Falling/dating ML or WL

[krnboy]

Just as it says, I read some threads of punters falling for ML or WL. Most of us know not to but some still do anyway. I know and understand you can't control emotions.

So what I like to know for the guys that do, how do you develop these feelings knowing other punters like to pound the shit out of your "gf"?

[Budgyboy]

Dont fall, just dont.

[bbongobboy]

Hello Chaps!

There isn't a punter alive that hasn't awoken one night and wondered 'is she really into me?' and 'I bet she's busy having the time of her life with a guy who drives a better car than me'.

There isn't a WL alive that hasn't stared at a mirror during the wee small hours applying gaudy makeup, silently wishing 'that last guest' would get hit by a car on the way home and wondered about her favourite regular 'He hasn't been to see me in two weeks! Doesn't he know that I have a good heart and that I'm stopping as soon as I pay off my fourth Sydney apartment because I really hate this job.'

Just sayin'

BB

[Effindahead]

I am dating one. Been few months, texting everyday, gone for dates etc still have some doubts but im just enjoying the moments though. She promised she'd quit and have a relationship with me next year. But i take it lightly. See what happens next, if we are meant to be then we will be..

[Momoe]

Hard to know whether a ML/WL is really serious or truthful to you. Only time and having strong perceptions would tell. I have been with some thats just using me for their own convenience. But been with one for a year, managed to get her quit her job and just living normally now.

But be warned, those that really liked you, may have a strong sense of jealousy and paranoid since they know you have punted before.

[sukeong]

Interestingly for someone who loves his wife and presumably not punting anymore, OP sure spends alot of time on a punting forum.

[wilisno]

Interestingly for someone who loves his wife and presumably not punting anymore, OP sure spends alot of time on a punting forum.

And curious about falling for and dating a WL ? ;) ;) ;)

[BlackToad]

But be warned, those that really liked you, may have a strong sense of jealousy and paranoid since they know you have punted before.

This is why I think a relationship between ML/WL and punter is doomed to fail from the start. The ML/WL knows you are a punter and will always be suspicious that you are seeing other girls. Many punters on the other hand can’t handle knowing that their gf is fucking other guys day in and day out.

Even if you feel a connection with some girls it’s best not to get involved. Punt, have fun and then go home.

[Raybo]

Kate Iselin is a sex worker that is a blogger and writes for one of the Sydney papers pretty regularly. She actually said that if she got into a relationship it would have to be with a punter essentially because they would be more understanding of her work!

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/sex/kate-iselin-writes-why-i-only-date-men-who-visit-sex-workers/news-story/fe5c15936ca7f8994a35351729a0ca4f

[opimrs]

Do not under any circumstances read her after reports.

A beloved forum member has had to talk me down several times after reading that shit.

So don't read her after reports.

Ever.

Sound advice. I have and it made me feel terrible

[Riff888]

Kate Iselin is a sex worker that is a blogger and writes for one of the Sydney papers pretty regularly. She actually said that if she got into a relationship it would have to be with a punter essentially because they would be more understanding of her work!

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/sex/kate-iselin-writes-why-i-only-date-men-who-visit-sex-workers/news-story/fe5c15936ca7f8994a35351729a0ca4fYeah, I read her column as well. Very interesting for punters.

She even goes on dates and tells the guys she's a sex worker.

She finds dating really hard in Sydney and so do I.

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[studsg]

She finds dating really hard in Sydney and so do I.

I'm curious, why do you find dating really hard in Sydney ?

Are you referring to dating a WL or ML in Sydney is hard ?

Or dating a normal lady in Sydney is hard ?

Sydney Ladies are demanding ?

[Riff888]

I'm curious, why do you find dating really hard in Sydney ?

Are you referring to dating a WL or ML in Sydney is hard ?

Or dating a normal lady in Sydney is hard ?

Sydney Ladies are demanding ?I think there's just too much choice and no patience on both parties with all these apps.

If you don't like an aspect of someone you either ghost someone or the same happens to you.

I've had more luck at speed dating but most of the girls are not attractive.

Plus I can't handle girls who are too controlling. Wanting to always be with you, you have to go to family parties. This was quite funny when dating Chinese girls and everyone's speaking Chinese except you, you just smile at everyone. The worst are girls that want to know your finances and tell you how to spend money.

