Safe method to put on a condom

[henry_lawson]

It's alarming how many ML and WL have no idea of the safe method to put on a condom, and protection against STIs in general.

Many times they have had their own fingers in their snatch to lube up or whatever, then they put their fingers inside the condom to stretch it open. If they've got the clap or something, they've just spread the infection to the condom and probably me. There are only 2 methods in my book, both involve holding the condom only by the rim, and blowing to find which way to use it, (not the finger!)


1 - Place it on the erect member, then roll it on with lips
2 - Place on member and roll with hand.



Clearly there is little if any education being provided to our providers, one ML I saw earlier this year was on the verge of rubbing her pussy against my cock and seemed to have no idea of the risk of her to me or vice versa.

[Maxybro]

It's alarming how many ML and WL have no idea of the safe method to put on a condom, and protection against STIs in general.

Many times they have had their own fingers in their snatch to lube up or whatever, then they put their fingers inside the condom to stretch it open. If they've got the clap or something, they've just spread the infection to the condom and probably me. There are only 2 methods in my book, both involve holding the condom only by the rim, and blowing to find which way to use it, (not the finger!)


1 - Place it on the erect member, then roll it on with lips
2 - Place on member and roll with hand.



Clearly there is little if any education being provided to our providers, one ML I saw earlier this year was on the verge of rubbing her pussy against my cock and seemed to have no idea of the risk of her to me or vice versa.

Lol bro half the ML don't know how to massage properly and you expect them to know how to put on a condom?

You have a valid argument but if you are concerned just put the condom on yourself.

Do you receive bbbj?

[GoldfishMan]

It's alarming how many ML and WL have no idea of the safe method to put on a condom, and protection against STIs in general.

Many times they have had their own fingers in their snatch to lube up or whatever, then they put their fingers inside the condom to stretch it open. If they've got the clap or something, they've just spread the infection to the condom and probably me. There are only 2 methods in my book, both involve holding the condom only by the rim, and blowing to find which way to use it, (not the finger!)


1 - Place it on the erect member, then roll it on with lips
2 - Place on member and roll with hand.



Clearly there is little if any education being provided to our providers, one ML I saw earlier this year was on the verge of rubbing her pussy against my cock and seemed to have no idea of the risk of her to me or vice versa.
You forgot other options:
3. Bring rubber gloves, ask girl to wear them when putting condom on you. Might even add to your pleasure if you have a thing for gloves.
4. Don't punt

[shootermcgavin]

Good luck with your std's boys, I play proper safe:

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS_4uKZ82DliXzqdDOGHqzqvrGeW-P3kq7P0hELEbc8pz6jWdKshV5GUQZ-

[Chips]

Why hold the rim? Right way up or not, the part that's being touched goes directly onto the glans (where the mucous membranes are, and infection occurs). If you're worried about infections spread by touch, your method offers the same outcome as putting fingers inside the condom, because it is the same. To avoid this, the tip, specifically, is what's held because once it's rolled on, the clean inside of the condom is the only thing contacting the penis.

If the tip is held on the wrong side and applied, you throw it out and grab a new one (for her protection). Also, the tip needs to be pinched so any air is removed.

[Punterman2]

What are those "condom" things you are referring to ?:cool2::cool2:

[Chips]

What are those "condom" things you are referring to ?:cool2::cool2:

Please tell me you're getting tested regularly.

[Punterman2]

Please tell me you're getting tested regularly.


Yes I do test girls out regularly. Every day in fact :shout:

[cleetusvandamme]

Yes I do test girls out regularly. Every day in fact :shout:

Hopefully they're getting tested regularly.
I think you mentioned before that your marital relations are non existent now right?

[Alan86]

My favourite method is when they put it on with their mouth!

Don't know how safe that is!

[CunningLinguist]

What are those "condom" things you are referring to ?:cool2::cool2:

I wish you would stop boasting about BBFS, you are making the punting environment unsafer for all of us.

