Coming Clean

[Alan86]

Hey guys,

I was wondering that has anyone ever made any confessions to MLs/ WLs after a while of knowing them, and how did this go over?

This can include things like

- Confessing feelings you've had about them
- Giving them fake details first up and then revealing true identity
- Telling regular that you've been seeing other girls in the shop
- Saying that you haven't liked aspects of their service etc

and more

I'd love to hear some stories about this

Thanks

[Napkin]

How many times has this question being asked ?
Its like flogging a dead horse.

[Pussyhands]

Ummm

I am always straight up with my ladies =D

I think ud be surprised that they most likely know.

If I like a girl I tell them and I let them know I am a many ladies kind of man ;)
They all understand cuz it's male nature.

I mean the girls would know most of their customers have gf and wife lol

As much as I believe in being faithful in relationships - I know I am not in that capacity as it impacts on my wellbeing too much ;) in other words, I like sleeping around without the guilt hehehhe

[CunningLinguist]

I usually confess to a ML/WL that I want to lick their pussy :)

[harrycd]

I usually confess to a ML/WL that I want to lick their pussy :)

Do they cum clean? :sweat:

[Punterman2]

Beat to just be honest and straight up with the girls. They see lots of married men, they know the customers see lots of other girls. Being dishonest will do nobody any good in the long run.

[AHLUNGOR]

Why??

You get a massage, you pay for extras, then you either fuck her hands, fuck her tits, fuck her mouth or fuck her pussy, you cum and you go home happy, what's more to it ?

[cuteguy]

Why??

You get a massage, you pay for extras, then you either fuck her hands, fuck her tits, fuck her mouth or fuck her pussy, you cum and you go home happy, what's more to it ?

There is no doubt that there are some guys who go to RNT or FS shops with marriage problems or just want to get something off their chest (that is, to tell someone about something that has been worrying them or making them feel guilty for a long time). Sometimes when you get into deep conversation with these MLs or WLs, they do mention guys making confessions to them. I guess it's not all boom boom or massage during these sessions. Let's ask Babycat!

[shootermcgavin]

Why??

You get a massage, you pay for extras, then you either fuck her hands, fuck her tits, fuck her mouth or fuck her pussy, you cum and you go home happy, what's more to it ?

This x 1000. The girls don't get paid enough to get us off AND cop an earful of bullshit as well.

[AHLUNGOR]

Using the MLs as a sounding board? can and will happen , then at the same time be prepared to hear about everything happening in her life !

[Babycat]

I'm willing to listen to anyone. I'm listener (to be honest, I want to study about human behaviors) but when both of us leave the room, everything should be cleared out of minds.

[androc]

I dont understand the introspection either. Its a business transaction. Dont bring baggage through the door.
Its usually 30 -60 minutes of service rendered and sensuality enjoyed. Just leave it that hey?

[BlackToad]

For me there is something about the sexual service that makes me feel closer to the WL or ML than with other service providers. I always feel comfortable having an intimate conversation with someone I've just had sex with even if I'm paying them. In fact I try to reserve a bit of time at the end of a session just to cuddle and chat.

[AHLUNGOR]

Just like the footballers will say, what happens on the field stays on the field !

So whatever happens or was said inside the Fs or RnT rooms should all be left behind when you depart !

[wilisno]

Just like the footballers will say, what happens on the field stays on the field !

So whatever happens or was said inside the Fs or RnT rooms should all be left behind when you depart !
That's not how you work obviously ! ;) ;) ;)

[Alan86]

Why??

You get a massage, you pay for extras, then you either fuck her hands, fuck her tits, fuck her mouth or fuck her pussy, you cum and you go home happy, what's more to it ?

Some of us actually like to talk to and make friendships with our regular girls, believe it or not.

And we like to hear them talk back to us aswell.

Not just 'Go in, f$&k this, f$)(k that, and get out'

If that's not your cup of tea then that's fine too. You are not obligated to do so.

[eltran]

- Confessing feelings you've had about them

Serious why would you 1) have feelings for a hooker, and 2) tell her. The first is lame, but the second is opening up the door to get exploited.

I don't give many details. Name is fine since I'm not anyone important and have a name that's about as common as Steve or Mohammed. If they ask might tell them what type of job I do, but usually vague. Sometimes I've made up complete shit just for fun.

If I've had shit service I don't hang around I just quickly get up and go.

[androc]

Sharing feelings is getting into risky territory.
You are placing extra expectations on people where its not warranted. You may enjoy mind dumping your confessions on people, and due to the nature of the transaction, the lady may feel obliged to listen. But 99% of the time, they are not wanting a deep and meaningful.

These ladies are not being paid to be your psychologist, counsellor, or even friend.

