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holi_day
25-10-2018, 01:42 PM
Just got reconnected last week with my regular after an awful one month coldwar following a wechat fight. I thought we know each other better.
After two crazy and passionate sex (one in the shop,one at her place,of cause I tipped her with money and small gift equivalent to what she can make at shop for the time), I was happily chatting to her this morning.
All went well and felt the strong connection. Great sex and feeling. Suddenly she changed topic and asked me to buy her a Sylvie small hangbag. Said it's only 3,000AUD surely I can afford it. With that money I can see her for over twenty hours at the shop.
I know it's not much for most of the punters in this forum. But I am kind of the person who drives a 2004 CRV. Never spend three grands on a handbag.
I replied that it's too expensive and she pushed until I went silent.
Should I come back and try to comfort her with something else or just leave it.
Happyman2018
25-10-2018, 01:52 PM
What for, unless u want her as ur gf
Momoe
25-10-2018, 01:54 PM
Just got reconnected last week with my regular after an awful one month coldwar following a wechat fight. I thought we know each other better.
After two crazy and passionate sex (one in the shop,one at her place,of cause I tipped her with money and small gift equivalent to what she can make at shop for the time), I was happily chatting to her this morning.
All went well and felt the strong connection. Great sex and feeling. Suddenly she changed topic and asked me to buy her a Sylvie small hangbag. Said it's only 3,000AUD surely I can afford it. With that money I can see her for over twenty hours at the shop.
I know it's not much for most of the punters in this forum. But I am kind of the person who drives a 2004 CRV. Never spend three grands on a handbag.
I replied that it's too expensive and she pushed until I went silent.
Should I come back and try to comfort her with something else or just leave it.
Ask yourself, are you willing to spend that amount on someone thats likely treating you as a sugar daddy.
BlackToad
25-10-2018, 02:12 PM
No, not unless you want to be treated just as a sugar daddy. If you just want to punt then think of it in terms of value for money- as you said $3000 is a lot of punts - 10 Ginza visits or double that in a budget shop.
If you want a gf type relationship then I would not look at this WL for that. A real gf who you had a genuine relationship with wouldn’t care about you buying her a $3000 handbag.
Personally I would run for the hills on this one.
paddington244
25-10-2018, 02:17 PM
I would put roller skates on
Shane
Raybo
25-10-2018, 02:28 PM
Get her the matching purse as well and stop into Tiffany's on the way home and get her a nice necklace to really impress her. If you have to max the credit card out, just apply for another one.
krnboy
25-10-2018, 02:32 PM
No red flags going off for you? Seems like she's using you bud. She ain't your gf or wife. In saying that what Toad had said, if your gf or wife is genuine, they wouldn't ask $3k for a bag but to save that $3k for a future together. She might've asked the same thing from other guys also. Just be careful :)
xboyx
25-10-2018, 02:46 PM
tell her "I would buy you a $5000 hand bag when you officially become my girlfriend", this will motivate her enough and let you fuck her brains out for many times more, but you know ... she will never really become your real girlfriend, that one day will never come, you decide.
holi_day
25-10-2018, 02:47 PM
Thanks everyone for the advices. I kind of knew what I should do. And I knew it would appear stupid even asking. But I just want to hear from someone and it's not something that I can discuss with any of my friends or relatives. Feel better when I vent it out.
I am gonna buy myself a nice G-shock which I have been hesitating for a while. And still got plenty left out of the three grands I can exploring new pussies. 😆😆
Lick her boots.
Ask her "Beamer, Benz, or Bentley?"
Take out a second mortgage.
Then 5 payday loans.
Budgyboy
25-10-2018, 03:06 PM
All good advice here mate, just stick to punting and leave it there. $3k can be waaaaay better spent on yourself other than a handbag that will be getting carried around as she is at the casino with some other nuffy that booked a room and is spending $150 bets on blackjack table with her.
holi_day
25-10-2018, 03:22 PM
All good advice here mate, just stick to punting and leave it there. $3k can be waaaaay better spent on yourself other than a handbag that will be getting carried around as she is at the casino with some other nuffy that booked a room and is spending $150 bets on blackjack table with her.
Thanks mate. That's so true!
rrc36
25-10-2018, 03:27 PM
Just got reconnected last week with my regular after an awful one month coldwar following a wechat fight. I thought we know each other better.
After two crazy and passionate sex (one in the shop,one at her place,of cause I tipped her with money and small gift equivalent to what she can make at shop for the time), I was happily chatting to her this morning.
All went well and felt the strong connection. Great sex and feeling. Suddenly she changed topic and asked me to buy her a Sylvie small hangbag. Said it's only 3,000AUD surely I can afford it. With that money I can see her for over twenty hours at the shop.
I know it's not much for most of the punters in this forum. But I am kind of the person who drives a 2004 CRV. Never spend three grands on a handbag.
I replied that it's too expensive and she pushed until I went silent.
Should I come back and try to comfort her with something else or just leave it.
What? Hell no. Lol
she's not you gf . why are you chatting with her so much on wechat and buying her stuff . it should only be paid fuck her and leave .