[Chips]

Yes I do test girls out regularly. Every day in fact :shout:

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy reading your reviews and posts, but this is legitimately upsetting. Punting every day is perfectly fine; more power to you! Enjoy yourself while you can, as long as you're not harming anyone...

This is where my concern kicks in. All joking aside, BBFS is a serious worry. I don't know how regularly this happens with you, besides the one video that was shared, but others may share my concern for good reason.

I could take the hard road and tell you to stop, because it is actually a WHS issue at the very least, but I won't. I don't expect you to listen and I don't anticipate any behaviours to change. What I will say is: I'm sure you acknowledge this is an unsafe practice that you choose to engage in, despite the known risks. Surely that's a fair assumption to make.

If you respect yourself, respect these ladies and respect other people who see them, then regular testing to keep yourself and others as safe as possible is of the utmost importance. Wouldn't you agree? Knowing the risks and proceeding anyway is a gamble you and other willing parties have chosen to take—please don't increase the risks for others that may be affected by that decision, but have no input.

Testing is an early warning system for yourself and others to take the correct action. Waiting until symptoms present themselves only allows for diseases to spread further. Many people can be infected and not present with any symptoms whatsoever, but are still contagious. A couple of examples are gonorrhea and chlamydia: they may be asymptomatic in women and cause Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID). PID can also be asymptomatic, until severe damage has already occurred. Outcomes of PID can be infertility, chronic pain, disability and, left untreated, death. Men aren't immune to this, but women are more susceptible. That's just one reason why testing is so important.

If this is a regular thing, it's considered to be "high risk" activity and requires more frequent testing (not heaps, just more than lower risk persons). Luckily, testing is relatively quick and easy; I'm talking blood sample, urine sample and maybe a swab or two. Best of all: it's covered by Medicare.

I only partake in unprotected oral, which is not without risks, but is considered low risk. Even then, I still get myself routinely tested. Condoms aren't a guarantee of protection, but it's infinitely better than none at all. Vaccines for hepatitis A and B are also a good idea, if you've not had them already.

Please be safe. Get tested. Protect yourself and others too.

[CunningLinguist]

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy reading your reviews and posts, but this is legitimately upsetting. Punting every day is perfectly fine; more power to you! Enjoy yourself while you can, as long as you're not harming anyone...

This is where my concern kicks in. All joking aside, BBFS is a serious worry. I don't know how regularly this happens with you, besides the one video that was shared, but others may share my concern for good reason.

I could take the hard road and tell you to stop, because it is actually a WHS issue at the very least, but I won't. I don't expect you to listen and I don't anticipate any behaviours to change. What I will say is: I'm sure you acknowledge this is an unsafe practice that you choose to engage in, despite the known risks. Surely that's a fair assumption to make.

If you respect yourself, respect these ladies and respect other people who see them, then regular testing to keep yourself and others as safe as possible is of the utmost importance. Wouldn't you agree? Knowing the risks and proceeding anyway is a gamble you and other willing parties have chosen to take—please don't increase the risks for others that may be affected by that decision, but have no input.

Testing is an early warning system for yourself and others to take the correct action. Waiting until symptoms present themselves only allows for diseases to spread further. Many people can be infected and not present with any symptoms whatsoever, but are still contagious. A couple of examples are gonorrhea and chlamydia: they may be asymptomatic in women and cause Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID). PID can also be asymptomatic, until severe damage has already occurred. Outcomes of PID can be infertility, chronic pain, disability and, left untreated, death. Men aren't immune to this, but women are more susceptible. That's just one reason why testing is so important.

If this is a regular thing, it's considered to be "high risk" activity and requires more frequent testing (not heaps, just more than lower risk persons). Luckily, testing is relatively quick and easy; I'm talking blood sample, urine sample and maybe a swab or two. Best of all: it's covered by Medicare.