I find dating WLs easy going and relaxed.

I don't know, maybe punting has warped my sense of reality. I think you'll have the same issues with a WL if you move in with them.

So my perfect scenario, to be in a serious relationship but live in separate houses.

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[Raybo]

Yeah, I read her column as well. Very interesting for punters.

She even goes on dates and tells the guys she's a sex worker.

She finds dating really hard in Sydney and so do I.

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Yeah. I like how she thinks that the right type of punter will be able to relate to her and even give her some type of empathy and compassion.

Ooohhh.....T minus 5 minutes.........go forth Sir Riff888 and root! Enjoy! 🤣🤣🤣

[Niceguy11]

It's easy for this type of thing to happen. You need to remind yourself that she's a WL and that sooner rather than later, some random punter will be rooting her and all the rest.

You need to disconnect from the emotions, but still have that connection when you see her. The way I overcome falling for a WL is to treat her like a good friend. That's it. Nothing more and nothing less.

Enjoy the time with her and if you happen to catch up outside of the shop, just enjoy the moment. Don't get clingy etc because I'm certain most WL's have their regulars they catch up with as well.

[bronte]

Do not under any circumstances read her after reports.

A beloved forum member has had to talk me down several times after reading that shit.

So don't read her after reports.

Ever.

Ain’t her fault other guys can get it up brah!

[wilisno]

On the other hand, falling for a WL/ML is not all bad either, it shows the punter is not totally desensitised of feelings and touch towards the opposite sex, he’ still capable of developing loving feelings, unlike some seasoned punters who can’t even remember the girls’ look as soon as they left ! ;) ;) ;)

But it’s best if one can remain in control of his own feelings, not chasing something for the sake of chasing, knows when to pause and access the situation ! ;) ;) ;)

[bluestone]

[QUOTE=Budgyboy;1554359]Dont fall, just dont.[/QUOTE

They are all looking for love/money

[Riff888]

Yeah. I like how she thinks that the right type of punter will be able to relate to her and even give her some type of empathy and compassion.

Ooohhh.....T minus 5 minutes.........go forth Sir Riff888 and root! Enjoy! [emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787]Hahahaha, hope you enjoy your session.

My session today was full of kisses, cuddles and lying in each other's arms. I think we both really needed it.

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[aussiegaigin]

I have a "platonic" relationship with my ML. We meet about once a month, have lunch and a friendly chat, discuss our love/sex lives, then go back to her place for a massage session, which I pay for.
Occasionally, I have been her partner at events.

No commitment, no expectations. It is just a lot less "sterile" than doing it in the shop.

[thaipussyhunter]

I am dating one. Been few months, texting everyday, gone for dates etc still have some doubts but im just enjoying the moments though. She promised she'd quit and have a relationship with me next year. But i take it lightly. See what happens next, if we are meant to be then we will be..

I'm not sure if it's "dating" but I don't pay for sex with my WL

I think it's impossible to have a serious relationship with her because of her work & consistent lies

The girl has 3 or 4...Maybe 5 iPhone
So I wonder who else is fucking her for free

She always tells me about the amazing sex she has, the different positions & FFFM sessions

I'm lucky to get a blow job or sex

I have to beg for it...How pathetic

[LookingForTheOne]

I am dating a massage lady now that has a partner at home and works in shop. I pay her the standard $50 in shop and we often have sex. We spend nights in hotel rooms go away for weekends or simply just hang. She has never asked for money outside of shop.

I understand what she does, She will tell me about her work day and the weird shit that happens behind closed doors. I am average in every way but she likes talking too me.

The way i see it is the Girls are an Actress. They play a part in a play, their job is to entertain and get people to keep coming back. At the end they go home and forgot about the audience until the following day.

I guess if you dont like the play, become the director. :)

[rooter]

The way i see it is the Girls are an Actress. They play a part in a play, their job is to entertain and get people to keep coming back. At the end they go home and forgot about the audience until the following day.

Exactly!
The WL and the punter are both performers in a one act play (sometimes 2 act play - or if you are Pussyhands 3 or 4 act play. LOL!).
We both play our roles and then we go home to our other roles.
Life is a series of roles: worker, father, boyfriend, colleague, customer, player, husband, brother, fan, friend ..
The point is to totally get into the role, to live it, breath it, feel it, experience it, be it ... and that's what life is ... and then you die ... and that's it.