This post reminds me of the lonely man who wants to discuss his life with the attractive lady bartender. You may not realise this, but that lady is 100% not interested in your life. She is there doing her job

[shootermcgavin]

These ladies are not being paid to be your psychologist, counsellor, or even friend.

This post reminds me of the lonely man who wants to discuss his life with the attractive lady bartender. You may not realise this, but that lady is 100% not interested in your life. She is there doing her job

It's a bit tragic isn't it? Sometimes I get the vibe some punters need a mate and a beer more than a ML/WL.

[CunningLinguist]

Just like the footballers will say, what happens on the field stays on the field !

So whatever happens or was said inside the Fs or RnT rooms should all be left behind when you depart !



That's not how you work obviously ! ;) ;) ;)

So why did AHL conduct market research for his Mamasan friend to start a ladyboy RnT:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?42043-Market-Research-is-there-a-market-for-ladyboy-in-a-RnT-shop&highlight=coffee

And why does he say he has coffee etc with Mamasans and ML/WLs ...

Sounds like a double standard to me, a bit like writing a review for a girl you have never seen :)

[androc]

My best mate at uni is a bartender. He told me today the same story. A few older alcoholic guys at his pub who are lonely and always want his time for a chat even though he is busy. The lonely guys tend to pick someone they know is forced to listen and cant easily walk away, as my mate works behind the counter !
These lonely guys dont realise how boring and uninteresting they are to listen to

[James_jones]

Serious why would you 1) have feelings for a hooker, and 2) tell her. The first is lame, but the second is opening up the door to get exploited.


This is just bad times even with non-hookers. Go first and "tell them"? Screw that noise.


Sometimes I've made up complete shit just for fun.


Why is there not a thread of "the most ridiculous thing you have told wl/ml that they seem to have believed"? lol

[AHLUNGOR]

http://68.media.tumblr.com/3845f15a9d0ba417601680089098bfb6/tumblr_ooe9izQgAW1um2i68o1_500.gif

[Hornyguy69]

http://68.media.tumblr.com/3845f15a9d0ba417601680089098bfb6/tumblr_ooe9izQgAW1um2i68o1_500.gif

who dat girl be?

[Alan86]

Sharing feelings is getting into risky territory.
You are placing extra expectations on people where its not warranted. You may enjoy mind dumping your confessions on people, and due to the nature of the transaction, the lady may feel obliged to listen. But 99% of the time, they are not wanting a deep and meaningful.

These ladies are not being paid to be your psychologist, counsellor, or even friend.

This post reminds me of the lonely man who wants to discuss his life with the attractive lady bartender. You may not realise this, but that lady is 100% not interested in your life. She is there doing her job

While I agree that the girls are not being paid to be a Councilor, I think there are many lonely men who primarily visit WLs/ MLs for companionship and someone to talk to ! They may engage in deep and meaningful conversations with them about their lives! I also think that unlike your male bartender friend, the girls actually would find a lot of the stuff interesting as girls generally do enjoy gossip and drama.

Then there are other guys who are just 'Go in, get off, get out' without a word of conversation.

Personally, I'm somewhere in between.

[Alan86]

So why did AHL conduct market research for his Mamasan friend to start a ladyboy RnT:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?42043-Market-Research-is-there-a-market-for-ladyboy-in-a-RnT-shop&highlight=coffee

And why does he say he has coffee etc with Mamasans and WLs ...

Sounds like a double standard to me, a bit like writing a review for a girl you have never seen :)

Although this thread wasn't supposed to be about Ahlungor coming clean, I do find it odd that he would say something like post # 7, and then be meeting with Mamasans and WLs - what for ?

I'm quite confused by that? :question:

[AHLUNGOR]

Although this thread wasn't supposed to be about Ahlungor coming clean, I do find it odd that he would say something like post # 7, and then be meeting with Mamasans and WLs - what for ?

I'm quite confused by that? :question:

First of all, I have never met a WL outside of a shop.

Secondly, can you not tell the differences between a MLs and a mamasan ?

[shootermcgavin]

I hope I'm not one of the alco's hassling your bartender mate Androc.

[androc]

Haha. Probably not shooter. You dont sound boring like those guys.

The definition of a bore is someone who only likes the sound of their own voice, and you are only there to be his/ her listener and shoulder to cry on

[BlackAdder]

I agree with Alan, I suspect a lot of blokes visit ML/WLs primarily for talk and companionship. To be a good ML/WL I guess you've got to be able to converse and sometimes even counsel your punters. In some cases I'm sure this would add to the ML/WLs emotional baggage. Makes me wonder who counsels the ML/WL.

[Punterman2]

I agree with Alan, I suspect a lot of blokes visit ML/WLs primarily for talk and companionship. To be a good ML/WL I guess you've got to be able to converse and sometimes even counsel your punters. In some cases I'm sure this would add to the ML/WLs emotional baggage. Makes me wonder who counsels the ML/WL.

