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batman_21
19-04-2019, 11:01 PM
Today, I had a second session with a WL. It's obvious that we click -- both sessions were out of this world, I find her incredibly sexy, and I also speak her native tongue. At the end of today's session, I asked her if she's working tomorrow, and she said no. So I asked her out to dinner tomorrow tonight (first time I've ever tried this), and much to my surprise, she said sure, asked me for my number, and she immediately texted me so I had her number as well.
Has anyone ever tried this?
After dinner, I want to bring her to my place and fuck her brains out. I don't want to be too presumptuous and offend her, but, at the same time, I need to prepare -- clean the apartment, condoms, lube, etc.
Thoughts?
BM21
Labia Vortex
19-04-2019, 11:35 PM
Give her a night off.....buy her dinner
Take her out on another date
Either that invite her home and see what happens
Depends where you want to go with this
Working girls have feelings too
... batman21 ...
Enjoy the dinner with this person.
Enjoy the conversation with this person.
Enjoy the moments with this person.
Climax598
20-04-2019, 12:38 AM
Just don't think of fucking her only. She might not be in the mood as she is been fuck daily. Just be nice and intimate with her you might get something nice in return. Or she might suck you dry I mean money asking for expensive gift or money. Some are nice girl just like guys some are nice to the girl.
Momoe
20-04-2019, 01:07 AM
Today, I had a second session with a WL. It's obvious that we click -- both sessions were out of this world, I find her incredibly sexy, and I also speak her native tongue. At the end of today's session, I asked her if she's working tomorrow, and she said no. So I asked her out to dinner tomorrow tonight (first time I've ever tried this), and much to my surprise, she said sure, asked me for my number, and she immediately texted me so I had her number as well.
Has anyone ever tried this?
After dinner, I want to bring her to my place and fuck her brains out. I don't want to be too presumptuous and offend her, but, at the same time, I need to prepare -- clean the apartment, condoms, lube, etc.
Thoughts?
BM21
You want some thoughts? The girl thinking you as a scumbag attempting to get familiar with her for the sake of having some freebies. All WLs I asked them about this, all of them pretty much answered the same; guys asking them out just wanna have sex with them.
If you are a gentleman, you should treat this as a normal date and see how it progresses. Otherwise your story would end up becoming another topic for her to complain about
Cayman
20-04-2019, 08:30 AM
Agree with everything that's been said already. By all means, clean your apartment and have supplies ready just in case she's thinking the same thing, but don't assume the first night is going to end with sex and don't push for it! When the girl is in the shop, she knows the guys are there for one thing. But by asking her out on her personal time, you're responsible for treating her like a lady!
cuteguy
20-04-2019, 03:24 PM
I agree with the above. The fact that she is willing to go out with you suggests she may be interested in you as a person and not for sex. It's not every day that a WL agrees to go out with a customer so you're lucky that she is doing this with you. Take her out and show her a good time. If she wants to go to your place and have some fun with you, let her make the move and don't force it on her. Trying to "fuck her brains out" as you put it will confirm what most WLs say about customers in that they want to do this only with them. Show her you're different and you respect her. If you're a gentleman on the first date I'm sure she will go out with you again and have some fun with you outside the shop.
doritos
20-04-2019, 03:37 PM
If your mindset is trying to hit that coochie, you can be sure that she will pick up on that right quick lol.
Climax598
20-04-2019, 03:40 PM
Is not easy to get into a wl pussy if you don't give them something.
batman_21
20-04-2019, 03:51 PM
Thanks for all the sage advice.
At this point, it may all be for naught. Dinner isn't yet confirmed, so I might yet be another john who fell for the we have a connection, here's my number... Will post a follow-up later.
BM21
Climax598
20-04-2019, 04:04 PM
That's my boy you are learning fast very soon you are a pro punter. But on occasion we pro also fall into the trap .
aussiegaigin
20-04-2019, 05:02 PM
Read all the other past threads here about dating WLs.
cuteguy
20-04-2019, 06:13 PM
Read all the other past threads here about dating WLs.
Yes definitely! Be mindful of the fact that she might want something from you down the track. There have been cases of WLs seeking PR in order to stay in the country and by finding a single guy who has fallen for them in the shop could be a way of getting that green card and then abandoning him after two years once she has her PR.
batman_21
20-04-2019, 11:22 PM
So brothers, the most amazing thing happened.
She ended up calling me at around 4 PM and we made plans to go to a sushi place close to my apartment. She also asked if she could bring a GF, and not wanting to offend, I said sure, why not.