[wilisno]

Exactly!
The WL and the punter are both performers in a one act play (sometimes 2 act play - or if you are Pussyhands 3 or 4 act play. LOL!).
We both play our roles and then we go home to our other roles.
Life is a series of roles: worker, father, boyfriend, colleague, customer, player, husband, brother, fan, friend ..
The point is to totally get into the role, to live it, breath it, feel it, experience it, be it ... and that's what life is ... and then you die ... and that's it.

That’s very sad, a very negative view of life ! Sounds like you don’t even know who or what your true self is ! ;) ;) ;)

Whatever floats your boat I guess !

[Effindahead]

I don't have intention dating her to have sex for free. Just trying to get to know her better and enjoying the time we spend together. I still see her once in a week or two when i want to have sex with her when she works but thats it. I don't ask for more, just being a genuine person to her.
I believe its all in your mind. Nothing is impossible and if theres a will, theres a way.

[Raybo]

Hahahaha, hope you enjoy your session.

My session today was full of kisses, cuddles and lying in each other's arms. I think we both really needed it.

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Always do with her! Though it is getting a little freaky how much in common we have.....our session was full of kisses, cuddles and you guessed it, lying in each others arms. Neither of us wanted it to stop. 😁😁😁

[Riff888]

Always do with her! Though it is getting a little freaky......our session was full of kisses, cuddles and you guessed it, lying in each others arms. Neither of us wanted it to stop. [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16]Sounds like an awesome Friday night punt.

Excellent for sleeping in on Saturday.

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[Starved]

Do not under any circumstances read her after reports.

A beloved forum member has had to talk me down several times after reading that shit.

So don't read her after reports.

Ever.

I think it’s a good idea to read her after report,it puts your experience with her in perspective.

[liminal]

I don't have intention dating her to have sex for free. Just trying to get to know her better and enjoying the time we spend together. I still see her once in a week or two when i want to have sex with her when she works but thats it. I don't ask for more, just being a genuine person to her.
I believe its all in your mind. Nothing is impossible and if theres a will, theres a way.


You wanting just to have sex , when the mood for you good ( nothing wrong with that ) but want to be genuine also. why?

Your paying her for sex in the confines of a shop, or you saying you want to genuinely cultivate your relationship so you can have sex with her privately ?

You are correct it’s all in the mind and when it is, those post midnight niggles... possibly likely , and genuinely will do your head in ...

[Effindahead]

If i want to have a relationship, i wanna be with someone that is genuine. So all the people are.
Paying her for sex is nothing to do with the relationship, its simply cos i feel the urge. And nope, i don't even need to cultivate the relationship, Ive done so and now i am letting it grow. Honestly I have gone through the process of doubting the girl - still have lil doubts every now and then, those negative thoughts, thats why i said its all in your mind, and they may not be true. But can u not tell or feel whether the person like u or not? Because I can. What if she lies? I don't care, cos id rather do something that i believe in than listen to what people say cos I don't live by peoples words. Just trying to be persevere and see the outcome myself. For me the rule is if u want love u gotta be ready to fall.
I have seen her AR couple of times, and i don't care at all. And i am a jealous type of guy. If asked why i don't care? If u have a wife, gf or dating someone, do u know for sure how many times they were fucked by other guys and how was itu? Id rather knowing the bitter truth than accepting lies. Its better for me to see what's on the table. Whether to take it or not, the choice is in my hand. Cos you cant give me the air thats mine to breathe can u?

[Riff888]

If i want to have a relationship, i wanna be with someone that is genuine. So all the people are.
Paying her for sex is nothing to do with the relationship, its simply cos i feel the urge. And nope, i don't even need to cultivate the relationship, Ive done so and now i am letting it grow. Honestly I have gone through the process of doubting the girl - still have lil doubts every now and then, those negative thoughts, thats why i said its all in your mind, and they may not be true. But can u not tell or feel whether the person like u or not? Because I can. What if she lies? I don't care, cos id rather do something that i believe in than listen to what people say cos I don't live by peoples words. Just trying to be persevere and see the outcome myself. For me the rule is if u want love u gotta be ready to fall.
I have seen her AR couple of times, and i don't care at all. And i am a jealous type of guy. If asked why i don't care? If u have a wife, gf or dating someone, do u know for sure how many times they were fucked by other guys and how was itu? Id rather knowing the bitter truth than accepting lies. Its better for me to see what's on the table. Whether to take it or not, the choice is in my hand. Cos you cant give me the air thats mine to breathe can u?True, you don't have to listen to anyone.