I only partake in unprotected oral, which is not without risks, but is considered low risk. Even then, I still get myself routinely tested. Condoms aren't a guarantee of protection, but it's infinitely better than none at all. Vaccines for hepatitis A and B are also a good idea, if you've not had them already.

Please be safe. Get tested. Protect yourself and others too.

+1 to the above post.

The thing that I find disturbing with PM2 is that he boasts openly, and even more so privately, about BBFS and then openly admits he is still fucking his wife.
This is the sort of behaviour you would expect from someone who is told they only have 6 months to live, or a narcissist (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder).

Here is where he says he still does it with his wife, note he is posting as jonnyboy which is his first login, but he was banned and all posts deleted so only quotes of his posts remain:
http://forum.aus99.com/showthread.php?59006-Most-number-of-WLs-in-one-day-or-night&p=862393&viewfull=1#post862393

I don't have erectile dysfunction as I still have great sex with my wife.

[CunningLinguist]

Actually i am starting to think he (PM2) is a coke head, this would explain his behavior.

[Alan86]

I personally would never BBFS with WLs - its Russian roulette!

Also, yes it is irresponsible and making the punting scene more dangerous for everyone, but a lot of people don't see it that way. It's like excessive speeding and drink driving - they make the roads dangerous for everyone but how many people do it? People don't think it through.

I'm not going to single out Punterman though. There's a sea of punters who chase BBFS.

[Christmas]

Yeah pm2 enough is enough.
I still like you but bbfs.,. That's no-no
Damn imagine what if i really had sex @bunnings... i'd kill myselfㅋ

[Maxybro]

Actually i am starting to think he (PM2) is a coke head, this would explain his behavior.

I've been telling him to get help all along. Some here thought I'm just picking on him. He is either a compulsive liar or has a very bad case of sex addiction. Whichever one it is, he needs professional help.
BBFS must be another reason why he visits the discount shops. The gilfs working there are more likely to offer it.

Get some help. This is not a joke.

[henry_lawson]

Why hold the rim? Right way up or not, the part that's being touched goes directly onto the glans (where the mucous membranes are, and infection occurs). If you're worried about infections spread by touch, your method offers the same outcome as putting fingers inside the condom, because it is the same. To avoid this, the tip, specifically, is what's held because once it's rolled on, the clean inside of the condom is the only thing contacting the penis.

If the tip is held on the wrong side and applied, you throw it out and grab a new one (for her protection). Also, the tip needs to be pinched so any air is removed.
Yes, you are dead right, I didn't think it through properly.
To the other respondent, I had a BBBJ once a long time ago because the offer of CIM was too tempting, but as she ran and spat it out immediately, it took the shine off the experience (and of course she should have), and I spent the next week dreading finding a pustule on my cock. I resolved the pleasure wasn't worth the anxiety and resolved never again with a ML/WL, and I've stuck to that.

[Punterman2]

https://i.imgur.com/V6bZNvR_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=high


https://i.imgur.com/m23YZPy_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=high

[Chips]

Punterman, it's not a joking matter. You know what it's not too late to do? Get tested.

Go here tomorrow (http://www.wslhd.health.nsw.gov.au/Western-Sydney-Sexual-Health-Centre), to the Western Sydney Sexual Health Centre.

Level 1, Jeffery House
162 Marsden Street
Parramatta NSW 2150

02 9843 3124

They're open 09:00–16:00.

Google Maps link (https://www.google.com.au/maps/place/Western+Sydney+Sexual+Health+Centre+(Parramatta+Cl inic)/@-33.8118175,151.0003473,17z/data=!4m13!1m7!3m6!1s0x6b12a31e3bc087b5:0xc985265b fd6df273!2s1%2F162+Marsden+St,+Parramatta+NSW+2150 !3b1!8m2!3d-33.812334!4d151.0015672!3m4!1s0x6b12a31e20e3ccdb:0 x3d2ad6a76e2aec6e!8m2!3d-33.811822!4d151.002536)

Call ahead and make an appointment or just walk in and tell them you're there to get tested, they'll take care of the rest. Think of it as an hour FS for free; that's too good to pass up!