We met at the restaurant and lo and behold, her GF is cute as hell too. We start ordering sushi and sake, and by the 3rd bottle of sake (man, these Japanese girls can drink like fish), we're all having a great time and my date leans over to me and whispers into my ear, "Can all 3 of us go to your apartment?" Of course, I say. I quickly settle the bill and we head over to my apartment.
Much to my pleasant surprise, as soon as I usher both of them in thru the door of my apartment, the 2 ladies start making out, full on DFK, even before the door closes, and my jaw just kind of drops like oh man, I really hit the bonus zone. I start getting hard just watching them DFK. My friend looks at me and wags her finger to come over and join.
The next three hours was a no condom, full-girl-on-girl-on-guy three way that was beyond my wildest expectations. Both women were insatiable, and I was shocked that they were still able to rouse junior after I came a 3rd time...
Just kidding. She was a no show. I stayed at home and watched footie.
BM21
Climax598
20-04-2019, 11:32 PM
So brothers, the most amazing thing happened.
She ended up calling me at around 4 PM and we made plans to go to a sushi place close to my apartment. She also asked if she could bring a GF, and not wanting to offend, I said sure, why not.
We met at the restaurant and lo and behold, her GF is cute as hell too. We start ordering sushi and sake, and by the 3rd bottle of sake (man, these Japanese girls can drink like fish), we're all having a great time and my date leans over to me and whispers into my ear, "Can all 3 of us go to your apartment?" Of course, I say. I quickly settle the bill and we head over to my apartment.
Much to my pleasant surprise, as soon as I usher both of them in thru the door of my apartment, the 2 ladies start making out, full on DFK, even before the door closes, and my jaw just kind of drops like oh man, I really hit the bonus zone. I start getting hard just watching them DFK. My friend looks at me and wags her finger to come over and join.
The next three hours was a no condom, full-girl-on-girl-on-guy three way that was beyond my wildest expectations. Both women were insatiable, and I was shocked that they were still able to rouse junior after I came a 3rd time...
Just kidding. She was a no show. I stayed at home and watched footie.
BM21
Good night Dear. Sweet Dream 😚
That is what I get every night from my regular before I go to bed at 11pm
Labia Vortex
20-04-2019, 11:59 PM
One of her girlfriends talked her out of it..
harrycd
21-04-2019, 01:02 AM
hahaha damn, you had me going :o
chemistry84
21-04-2019, 01:51 AM
These Hoes ain't loyal.
From my experience of dating few WLs, they are very fickle.
In fact, 60% either change their plans last minute or do not turn up.
Early 2013, I dated a WL. On our third date, I told her that I am going to book a hotel and we shall bump uglies.
But at the end of the date, she was rather tired and showed real disinterest for sex (though I was already all over her).
Since she was not in the mood, I didn't go ahead with it. But I did manage to make her feel that she owes me big time on our next date.
On the 4th date, she finally caved.
I guess what I am trying to say is: "You can't even count on the sure-shot ones; let alone ones with slim possibilities."
So do not expect too much.
And most importantly, do not presume to have sex on the first date.
That rarely happens.
Expecting sex on your first date with a WL is like: "Expecting your accountant to do your taxes that evening after you paid for her dinner".
Only 10 times worse.
Ok, may be not the best analogy.
But what I mean to say is: It will make her feel more cheap and whorey than she already feels.
The right way to do it is to treat them like any other normal girl and expect sex on the third date.
Rimdog08
21-04-2019, 06:29 AM
Just don't think of fucking her only. She might not be in the mood as she is been fuck daily. Just be nice and intimate with her you might get something nice in return. Or she might suck you dry I mean money asking for expensive gift or money. Some are nice girl just like guys some are nice to the girl.
I was seeing an ml regularly awhile ago , went out to dinner a couple of times, then one day I said stay the night, it was after a shift and she slept like a baby all night..did not have the heart to wake her...
New2Punting
21-04-2019, 07:52 AM
Is there any legal issues (from shop point of view?) to ask WL for out at first place?
As shop might see this differently where you are trying to bypass them. Just curious...
batman_21
21-04-2019, 09:48 AM
Is there any legal issues (from shop point of view?) to ask WL for out at first place?
As shop might see this differently where you are trying to bypass them. Just curious...
I seriously doubt that any shop has any written contract with any WL. These girls switch shops almost as frequently as blokes switch WLs. Furthermore, even if there was some written agreement between WL and shops, I doubt there's a non-solicit/do not accept solicitations from customers/non-compete clause.
Even if there were, how on earth could it be enforceable? As the rest of the thread states, WLs are people too. They have private lives. They get to do what they want in their private life. How many other normal civilians have dated someone (even a customer) they met at work?