I disagree with icecool on alot, but that's one thing I'll definitely agree with.
Peter69
25-10-2018, 04:20 PM
Run mate fucken run
Starved
25-10-2018, 04:32 PM
Go too her shop when she’s working and see another girl.
That would tell her what you think of her hand bag .
The Speechwriter
25-10-2018, 05:14 PM
Go too her shop when she’s working and see another girl.
That would tell her what you think of her hand bag .
You nailed it Mr S.
Better still, order a double.
rooter
25-10-2018, 05:30 PM
two words for you bro. DUMP HER!
holi_day
25-10-2018, 06:20 PM
Go too her shop when she’s working and see another girl.
That would tell her what you think of her hand bag .
Maybe I should keep doing this until I spent $3K. 😂😂
Starmamu
25-10-2018, 11:42 PM
Awww hellll no
$3000???
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Just got reconnected last week with my regular after an awful one month coldwar following a wechat fight. I thought we know each other better.
After two crazy and passionate sex (one in the shop,one at her place,of cause I tipped her with money and small gift equivalent to what she can make at shop for the time), I was happily chatting to her this morning.
All went well and felt the strong connection. Great sex and feeling. Suddenly she changed topic and asked me to buy her a Sylvie small hangbag. Said it's only 3,000AUD surely I can afford it. With that money I can see her for over twenty hours at the shop.
I know it's not much for most of the punters in this forum. But I am kind of the person who drives a 2004 CRV. Never spend three grands on a handbag.
I replied that it's too expensive and she pushed until I went silent.
Should I come back and try to comfort her with something else or just leave it.
No!
Do hell with her!
I once bought a $250 bag to a WL.
After few days I saw her Wechat and she was thanking someone for buying her a $5000 Chanel or Prada bag.
That's the day I realize I was never gonna win. I stopped seeing her altogether.
holi_day
26-10-2018, 06:43 AM
No!
Do hell with her!
I once bought a $250 bag to a WL.
After few days I saw her Wechat and she was thanking someone for buying her a $5000 Chanel or Prada bag.
That's the day I realize I was never gonna win. I stopped seeing her altogether.
I wonder what are these people thinking buying WL luxury stuff while she works in a budget shop. Especially spending thousands on a handbag is not one-off thing. You go out with her, eat drink, play, buy and keep spending. With that money you can fuck her as many times as you want in the shop and of cause still good GFE during these sessions.
Maybe it's just what ordinary people like me don't live in the same world with rich people. 😂😂
And also I believe she has other client(s) bought her similar luxury stuff, took her out by buying long hours of her time from the shop for meals, drinks and shop around......Not sure if I would do it even I can afford it.
bluestone
26-10-2018, 08:21 PM
What for, unless u want her as ur gf
há my opinion is the same as yours they are all looking for money and you paid for high-end restaurante.
LookingForTheOne
26-10-2018, 08:52 PM
How long will she stick around for if you do buy the gift? What will she ask for next. I have been asked for money and I too asked the Forum. They can make this sort of money within 1 week. I see girls in and out of the shops. When they ask me to come to shop I just tell them i have no money.. If they really want to see me they will say I dont have to pay for extras, or in privates its all free. I have always tipped even if they have said come for free though.
GoldfishMan
27-10-2018, 09:31 AM
A real gf who you had a genuine relationship with wouldn’t care about you buying her a $3000 handbag.
Actually, she would.... No girl would turn down a $3000 handbag gift. Demanding for it is another thing though.... That is just a cheesy move!
woods23
27-10-2018, 12:54 PM
The only thing they can ask by them is "lunch " i don't mind it at all.....anything else they can get fck :anger:
That's why u should always pay her for extras u own her nothing nd is just a business transaction.
Too many lonely guys out there they fall for it most the time.
Once I read a ml phone the conversation is " what brand of hand bag u like" nd "how about yourfriend"?
I just shook my head in disbelive... cant he see these girls is using him? Lol
Her friend used him for over night for $2000 nd later down to $500 he have no money in his saving...as she sucked him dry.
At least he scored bbfs from her.
I think it went for few months nd the saddest thing is she old nd not even pretty lol.
bbongobboy
27-10-2018, 01:01 PM
Careful. A WL who wants gifts from you is likely not true to you.
Never buy love or friendship; buy sex by all means, but if you have to pay for love or friendship then it’s not and never was anything but unreciprocated. It will rot your heart from the inside out, or it will turn you into an uncaring cynical bastard, or both. Just look at me.
krnboy
27-10-2018, 01:54 PM
I think holi_day got the idea :)
Hurstyronny
27-10-2018, 02:35 PM
Ask the shop if you can trade your CRV for the bag.
bluestone
27-10-2018, 04:06 PM
Ask the shop if you can trade your CRV for the bag.
2004 CRV about 7000 you can get 2 bags:vomit:
holi_day
27-10-2018, 05:45 PM
2004 CRV about 7000 you can get 2 bags:vomit:
No I love my CRV 😂
bluestone
27-10-2018, 08:29 PM
No I love my CRV
I love my 2005 Rav 4:miao:
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