A lot of this happens. Guys spend money to see the girls and just talk to them. No sex. The girls tell me that they like it as it is easy money for them as talking beats getting fucked relentlessly.

[androc]

Sure. Chat away. But dont think of them as your counsellor. Most people have their own life problems.

The problem is these guys should honestly be contacting beyond blue. An amateur listening to your problems often doesnt ask for that responsibility

[shootermcgavin]

Sure. Chat away. But dont think of them as your counsellor. Most people have their own life problems.

The problem is these guys should honestly be contacting beyond blue. An amateur listening to your problems often doesnt ask for that responsibility

I was literally thinking of putting the link to beyond blue! Good call dude.

These girls have their own problems just like us, it's not fair to burden them. Speak to a professional instead.

[CunningLinguist]

Although this thread wasn't supposed to be about Ahlungor coming clean, I do find it odd that he would say something like post # 7, and then be meeting with Mamasans and WLs - what for ?

I'm quite confused by that? :question:

First of all, I have never met a WL outside of a shop.

Secondly, can you not tell the differences between a MLs and a mamasan ?

Just for the record, Ahlungor meeting a ML outside a shop:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?63118-Why-I-take-this-job&p=968320&viewfull=1#post968320
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?63118-Why-I-take-this-job&p=968431&viewfull=1#post968431

and a Mamasan:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?42043-Market-Research-is-there-a-market-for-ladyboy-in-a-RnT-shop&highlight=coffee

[shootermcgavin]

Just for the record, Ahlungor meeting a ML outside a shop:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?63118-Why-I-take-this-job&p=968320&viewfull=1#post968320
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?63118-Why-I-take-this-job&p=968431&viewfull=1#post968431

and a Mamasan:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?42043-Market-Research-is-there-a-market-for-ladyboy-in-a-RnT-shop&highlight=coffee

Jesus, your detective work is nuts. If I ever need to find a missing person, I'm coming to you.

[Alan86]

First of all, I have never met a WL outside of a shop.

Secondly, can you not tell the differences between a MLs and a mamasan ?

Im still pretty confused but I'm going to let it slide and move on...

[Alan86]

So why did AHL conduct market research for his Mamasan friend to start a ladyboy RnT:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?42043-Market-Research-is-there-a-market-for-ladyboy-in-a-RnT-shop&highlight=coffee

And why does he say he has coffee etc with Mamasans and ML/WLs ...

Sounds like a double standard to me, a bit like writing a review for a girl you have never seen :)

And CL,

We know you think Ahlungor is a fake. You've said that countless times and given your reasons for it. We have all heard you. But may I suggest you drop the subject and move on?

Attacking him in every thread actually just makes the site worse. It's making the site like an online battleground like that dump Parlour pages! (I know how this feels cause I have that mofo Maxybro on me like a leech! :fire:)

I actually really liked Ahlungor from the get go. He seemed to me to be a happy go lucky guy who had a genuine love for rnt and MLs, much like I did. I liked his attitude on the forum, and calling everyone 'brother'.

Whether he is a shill or a fake I can't say. We don't have any hard evidence for it. We know he's done a few dodgy things, but the rest is just speculation.

I also take my hat off to him for ploughing through the years of abuse on this site to get to 30k posts. He's a trooper!

I might be leaving the site soon (it's been great fun and I'll miss you all!) so I might not be here for his 30,000th post, so I just want to congratulate him in advance.

30,000 posts -
10,000 good answers, reviews, and threads
10,000 porn pictures, random girl pics and vids
10,000 posts about Mimi and Coco/ Selina

Cheers

[CunningLinguist]

Hey Alan, did you know some dictionaries don't have the word 'gullible' in them, look it up yourself if you want to prove it.

[shootermcgavin]

We know you think Ahlungor is a fake. We have all heard you. But may I suggest you drop the subject and move on?

Attacking him in every thread actually just makes the site worse.

Tells users to leave Ahlungor alone, yet hassles Ahlungor. I sense the bi-polar is strong with this one.


Although this thread wasn't supposed to be about Ahlungor coming clean, I do find it odd that he would say something like post # 7, and then be meeting with Mamasans and WLs - what for ?

I'm quite confused by that? :question:

[wilisno]

And CL,

We know you think Ahlungor is a fake. You've said that countless times and given your reasons for it. We have all heard you. But may I suggest you drop the subject and move on?

Attacking him in every thread actually just makes the site worse. It's making the site like an online battleground like that dump Parlour pages! (I know how this feels cause I have that mofo Maxybro on me like a leech! :fire:)

I actually really liked Ahlungor from the get go. He seemed to me to be a happy go lucky guy who had a genuine love for rnt and MLs, much like I did. I liked his attitude on the forum, and calling everyone 'brother'.