BM21
aussiegaigin
21-04-2019, 09:49 AM
Probably no strictly legal issues, but most shops would have a policy of "no fraternising with customers" which could result in dismissal if they found out.
But many girls openly work at two or more shops, so that sort of negates any "exclusiveness" to one shop. But even such girls have declined my offers of a private session on the grounds of "boss not allow".
Is there any legal issues (from shop point of view?) to ask WL for out at first place?
As shop might see this differently where you are trying to bypass them. Just curious...
There are no legal issues.
It's just that some shops might not care whereas others do.
Like, in Ginza, it's not allowed for a WL to go out with a customer.
Actually it was written on the walls once; not sure if it's still there.
I have heard few stories of WLs being fired for that and customers being banned from coming to the shop.
Again, these are just rumors and stuffs told to me by other WLs.
So do not hold it against me.
Despite all this, I have seen few of Ginza and 278 girls outside hand in hand with customers.
And asking for number and WeChat is so common that 8 out of 10 new customers will probably ask for WL's number.
Obviously depending on her looks and service, it could be less or more.
Therefore, No matter how much policing you do, it does happen in the end.
Most of the WLs give their number because they are afraid you will complain and turn vindictive.
Some do not want to loose you as a customer. So most of time, it will lead to nothing.
Personally, I gave up asking out WL 2 years ago as it is not worth it and is a total waste of time and money.
And I feel too old to play all these games.
batman_21
21-04-2019, 10:31 AM
There are no legal issues.
Most of the WLs give their number because they are afraid you will complain and turn vindictive.
Some do not want to loose you as a customer. So most of time, it will lead to nothing.
Yeah, in this business -- when a (loyal) customer asks a you for your number, you give him your number -- regardless of your intent. At minimum, you want to keep him as a loyal customer.
Climax598
21-04-2019, 10:33 AM
There are no legal issues.
It's just that some shops might not care whereas others do.
Like, in Ginza, it's not allowed for a WL to go out with a customer.
Actually it was written on the walls once; not sure if it's still there.
I have heard few stories of WLs being fired for that and customers being banned from coming to the shop.
Again, these are just rumors and stuffs told to me by other WLs.
So do not hold it against me.
Despite all this, I have seen few of Ginza and 278 girls outside hand in hand with customers.
And asking for number and WeChat is so common that 8 out of 10 new customers will probably ask for WL's number.
Obviously depending on her looks and service, it could be less or more.
Therefore, No matter how much policing you do, it does happen in the end.
Most of the WLs give their number because they are afraid you will complain and turn vindictive.
Some do not want to loose you as a customer. So most of time, it will lead to nothing.
Personally, I gave up asking out WL 2 years ago as it is not worth it and is a total waste of time and money.
And I feel too old to play all these games.
You can go out with 278/Ginza girls, if the girls want to go out with you. Some will say yes some will say no. That's normal in asking a girl for a date. As long as the girls come to work as agree on date and time then management is ok with it. The shops earn money per room per hour being use by customer. Asking wl out is for fun but for relationship would be near to 0.
lonely heart
21-04-2019, 10:43 AM
Personally, I gave up asking out WL 2 years ago as it is not worth it and is a total waste of time and money.
And I feel too old to play all these games.
Most realistic comment and had been said many times.
Call me a pessimist. I always think WL/ML have an agenda. While there has been 1 or 2 girls (over more than ten years) who actually like me and want to go out with me. Most of them have an agenda, range from simply want you to write them a report on forum to the extreme that they are after the passport. Even in those rare cases the girl likes you, you always end up spending more with nice dinner and a not so crap hotel room.
The good thing of taking a girl out is obviously you got to bang her all night if you can and she is up to it. Also the high possibility of all natural play. While the con is apart from spending more money as I mentioned. Being spotted with another girl for those who is in a relationship is extremely damaging. Yes people has said it "I have all corners covers...", and I have seen those people with shit blow up right in their face.....Murphy's law: "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong".
mankind
21-04-2019, 10:50 AM
Call me lucky, my regular offered me a dinner date outside but I just rejected, for me what's in the shop just stays in the shop! But everyone is different!
Climax598
21-04-2019, 11:09 AM
There are no legal issues.
It's just that some shops might not care whereas others do.
Like, in Ginza, it's not allowed for a WL to go out with a customer.
Actually it was written on the walls once; not sure if it's still there.
I have heard few stories of WLs being fired for that and customers being banned from coming to the shop.
Again, these are just rumors and stuffs told to me by other WLs.
So do not hold it against me.
Despite all this, I have seen few of Ginza and 278 girls outside hand in hand with customers.