There's no judgement, the staff there are wonderful. Everything is confidential and your name won't be used on samples or in communications (and you're in control of who initiates contact for results and how). All they care about is making sure that you and others are as safe as possible from STIs. They want to be there and they want to help; it's not just a job to them.

I'll actually be calling them tomorrow for my the results of my last test.

[Punterman2]

Punterman, it's not a joking matter. You know what it's not too late to do? Get tested.

Go here tomorrow (http://www.wslhd.health.nsw.gov.au/Western-Sydney-Sexual-Health-Centre), to the Western Sydney Sexual Health Centre.

Level 1, Jeffery House
162 Marsden Street
Parramatta NSW 2150

02 9843 3124

They're open 09:00–16:00.

Google Maps link (https://www.google.com.au/maps/place/Western+Sydney+Sexual+Health+Centre+(Parramatta+Cl inic)/@-33.8118175,151.0003473,17z/data=!4m13!1m7!3m6!1s0x6b12a31e3bc087b5:0xc985265b fd6df273!2s1%2F162+Marsden+St,+Parramatta+NSW+2150 !3b1!8m2!3d-33.812334!4d151.0015672!3m4!1s0x6b12a31e20e3ccdb:0 x3d2ad6a76e2aec6e!8m2!3d-33.811822!4d151.002536)

Call ahead and make an appointment or just walk in and tell them you're there to get tested, they'll take care of the rest. Think of it as an hour FS for free; that's too good to pass up!

There's no judgement, the staff there are wonderful. Everything is confidential and your name won't be used on samples or in communications (and you're in control of who initiates contact for results and how). All they care about is making sure that you and others are as safe as possible from STIs. They want to be there and they want to help; it's not just a job to them.

I'll actually be calling them tomorrow for my the results of my last test.

Thanks, I'll actually be punting tomorrow for two hours with a 24 year old, so I won't have time. Appreciate the advice though.

[Chips]

Thanks, I'll actually be punting tomorrow for two hours with a 24 year old, so I won't have time. Appreciate the advice though.

Yeah, it's unfortunate you're unable to visit in the remaining 5 hours they're open that don't coincide with your punting session.

It's a damn shame that you're so cavalier about your health, and the health of others. Know that the BBFS on offer to you is also on offer to others, and some of them could have your attitude, or worse. I hope, for everyone's sake, that none of you are infected with anything truly serious; even though it's a pipe dream.

Since you visit all the shops in my area at a frequency far greater than I do, I'll have to cease going entirely. For the time being, while I still reside in the same area as you, I'll return to visiting privates only.

[CunningLinguist]

I'm glad he doesn't go (can't go :)) to the more expensive shops, and that he is happy to see the more experienced not so fit WLs.

[Babycat]

Actually i am starting to think he (PM2) is a coke head, this would explain his behavior.
I think you don't have to get frustrated with pt2. Actually you are giving him attention as well as some members (good or bad way) that makes him think that he's really cool. Then those possible fiction might be continued. Best waybis to ignore the story. You will get bored when no one listens to you but you can only talk to your knees.:cool2: . Never got my attention.

Punterman, it's not a joking matter. You know what it's not too late to do? Get tested.

Go here tomorrow (http://www.wslhd.health.nsw.gov.au/Western-Sydney-Sexual-Health-Centre), to the Western Sydney Sexual Health Centre.

Level 1, Jeffery House
162 Marsden Street
Parramatta NSW 2150

02 9843 3124

They're open 09:00–16:00.