Go for it bro, life is too short.

Everyone deserves to be happy and live a normal life.

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[GoldfishMan]

I have seen her AR couple of times, and i don't care at all. And i am a jealous type of guy. If asked why i don't care? If u have a wife, gf or dating someone, do u know for sure how many times they were fucked by other guys and how was itu? Id rather knowing the bitter truth than accepting lies. Its better for me to see what's on the table. Whether to take it or not, the choice is in my hand. Cos you cant give me the air thats mine to breathe can u?
Besides, a lot of ARs here need to be taken with a big grain of salt, particularly when it goes on about "fucking nonstop for 1 hour" or "she came a 3 times" or "had 4 shots in 1 hour", etc. All power to you bro... Hope it turns out to be fulfilling for you!

[bronte]

I brought my WL an Apple iPhone

She deserves something for all the shit she has to put up with 4 days a week

But then again she earns at least $ 1250 a day tax free

$ 5,000 a week jerking off ICE addicts & acting like she cares about you...While I fuck her for free...Life is sweet

Uh no, brah... She got an I-Phone out of you. Which means you overpaid.

[Natsu]

Uh no, brah... She got an I-Phone out of you. Which means you overpaid.

Bahahahaha nice one

[Raybo]

I brought my WL an Apple iPhone

She deserves something for all the shit she has to put up with 4 days a week

But then again she earns at least $ 1250 a day tax free

$ 5,000 a week jerking off ICE addicts & acting like she cares about you...While I fuck her for free...Life is sweet

Whats this have to do with the price of fish in China during the summer months?

Angie dishing out freebies? Hell would surely freeze over before that happens. If you are copping freebies then the WL is paying Angies cut out of her pocket, something i wouldn't be comfortable with.

[bbongobboy]

I’ve never been with a WL who doesn’t cum at least 3 times per hour. Hell, some of them can cum when I simply touch their breasts or rub their belly.

Just sayin’

Disclaimer: This piece was written for the purpose of humour and is guaranteed to be at least seventy-five per cent fiction.


Besides, a lot of ARs here need to be taken with a big grain of salt, particularly when it goes on about "fucking nonstop for 1 hour" or "she came a 3 times" or "had 4 shots in 1 hour", etc. All power to you bro... Hope it turns out to be fulfilling for you!

[Climax598]

I’ve never been with a WL who doesn’t cum at least 3 times per hour. Hell, some of them can cum when I simply touch their breasts or rub their belly.

Just sayin’

Disclaimer: This piece was written for the purpose of humour and is guaranteed to be at least seventy-five per cent fiction.

Wow hands of God. That's good mate.

[liminal]

If i want to have a relationship, i wanna be with someone that is genuine. So all the people are.
Paying her for sex is nothing to do with the relationship, its simply cos i feel the urge. And nope, i don't even need to cultivate the relationship, Ive done so and now i am letting it grow. Honestly I have gone through the process of doubting the girl - still have lil doubts every now and then, those negative thoughts, thats why i said its all in your mind, and they may not be true. But can u not tell or feel whether the person like u or not? Because I can. What if she lies? I don't care, cos id rather do something that i believe in than listen to what people say cos I don't live by peoples words. Just trying to be persevere and see the outcome myself. For me the rule is if u want love u gotta be ready to fall.
I have seen her AR couple of times, and i don't care at all. And i am a jealous type of guy. If asked why i don't care? If u have a wife, gf or dating someone, do u know for sure how many times they were fucked by other guys and how was itu? Id rather knowing the bitter truth than accepting lies. Its better for me to see what's on the table. Whether to take it or not, the choice is in my hand. Cos you cant give me the air thats mine to breathe can u?

I’m likin the pre relationship talk ,so I say plow on and see where the chi flows . Power to you and her if it succeeds .

I know from first hand experience that what’ she may do at work, may well cause you to develop concern doubt and anxiety .