And asking for number and WeChat is so common that 8 out of 10 new customers will probably ask for WL's number.
Obviously depending on her looks and service, it could be less or more.
Therefore, No matter how much policing you do, it does happen in the end.
Most of the WLs give their number because they are afraid you will complain and turn vindictive.
Some do not want to loose you as a customer. So most of time, it will lead to nothing.
Personally, I gave up asking out WL 2 years ago as it is not worth it and is a total waste of time and money.
And I feel too old to play all these games.
Most realistic comment and had been said many times.
Call me a pessimist. I always think WL/ML have an agenda. While there has been 1 or 2 girls (over more than ten years) who actually like me and want to go out with me. Most of them have an agenda, range from simply want you to write them a report on forum to the extreme that they are after the passport. Even in those rare cases the girl likes you, you always end up spending more with nice dinner and a not so crap hotel room.
The good thing of taking a girl out is obviously you got to bang her all night if you can and she is up to it. Also the high possibility of all natural play. While the con is apart from spending more money as I mentioned. Being spotted with another girl for those who is in a relationship is extremely damaging. Yes people has said it "I have all corners covers...", and I have seen those people with shit blow up right in their face.....Murphy's law: "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong".
That is very true shit blow up right in their face. That's why I only see my regular at the shop. Sydney is too small you can be spotted by friend, relative, workmate, if single then is ok. She want to go to this place in the city i say no she ask why, I told her I have work near this place before so have friend. The other time she want to go to burwood I have friends and relatives live in that place. So we agreed to see only at the shop.
Momoe
21-04-2019, 11:26 AM
Like I have said previously, its more likely you score some goodies if the WLs/MLs are new to the game and naive. Veterans know whats up and make good use out of it
And if you are single and up to the challenge, just go for it. No pain no gain
xboyx
21-04-2019, 11:56 AM
So brothers, the most amazing thing happened.
She ended up calling me at around 4 PM and we made plans to go to a sushi place close to my apartment. She also asked if she could bring a GF, and not wanting to offend, I said sure, why not.
We met at the restaurant and lo and behold, her GF is cute as hell too. We start ordering sushi and sake, and by the 3rd bottle of sake (man, these Japanese girls can drink like fish), we're all having a great time and my date leans over to me and whispers into my ear, "Can all 3 of us go to your apartment?" Of course, I say. I quickly settle the bill and we head over to my apartment.
Much to my pleasant surprise, as soon as I usher both of them in thru the door of my apartment, the 2 ladies start making out, full on DFK, even before the door closes, and my jaw just kind of drops like oh man, I really hit the bonus zone. I start getting hard just watching them DFK. My friend looks at me and wags her finger to come over and join.
The next three hours was a no condom, full-girl-on-girl-on-guy three way that was beyond my wildest expectations. Both women were insatiable, and I was shocked that they were still able to rouse junior after I came a 3rd time...
Just kidding. She was a no show. I stayed at home and watched footie.
BM21
LOL good one, you got my heart racing till the end
harrycd
21-04-2019, 01:49 PM
That is very true shit blow up right in their face. That's why I only see my regular at the shop. Sydney is too small you can be spotted by friend, relative, workmate, if single then is ok. She want to go to this place in the city i say no she ask why, I told her I have work near this place before so have friend. The other time she want to go to burwood I have friends and relatives live in that place. So we agreed to see only at the shop.
That's more on you lol, funnily enough I was eating at a place on dixon st with friends on Friday, saw a older white bloke (50-60?) with a young chinese girl in her early 20s and noone gives a fuck lol (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PeykaclVaA), each to their own.
LOL good one, you got my heart racing till the end
Yeah it was quite a good write up, but also shows how gullible I am and makes me wonder about a lot of AR's on here lol
cuteguy
21-04-2019, 02:22 PM
From my experience of dating few WLs, they are very fickle.
In fact, 60% either change their plans last minute or do not turn up.
Early 2013, I dated a WL. On our third date, I told her that I am going to book a hotel and we shall bump uglies.
But at the end of the date, she was rather tired and showed real disinterest for sex (though I was already all over her).
Since she was not in the mood, I didn't go ahead with it. But I did manage to make her feel that she owes me big time on our next date.
On the 4th date, she finally caved.
I guess what I am trying to say is: "You can't even count on the sure-shot ones; let alone ones with slim possibilities."
So do not expect too much.
And most importantly, do not presume to have sex on the first date.
That rarely happens.
Expecting sex on your first date with a WL is like: "Expecting your accountant to do your taxes that evening after you paid for her dinner".
Only 10 times worse.
Ok, may be not the best analogy.
But what I mean to say is: It will make her feel more cheap and whorey than she already feels.
