just stop seeing her until she asks. And then tell her you've had better.
You don't want to be tied down? Tell her its just business for you and start seeing other girls, if not ignore her altogether.
She annoys the fuck outta you? Just tell her.
Grow a spine mate and act like a man. This wishy washy shit is what makes women women. It is fun until you have to put up with the shit every day when all you wanna do is watch porn, get high and get her to suck and swallow.
There ends the wisdom of the cranky 69 who's horny as hell but working all fuckin weekend from 3pm friday

Great advice 69. I love you....not in the poofta sense though

[mrbluesky1]

69 dropping bombs on the forum

[MistyGuy]

If the sessions are top notch and you want one last bang of a service, book her again and make it memorable.

Then just change shop/girl for next session. There's just so many other gorgeous ladies you're missing out on trying. You'll forget her instantly.