I had similar thoughts to you and was ok , though the constant shape shifting , diversions truth avoidance and outright lies was, in the end far worse than anything associated with her actual work with a client .

[mcjesus]

Besides, a lot of ARs here need to be taken with a big grain of salt, particularly when it goes on about "fucking nonstop for 1 hour" or "she came a 3 times" or "had 4 shots in 1 hour", etc. All power to you bro... Hope it turns out to be fulfilling for you!

man, i cant have more than one shot in a session and i cant make wls come (not that i know of), but when i say i can fuck venus or amber nonstop for an hour, i am not lying.

yours
truthfully
m.j.

p.s.
while some are endowed with a bigger size, some are blessed with more lasting power. god dont forget. god dont discriminate. god is a communist.

[GoldfishMan]

man, i cant have more than one shot in a session and i cant make wls come (not that i know of), but when i say i can fuck venus or amber nonstop for an hour, i am not lying.

yours
truthfully
m.j.

p.s.
while some are endowed with a bigger size, some are blessed with more lasting power. god dont forget. god dont discriminate. god is a communist.
I think you got it wrong dude. You probably went 1 hour 30 mins, you just forgot to look at your watch when you put it in.

[mcjesus]

I think you got it wrong dude. You probably went 1 hour 30 mins, you just forgot to look at your watch when you put it in.

you are allowed to disbelieve, son.

you are all allowed.

by a man who brags not even once in his life.

[beta101]

Just as it says, I read some threads of punters falling for ML or WL. Most of us know not to but some still do anyway. I know and understand you can't control emotions.

So what I like to know for the guys that do, how do you develop these feelings knowing other punters like to pound the shit out of your "gf"?

Lets turn this around. You must be special cause she choose u even though she had sex with a billion cocks.

N LMAO u are like the biggest hypocrite. What a tool.

[beta101]

Besides, a lot of ARs here need to be taken with a big grain of salt, particularly when it goes on about "fucking nonstop for 1 hour" or "she came a 3 times" or "had 4 shots in 1 hour", etc. All power to you bro... Hope it turns out to be fulfilling for you!

Lol u need to do more reviews man. You, woods n Lenka(look score) I go by lol :)

[krnboy]

Lets turn this around. You must be special cause she choose u even though she had sex with a billion cocks.

N LMAO u are like the biggest hypocrite. What a tool.

No I'm not special in anyway. Just to be clear, I'm not talking about myself but talking about people like you. I feel sorry for you bud

I don't know who you are talking about so whoever you are talking about, let her have sex with a billion cocks so she can be rich and have a good life :)

[luckyluke]

Just don't go there mate its probably a bad place haha

[threebysix]

Just do whatever you want. Did the same previously, she wanted more time, I couldn’t give it.
Spent a few weekend away bonking like crazy.
Totally sweet girl, really looking for love - ended up with some fella (punter) who was chasing her for very long time and who gave her the attention she needed. She quit the industry shortly after and haven’t heard of since.

Her friend was another WL, very popular one. Had a punter turned fiancé, paid for her uni, living - wasn’t quite her type as she preferred A manly man, still worked the parlour during their time and now not together.

2 very diff people. Just be careful.

[yug]

I brought my WL an Apple iPhone

She deserves something for all the shit she has to put up with 4 days a week

But then again she earns at least $ 1250 a day tax free

$ 5,000 a week jerking off ICE addicts & acting like she cares about you...While I fuck her for free...Life is sweet

I don't get it.
Life is sweet for you or the WL?
You have layers of sarcasm and self-doubts in what you say, which leads me to believe life is hardly sweet.
Then again, what do I know!
By the way, it's not fucking for free if you give her $1500 iphone, in fact, you paid a lot more than that ice addict.

[thaipussyhunter]

I don't fuck her in a shop & our time isn't limited

It's the real GFE, without the fake moaning or her begging to extend our time

Many WL do it because they want to free human & not like a fucking machine

I was with ine WL for 3 years, she paid for everything
Travelled 1st class to the German to meet her family

Awesome WL but she loved the WL.lifestyle, money, attention & sex all the time

FIFO 3 in 1, doesn't help any relationship but the sex & travelling was so worth it

Shame she got deported

[Shreddedolphin]

that sucks man, it's hard to find those now days

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