The right way to do it is to treat them like any other normal girl and expect sex on the third date.
Most WLs are not reliable and don't have high hopes in believing their promises to you such as having dinner together or going out socially. Sometimes they will make comment at the spur of the moment when they are with you in the shop and later forget you as quickly as they escort you out of the room. In the end, actions speak louder than words.
Riff888
21-04-2019, 03:15 PM
I am an advocate of this.
Just treat her as you would any other girl. I don't even see a difference.
Obviously you have nothing to worry about if you're single.
If you are married or in a relationship, then this is just like any affair, it will lead to a separation or even divorce if found out.
Just go for it and have fun, life is short.
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QueenofObi
22-04-2019, 12:26 AM
Excellent imagination
So brothers, the most amazing thing happened.
She ended up calling me at around 4 PM and we made plans to go to a sushi place close to my apartment. She also asked if she could bring a GF, and not wanting to offend, I said sure, why not.
We met at the restaurant and lo and behold, her GF is cute as hell too. We start ordering sushi and sake, and by the 3rd bottle of sake (man, these Japanese girls can drink like fish), we're all having a great time and my date leans over to me and whispers into my ear, "Can all 3 of us go to your apartment?" Of course, I say. I quickly settle the bill and we head over to my apartment.
Much to my pleasant surprise, as soon as I usher both of them in thru the door of my apartment, the 2 ladies start making out, full on DFK, even before the door closes, and my jaw just kind of drops like oh man, I really hit the bonus zone. I start getting hard just watching them DFK. My friend looks at me and wags her finger to come over and join.
The next three hours was a no condom, full-girl-on-girl-on-guy three way that was beyond my wildest expectations. Both women were insatiable, and I was shocked that they were still able to rouse junior after I came a 3rd time...
Just kidding. She was a no show. I stayed at home and watched footie.
BM21
New2Punting
22-04-2019, 11:48 PM
Is there any legal issues (from shop point of view?) to ask WL for out at first place?
As shop might see this differently where you are trying to bypass them. Just curious...
Sorry guys I should have mentioned that,
asking WL her number or contact just for sex arrangements outside shop not for any dinner date or serious relationship. Is that ok to ask?
Sorry guys I should have mentioned that,
asking WL her number or contact just for sex arrangements outside shop not for any dinner date or serious relationship. Is that ok to ask?
Technically, No!
But I have done it before.
Here is what you need to know/do :
1) You should have visited her at least once. Don't ask her for any kind of arrangement on the first visit.
She may complain your ass to her boss if she hardly knows you.
2) Better to build a trust/rapport with someone you like. Be her regular and then ask.
I rarely ask for a girl for an arrangement outside but, when it has happened, I have asked her after at least my 5th visit.
3) There should be tacit agreement between you two that this will never come out in public.
Her job's on the line. Plus there is no reason to brag about it as, you know, we all are over-sexed and spoiled with choices for promiscuity.
So you slept with a girl, what's new?
4) Don't cheapen out. Take her to a proper dinner and then to a proper hotel (doesn't need to be 5 star; a clean one will do).
5) Book a hotel that can be cancelled before the day of stay. This is very crucial.
WLs are very flaky. They change their minds really quick. Sometimes they feel too tired to go out on the day you proposed even though they agreed to it.
Nothing's set on stone here.
6) Before booking the hotel, tell her that you have booked the hotel. This will make her either feel that's too late to back out or, if she really needs to cancel, it
gives her the perfect opportunity to cancel.
7) Don't drink too much or else you will have hard time getting it up.
Just drink enough to have slow, unadulterated fun.
8) Only make arrangement with the girl you have strong sexual connection with (otherwise, you might as well do her at the shop).
Idea of arrangement is very appealing but, in reality, it can feel a bit overrated if you are doing it with the wrong person.
9) Be ready to fork out $500-$1000.
$500 will get you dinner date and probably few hours of sex.
$1000 will probably get you overnight with the lady.
As you can see, not worth it to do often on; unless, you are cashed-up.
All the Very Best!
liminal
24-04-2019, 05:40 PM
why the confusion amongst some and significant assumptions by all n sundry (me included)
There is no discernible difference between a working and non working gal , when they make a decision to date /relationship or some variation
Yes of course , they are and can be made weary by constant requests made by
Hopeful customers and more wary or .other forms of thought/ behaviours
I saw one woman for 4 months outside of any shop ( though she did also work private ,; which led to some disconcerting and hilarious situations) before she decided I met her strict relationship criteria ... even then and after promises of exclusivity (I always knew not possible) and many months of serious dating.. I found on the last day she was in Sydney readying to go abroad , no longer working and before moving (I was getting her) .. a ‘loyal ‘ customer had stayed the Night ... that was one of the more hilarious moments
However despite anyone’s ideas on the topic
They are like anyone else and are allowed to change minds opinions behaviours etc
WL’/ML’s don’t hold Any Monopoly on Been truculent , perverse, changeable quixotic difficult, demanding...