Whether he is a shill or a fake I can't say. We don't have any hard evidence for it. We know he's done a few dodgy things, but the rest is just speculation.

I might be leaving the site soon (it's been great fun and I'll miss you all!) so I might not be here for his 30,000th post, so I just want to congratulate him in advance.

30,000 posts -
10,000 good answers, reviews, and threads
10,000 porn pictures, random girl pics and vids
10,000 posts about Mimi and Coco/ Selina

Cheers

Nobody says Ahlungor is a fake, I just said he shouldn't preach what he doesn't practice, too often ! ;) ;) ;)

If you want some harmony, start with yourself ! ;) ;) ;)

[wilisno]

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[des888]

I've made friends with alot of MLs in the past I only ever punt when I'm single and have just recently got back into it after ending a 2 year relationship. At the end of the day MLs are human too I've even hired MLs to work for my business and until today some of them they still do. For most it's just a quick means to easy money. I come clean they know me I know them Fcuk it it's life I got nothing to hide.

[CunningLinguist]

I've made friends with alot of MLs in the past I only ever punt when I'm single and have just recently got back into it after ending a 2 year relationship. At the end of the day MLs are human too I've even hired MLs to work for my business and until today some of them they still do. For most it's just a quick means to easy money. I come clean they know me I know them Fcuk it it's life I got nothing to hide.

Do you run a massage shop :)

[des888]

Cafes mate haha

[androc]

How long does it take to learn how to properly make coffee? Just interested to know. Is it a difficult skill?

[JackRabbitJelly]

It's human nature. Some people need to connect at some level if they aren't getting that fulfilment else where. You can get your self caught in a situation if you're not careful

[inmydream]

Which cafe is this mate? I'll be buying my morning coffee from your place now lol.

[BlackToad]

I'm pretty sure this is how the coffee with HJ extra will start. Anyone seen that movie Idiocracy?

[inmydream]

Hey it was genuine coffee no HJ . I don't want my coffee to taste funny. Never watch that movie or heard of it. Must be low budget movie.

[Alex T Bear]

How long does it take to learn how to properly make coffee? Just interested to know. Is it a difficult skill?

Usually a one day course. There are a few RTA's in the city that offer certified training.

[dokidokisuru]

was reading a book called hooked, an autobiography about an escort. she said half her job was counselling, pretty sure they are used the hearing just about everything

[Christmas]

was reading a book called hooked, an autobiography about an escort. she said half her job was counselling, pretty sure they are used the hearing just about everything

ohh... I was just lurking some random stuffs and this is interesting !

[ILAW74]

Reactions and acceptance or sympathy depend on the girl. I would be happy to hear about their lives too. Lots of people come to massage shops because they are lonely and find it hard to meet people in everyday circumstances and it's hard to find people willing to listen or make you feel not so lonely in this world.

50% want to try for something extra or fs
20,% genuine massage only
30% at least fall in the lonely category and may be unhappy in their personal lives.

Some may encompass all the categories.

[Laughandsmile]

How long does it take to learn how to properly make coffee? Just interested to know. Is it a difficult skill?

It's human nature. Some people need to connect at some level if they aren't getting that fulfilment else where. You can get your self caught in a situation if you're not careful

Hahahaaa I thought JackRabbit was responding to androc and thought wow coffee must be really really special to this guy

[Tall Focker]

The only time I would confess things to a WL would be if I was starting a relationship with her outside the shop. The convo would be 'OK let's start by telling eachother our first names!'

[henson69]

to me it us a business relationship. while there is small talk and you may get along with one wl better then another its not meant to be a relationship. you both know why you are there.

[marg]

Most WL or even bosses can be really quite chilled when you know them.
Once they know you quite well and know you are not a blabbermouth they can tell
you some interesting stories.
About celebrity's , sports , tv or even visiting movie stars they have seen or being to
their shop. These people deserve some time to themselves and so their privacy is
respected.

[PuntMeat]

Wait I'm confused...pretty much most of my sessions end with me quietly sobbing and me having to book another 15 or 30 minutes while they hold me and shhh me and tell me everything will be ok while stroking my cheek....

isn't that how most of yours end too??

[BongKong]

Wait I'm confused...pretty much most of my sessions end with me quietly sobbing and me having to book another 15 or 30 minutes while they hold me and shhh me and tell me everything will be ok while stroking my cheek....

isn't that how most of yours end too??

Do you get an extra shot away too?

[PuntMeat]

Do you get an extra shot away too?

extra??? sometimes I'm lucky to get one...

[xboyx]

how can you "come clean", literally.
will not end well i tell you, i've tried