Google Maps link (https://www.google.com.au/maps/place/Western+Sydney+Sexual+Health+Centre+(Parramatta+Cl inic)/@-33.8118175,151.0003473,17z/data=!4m13!1m7!3m6!1s0x6b12a31e3bc087b5:0xc985265b fd6df273!2s1%2F162+Marsden+St,+Parramatta+NSW+2150 !3b1!8m2!3d-33.812334!4d151.0015672!3m4!1s0x6b12a31e20e3ccdb:0 x3d2ad6a76e2aec6e!8m2!3d-33.811822!4d151.002536)
Call ahead and make an appointment or just walk in and tell them you're there to get tested, they'll take care of the rest. Think of it as an hour FS for free; that's too good to pass up!

There's no judgement, the staff there are wonderful. Everything is confidential and your name won't be used on samples or in communications (and you're in control of who initiates contact for results and how). All they care about is making sure that you and others are as safe as possible from STIs. They want to be there and they want to help; it's not just a job to them.

I'll actually be calling them tomorrow for my the results of my last test.

We can't force a buffalo to drink. He wants to play with Dead, so let him do it and take responsibility for it. But it's necessary to not let the idea of bbfs become "popular " or "normal ". Who wants to destroy yourself with Russian rullets, does it. Who cares about him? I don't.

[cleetusvandamme]

I'd put money on him having gonorrhoea or chlamydia.
Not just Russian roulette for him, it's not fair on wl's or punters.
He's like a little kid but his behaviour mustn't be normalised in a forum like this.

[harmsup_jai]

Yeah pm2 enough is enough.
I still like you but bbfs.,. That's no-no
Damn imagine what if i really had sex @bunnings... i'd kill myselfㅋ

they have nice sausages at Bunnings 😂

[Chips]

We can't force a buffalo to drink. He wants to play with Dead, so let him do it and take responsibility for it. But it's necessary to not let the idea of bbfs become "popular " or "normal ". Who wants to destroy yourself with Russian rullets, does it. Who cares about him? I don't.

I know. I mentioned that I can't expect him to change his behaviour in an earlier reply. I still hoped that information and peace of mind might get him to take some basic action.

It's possible to let comments about BBFS slide, but the more that happens, the more normal or accepted it might seem. I don't want to see that occur, hence why I'm making a little effort. Infection rates are already on the rise because of similar attitudes, which is concerning.

You might not care about him, but what about the ladies he sees? What about the other people who see the ladies after him? The thing with Russian roulette is it's only meant to be dangerous to those who choose to take part. Punterman's behaviour is like putting more rounds in the cylinder and aiming it at others who aren't playing.

[Babycat]

Actually i am starting to think he (PM2) is a coke head, this would explain his behavior.


I know. I mentioned that I can't expect him to change his behaviour in an earlier reply. I still hoped that information and peace of mind might get him to take some basic action.

It's possible to let comments about BBFS slide, but the more that happens, the more normal or accepted it might seem. I don't want to see that occur, hence why I'm making a little effort. Infection rates are already on the rise because of similar attitudes, which is concerning.

You might not care about him, but what about the ladies he sees? What about the other people who see the ladies after him? The thing with Russian roulette is it's only meant to be dangerous to those who choose to take part. Punterman's behaviour is like putting more rounds in the cylinder and aiming it at others who aren't playing.
I really understand why you take it serious. Hope everyone has same attitude. Just feel like were talking with a naughty kid who wants to get lots of attention that in reality he couldn't have :thirst:

[harrycd]

I always ask the WL to put on a hardhat, goggles and hi viz before placing a rubber on my lil fella. Workplace safety is no joke.

[Chips]

I really understand why you take it serious. Hope everyone has same attitude. Just feel like were talking with a naughty kid who wants to get lots of attention that in reality he couldn't have :thirst:

I wished everyone had the same attitude, but that's not realistically achievable. The best we can hope for is increasing awareness through education and a change in culture.

We're very close to gonorrhoea being immune to every effective antibiotic. There's only 2 left and we have to use them both simultaneously when treating gonorrhoea to buy us more time to find something else (it might not be enough). Attitudes should change rather quickly if we get to that point.