Raybo
24-04-2019, 06:18 PM
I have toyed with the idea, gone out for drinks a few times but these days for me it's better just to stick with seeing girls at their place of employment. I don't even want discounts or freebies, not that I ever thought i was worthy or entitled to them.
I have discovered the vast majority of WL's/ML's lead very complicated and sometimes drama-packed lives. They compartmentalize many facets of their lives to protect themselves and sometimes even the guys they are seeing. This is a major block in establishing the core components of a relationship, being open communication and trust.
annintofu
25-04-2019, 01:00 AM
I have discovered the vast majority of WL's/ML's lead very complicated and sometimes drama-packed lives. They compartmentalize many facets of their lives to protect themselves and sometimes even the guys they are seeing. This is a major block in establishing the core components of a relationship, being open communication and trust.
So true.
Besides, I, for one, am always looking for the next hottie to try, so it's impossible to concentrate on one WL no matter how good she is.
the_boss_king
25-04-2019, 10:50 AM
saw one of the Ginza girls out while I was partying last weekend.
man I looked so cool ion front of my friends ahahahhahahaha
aussiegaigin
25-04-2019, 02:15 PM
From my experience of dating few WLs, they are very fickle.
In fact, 60% either change their plans last minute or do not turn up.
Early 2013, I dated a WL. On our third date, I told her that I am going to book a hotel and we shall bump uglies.
But at the end of the date, she was rather tired and showed real disinterest for sex (though I was already all over her).
Since she was not in the mood, I didn't go ahead with it. But I did manage to make her feel that she owes me big time on our next date.
On the 4th date, she finally caved.
I guess what I am trying to say is: "You can't even count on the sure-shot ones; let alone ones with slim possibilities."
So do not expect too much.
And most importantly, do not presume to have sex on the first date.
That rarely happens.
Expecting sex on your first date with a WL is like: "Expecting your accountant to do your taxes that evening after you paid for her dinner".
Only 10 times worse.
Ok, may be not the best analogy.
But what I mean to say is: It will make her feel more cheap and whorey than she already feels.
The right way to do it is to treat them like any other normal girl and expect sex on the third date.
It is possible this girl is looking for a relationship that is not based on sex. If she is doing all day, she mightn't enjoy having to continue into the night.
I've asked a few MLs about their boyfriends, and the attitude is usually they don't want boyfriends for this very reason. Maybe out of embarrassment from having to explain their job, though?
I've been "dating" an ML for a few years, we meet up for lunch about once per month, and usually end up at her place for a massage session which I pay for. We are great friends, I help her with her business but we are both committed singles. We are not going to spoil the arrangement with free sex. She has her customers, I see other MLs as well.
Lostinblonde
13-08-2019, 09:59 PM
have been asking a ML to have dinner but apparently she has no interest in me, lol
PervySage
13-08-2019, 10:02 PM
have been asking a ML to have dinner but apparently she has no interest in me, lol
Yeh outside of shop game takes practice...there are a few guys on the forum who seem to be good at it!
Not me though
dotcumdotinyou
13-08-2019, 10:06 PM
Its more about whether they feel they can trust you (the honest girls anyway) and that needs to be built up over time.
Brothelcreeper
13-08-2019, 10:22 PM
Just done an overnighter today in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suites at Parramatta for $200 for nice one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours and all for $200.
Nice.
Lostinblonde
13-08-2019, 10:24 PM
I’ve just done an overnighter in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suite at Parramatta for $200 for one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again for 30 minutes, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours.
solute to the punt champion
I’ve had girls drop hints about me taking them out to sight see and stuff and I tend to avoid this stuff at all cost. What happens in a brother stays in the brothel
Lostinblonde
13-08-2019, 10:27 PM
that because you havent met a girl you really like, shame its in the shop
Brothelcreeper
13-08-2019, 10:30 PM
I’ve had girls drop hints about me taking them out to sight see and stuff and I tend to avoid this stuff at all cost. What happens in a brothel stays in the brothel
Life is much easier that way.
PervySage
13-08-2019, 11:12 PM
Life is much easier that way.
Easier maybe... Not as exciting though going by the posts from punters with the outside of shop game happening
There is no discernible difference between a working and non working gal , when they make a decision to date /relationship or some variation
Dont agree with this. Giving the impression that working girls are like any other dating women just isnt true. A lot of compartmentalising they do in their lives, and you cant expect predictability or consistency. Treat them well by all means, and treat then with utmost respect, but in general they are not like nonworking women when it comes to dating.
They just aren't the same
Dont agree with this. Giving the impression that working girls are like any other dating women just isnt true. A lot of compartmentalising they do in their lives, and you cant expect predictability or consistency. Treat them well by all means, and treat then with utmost respect, but in general they are not like nonworking women when it comes to dating.
They just aren't the same
Agree. If they really want to settle down and stop working then they should find a guy that’s clueless as to what they did as a job before and not with a client.
It’ll just bring up too much insecurities both directions. Best to “bed and and forget”.
Dettol
14-08-2019, 12:10 AM
Easier maybe... Not as exciting though going by the posts from punters with the outside of shop game happening
It’s mostly happening outside the shop and inside their head. Don’t trust everything you read in the internet.
woods23
14-08-2019, 12:42 AM
It’s mostly happening outside the shop and inside their head. Don’t trust everything you read in the internet.
Agreee . Way too many guys here is - blowing the cow on forum
Dettol
14-08-2019, 01:29 AM
Agreee . Way too many guys here is - blowing the cow on forum
Blowing the what??
Guymartin420
14-08-2019, 02:58 AM
...I’m gonna do this on Sunday, except that it won’t be an overnighter. She’s young and beautiful, thank god she can speak English.
Just done an overnighter today in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suites at Parramatta for $200 for nice one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours and all for $200.
Nice.
AHLUNGOR
14-08-2019, 10:10 AM
Just done an overnighter today in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suites at Parramatta for $200 for nice one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours and all for $200.
Nice.
Was that $200 to the girl plus $200 for the hotel ? Or just $200 for the room and she was a fuck buddy ?
Either way,well done Bro !
In another life time for yours truly here perhaps.......... haha (even then , may be I could manage 3 shots ( not now I don’t think , may be 10 years back ?) before bed and one more morning glory shot but probably too lazy to make her cum any ......... lol )
Brothelcreeper
14-08-2019, 06:24 PM
Thanks
Was that $200 to the girl plus $200 for the hotel ? Or just $200 for the room and she was a fuck buddy ?
Either way,well done Bro !
In another life time for yours truly here perhaps.......... haha (even then , may be I could manage 3 shots ( not now I don’t think , may be 10 years back ?) before bed and one more morning glory shot but probably too lazy to make her cum any ......... lol )
$200 all in AH. I just paid for the hotel and lunch and she paid for dinner. I have been helping her out with work and got her a job in a shop where she earns much better money so perhaps it was payback.
I was surprised that I could do three shots in an afternoon but she gave me a nice extra so that helped if you get my gist.
Akeem75
14-08-2019, 06:26 PM
Wow brothercreeper. That is awesome!!
Niceguy11
14-08-2019, 09:48 PM
Just done an overnighter today in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suites at Parramatta for $200 for nice one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours and all for $200.
Nice.
Sounds awesome BC. I've been meaning to try the Meriton Hotel.
liminal
14-08-2019, 11:47 PM
Dont agree with this. Giving the impression that working girls are like any other dating women just isnt true. A lot of compartmentalising they do in their lives, and you cant expect predictability or consistency. Treat them well by all means, and treat then with utmost respect, but in general they are not like nonworking women when it comes to dating.
They just aren't the same
... I’m your grasshopper. Enlighten and share your experience on this.
Like the WL/MLwill you Not also be as compartmentalised ...but in general they(punters) are not like non punting men , when it comes to dating...
They just ain’t the same...
I’ve had dinner , Lunch and brekkie with WL’/ML’s sometimes on the same day. So yes a sleep over and the following day in some instances or longer for nickel and dimes.
Some ended without sex .. wow.. but may have involved cuddling and talking , to know nothing was going to further happen. And some have remained friends after they have left the industry and some who continue to work.
Sure you/me\we can insert generalise into a sentence. ...But The reality is a WL/MLis possessed Of the same womanly feelings desires hopes as did the lawyer who was working for your ex wife..
Just cause he /she isn’t showing it to you
In the way you want or think, ain’t meaning she /he is not wanting
cuteguy
15-08-2019, 12:42 AM
Just done an overnighter today in a hotel with a WL that I met a few weeks ago. Took the day off work, booked Meriton Suites at Parramatta for $200 for nice one bedroomed apartment. Met at lunchtime and had lunch in Church Street, afternoon spent fucking each other brains out in the hotel. Three shots for me and about 7 orgasms for her. Dinner in a Chinese restaurant on Church Street, quick fuck before bed.