There's no doubt you're right in thinking we're bashing our heads against a brick wall here. He might have to learn the hard way: by impairing his health at worst, or dissolving his marriage at best. I would've mentioned these things affecting others, but that doesn't appear to concern him. The only way someone like this has a hope of changing is if they suffer direct repercussions.

[AHLUNGOR]

Yeah, it's unfortunate you're unable to visit in the remaining 5 hours they're open that don't coincide with your punting session.

It's a damn shame that you're so cavalier about your health, and the health of others. Know that the BBFS on offer to you is also on offer to others, and some of them could have your attitude, or worse. I hope, for everyone's sake, that none of you are infected with anything truly serious; even though it's a pipe dream.

Since you visit all the shops in my area at a frequency far greater than I do, I'll have to cease going entirely. For the time being, while I still reside in the same area as you, I'll return to visiting privates only.


Thanks Dr Chips,

For all your good advices here and elsewhere !

I think bbfs must be taken very seriously and I think it's not something the forum and all the responsible shop owners would tolerate in general.

But very unfortunately and the sad reality is that there are punters who are actively out there looking and hunting for this kind of unsafe services and they either don't care or worst still , happily spreading things around if you know what I mean !

Let's all be very careful out there !

Cheers


Ps. I don't know about you guys, if I ever hear winds about any WLs or MLs who would offer bbfs, I stay the hell away immediately!

[James_jones]

Ps. I don't know about you guys, if I ever hear winds about any WLs or MLs who would offer bbfs, I stay the hell away immediately!

I mostly see privates and when booking ask how much extra for bbfs. If they reply with a number I do not visit them. It is reasonable to assume that even girls who do not offer in this manner will do it at times, however if anyone can just pony up $50 extra.. no thanks.

[Chips]

Thanks Dr Chips,

For all your good advices here and elsewhere !

I think bbfs must be taken very seriously and I think it's not something the forum and all the responsible shop owners would tolerate in general.

But very unfortunately and the sad reality is that there are punters who are actively out there looking and hunting for this kind of unsafe services and they either don't care or worst still , happily spreading things around if you know what I mean !

Let's all be very careful out there !

Cheers

Ps. I don't know about you guys, if I ever hear winds about any WLs or MLs who would offer bbfs, I stay the hell away immediately!

You're welcome, AHLUNGOR. Thank you for your kind words.

There is hope for those who may be ignorant to the risks involved. Those are the ones whose attitudes might be changed, one way or another. The people who knowingly spread infection, well… there are a few choice words for them.

In regards to BBFS being on offer, our reactions are identical. My reaction is the same if I discover drugs, particularly IV drugs, are used by a WL; risks of HIV and hep C skyrocket immediately.


I mostly see privates and when booking ask how much extra for bbfs. If they reply with a number I do not visit them. It is reasonable to assume that even girls who do not offer in this manner will do it at times, however if anyone can just pony up $50 extra.. no thanks.

Unfortunately, viruses and bacteria don't respond to bribery.

They could charge as much as they want for BBFS, it doesn't matter. Wealthy people have STIs too.

[GoldfishMan]

Punterman, I too was addicted to bbfs for a while. Actively went looking for it. But after a while, I developed a way to fight it. Here's how I did it:
- get yourself some Japanese 0.01 condoms. There's a Japanese make up shop on George Street in the city that used to stock them, not sure if they still do.
- switch to rnt only for a while
- limit your fs punts. I think I started having the urge for bbfs when I was doing fs too often. Something like 4 times a week I would get some. This was during the hey days of Moc. It got to the point where I couldn't stay aroused and hard enough for good sex. I was just too jaded, seen all of them done all of them. No girl was hot enough to get me going! Cutting down was the best thing I did fort myself! Good luck buddy. To all the other forum members, stop lecturing him like a parent to a child. Not gonna help.