Woke up 7am, fucked her again, breakfast at McDonalds, drove her to her brothel for today’s shift and back to work for 10am.
Bobs your Uncle,
She is young and fit. Fucks like a rabbit and orgasms like a screaming banshee.
Speaks not a single word of English so all communication via translation app.
‘Twas a magnificent 24 hours and all for $200.
Nice.
What excuse did you tell your wife for being away that night?:question:
Raybo
15-08-2019, 02:20 AM
Thanks
$200 all in AH. I just paid for the hotel and lunch and she paid for dinner. I have been helping her out with work and got her a job in a shop where she earns much better money so perhaps it was payback.
I was surprised that I could do three shots in an afternoon but she gave me a nice extra so that helped if you get my gist.
She really paid for dinner? And you let her? Are you that much of a tight arse? Where's the tip? You 'helped' her get a job? What a guy. I would love to work for the company you work for
wilisno
15-08-2019, 02:52 AM
Dont agree with this. Giving the impression that working girls are like any other dating women just isnt true. A lot of compartmentalising they do in their lives, and you cant expect predictability or consistency. Treat them well by all means, and treat then with utmost respect, but in general they are not like nonworking women when it comes to dating.
They just aren't the same
If you believe in what you said, then look in the mirror and judge yourself ! Punters are not any better than workers in regards to dating, women in the world can also ignorantly say that punters are not reliable in a relationship, can’t expect predictability and consistency when it comes to dating !
You are just no difference !
Akeem75
15-08-2019, 10:04 AM
Very good point. We are no different to the WL in we are happy to go to another if we are not happy with the “service”.
cuteguy
15-08-2019, 12:16 PM
Very good point. We are no different to the WL in we are happy to go to another if we are not happy with the “service”.
After all it is a business transaction since the punter is paying for a service. If he is not satisfied with the service provided by the girl then he can go somewhere else.
liminal
15-08-2019, 02:08 PM
If you believe in what you said, then look in the mirror and judge yourself ! Punters are not any better than workers in regards to dating, women in the world can also ignorantly say that punters are not reliable in a relationship, can’t expect predictability and consistency when it comes to dating !
You are just no difference !
After all it is a business transaction since the punter is paying for a service. If he is not satisfied with the service provided by the girl then he can go somewhere else.
Nothing about transaction, in the paid sense.
Twas been pointedly expressed, that a punter cannot be any more or less fickle , trustworthy , consistent , Machiavellian , caring , interested compartmentalised compromises or otherwise than a ML/WL.
That is the idea expressed by ‘thar she blows’ Moby, that a ML/WL is not like normal women (on the issue of a dinner date ??) is absurdist at best.
Now if you are paying the ML/WL/SB to be at dinner with you, then different conversation
Nothing about transaction, in the paid sense.
Now if you are paying the ML/WL/SB to be at dinner with you, then different conversation
How often would an ML/WL ask to pay half of a dinner date? I dont know, Im asking you all
liminal
15-08-2019, 07:55 PM
How often would an ML/WL ask to pay half of a dinner date? I dont know, Im asking you all
Go on a ‘dinner date’ and then we can all ask you
liminal
15-08-2019, 07:58 PM
I’m not sure if I should put a red nose on twizzle a walking cane, adopt a funny walk or pole myself in the eye when reading some of these posts
Brothelcreeper
15-08-2019, 08:09 PM
What excuse did you tell your wife for being away that night?:question:
Business trip........
Brothelcreeper
15-08-2019, 08:13 PM
How often would an ML/WL ask to pay half of a dinner date? I dont know, Im asking you all
Like all people some WL’s are generous and will split bills / pay for a meal / buy you gifts etc and some expect you to pay for everything.
PervySage
15-08-2019, 10:02 PM
Like all people some WL’s are generous and will split bills / pay for a meal / buy you gifts etc and some expect you to pay for everything.
Hmmm. I cant recall many times when a girl has offered to pay on a night out haha
ML / WL or otherwise....
Hmmm. I cant recall many times when a girl has offered to pay on a night out haha
ML / WL or otherwise....
Thank you. My point exactly. Any other experiences?
zhfac42
16-08-2019, 05:15 PM
If you believe in what you said, then look in the mirror and judge yourself ! Punters are not any better than workers in regards to dating, women in the world can also ignorantly say that punters are not reliable in a relationship, can’t expect predictability and consistency when it comes to dating !
You are just no difference !
I agree with you. We shouldn’t judge people by what they do for living. At least they are working class. Try to make a living by what they can do. So when it comes to dating. We should know what we sign up to.
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