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Offspring
03-04-2020, 10:58 AM
Are most punters married or in a relationship? I don't get much action at home so have to go elsewhere.

mkkid
03-04-2020, 03:53 PM
Most of us punter are cashed up in their mid 30s to late 50s. Statistically, yes, we are married with kids.

sporty32
03-04-2020, 09:03 PM
I think is this way:
- Single = better be a punter
- In a relationship = don't be a punter

This is an interesting thread to read:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?88420-From-Marriage-To-Punting&highlight=punters+married%3F

Thanks.

punterz
04-04-2020, 07:43 AM
I think is this way:
- Single = better be a punter
- In a relationship = don't be a punter

This is an interesting thread to read:
http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?88420-From-Marriage-To-Punting&highlight=punters+married%3F

Thanks.

If only life was so straightforward yeah

holi_day
04-04-2020, 12:57 PM
Put it this way, if I am single, I don't need to punt.

kojak
04-04-2020, 02:26 PM
Not married to much fun being single

onewonwon
04-04-2020, 07:46 PM
Wouldn't single guys tend to have more disposable income?

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yug
04-04-2020, 10:17 PM
In my mid-30s...single...
Already 9 years of punting.
Since last 2 years, cut down on my punting as I realized I have spent a lot on punting and also wanted to own a property.
Slowly warming up to the idea of getting married and settling down.
Being single is fun but, when you see all your friends have settled down and are having kids, it really makes you self-reflect.

mkkid
04-04-2020, 11:25 PM
In my mid-30s...single...
Already 9 years of punting.
Since last 2 years, cut down on my punting as I realized I have spent a lot on punting and also wanted to own a property.
Slowly warming up to the idea of getting married and settling down.
Being single is fun but, when you see all your friends have settled down and are having kids, it really makes you self-reflect.

I'm like you, but no longer single. obviously not punting as much as I used to. ironically, when I was punting heavily, I never used this website.
every now and then, I look back and miss those care-free days.

yug
05-04-2020, 12:53 AM
I'm like you, but no longer single. obviously not punting as much as I used to. ironically, when I was punting heavily, I never used this website.
every now and then, I look back and miss those care-free days.

I almost exclusively used this website.
Actually was registered on the old AUS99 pre-2012.

Yeah, it's better to have it as something to look back on fondly;
unless you are stuck in a loveless relationship or marriage, probably better to channel your energy on some other hobbies or put other ladies in your spank bank.

mkkid
05-04-2020, 10:29 AM
too true. although its hard to find a hobby as engaging as punting.

cuteguy
05-04-2020, 03:43 PM
Being single means you have more places (ie clubs, bars, gyms and social gatherings) to check out to meet girls and have some fun unlike a married punter who might be under more scrutiny by a partner or girlfriend as to his whereabouts and where he is spending his money. A married punter might prefer a shop because he comes, pays his money, drops his load and he's out. There's no need to chase a girl to get his fantasy fulfilled if it's not happening in the bedroom with the wife or partner. By going to a shop, it's unlikely the working girl will follow or ring him later to hook up and try to get serious. Having said this, there are more single guys punting because dating these days has become too complicated. Guys don't know where they stand with women in line with current sexual harassment laws and women becoming more liberated in their thinking.

Carpe Diem
05-04-2020, 03:49 PM
even learned how to get rid of strong perfumes/bath soaps used in brothels)
How do you do this? It's the one thing I constantly worry about, my wife has a nose like a bloodhound

mkkid
05-04-2020, 03:52 PM
How do you do this? It's the one thing I constantly worry about, my wife has a nose like a bloodhound

It would be nice if we had a list of shops that don't use scented oils / guru and soaps.

cuteguy
05-04-2020, 03:56 PM
It would be nice if we had a list of shops that don't use scented oils / guru and soaps.

Simple. Don't use their stuff if you're worried about getting caught out by your misses. Take your own soap (small one that you get in hotels) and dispose of it at the shop. :cool2:

Carpe Diem
05-04-2020, 05:19 PM
In my mid-30s...single...
when you see all your friends have settled down and are having kids, it really makes you self-reflect.
Don't over romanticise marriage and kids; sure there's good bits there's also a loooot of bad bits and after 20-30 years or more, you really start to wonder if it's a net benefit.

Midnight_Prowl
05-04-2020, 08:12 PM
How do you do this? It's the one thing I constantly worry about, my wife has a nose like a bloodhound

I have been punting since....2000...f**k that is 20 yrs...
I was single and wanted a gf back than..
Than met my wife and realised she has a nose like a hound dog... But good thing for me was she worked shift on the weekend. So i used to punt on the weekend or on her night shifts.

This became hard after she her promoted and working same time as me.

So i sneaked out at 1am or punt during work..have to call sick time to time or during my lunch break..or 5am....sigh..

mankind
05-04-2020, 08:38 PM
I think each to their own, if you think punting can make your life happy then do it whether or not you're single or married. Everyone is different, every family is different.

mkkid
05-04-2020, 09:17 PM
I think each to their own, if you think punting can make your life happy then do it whether or not you're single or married. Everyone is different, every family is different.

What makes your life happy in the short run may make your life unhappy in the long run and vice versa.
Maximizing happiness is not an easy pursuit.

Littlewonder
06-04-2020, 09:26 PM
Being married is great having children and grandchildren is even greater.

Unfortunately if your wife doesn't want sex then you are left with a couple of alternatives leave her or go and find it elsewhere.

that is where working ladies come in and I have to admit I always wanted to grow old and hold hands and make love to my wife not to do so for me is the biggest disapiointment in my life.

I have moved on my wife still looks after me, except for sex and I get to see some beautiful ladies.

simple.simon
06-04-2020, 09:27 PM
Single, Successful and loving the freedom. The current COVID pandemic has slowed things down a bit.. Can't wait for better times.

tkicks
06-04-2020, 10:02 PM
Mate thats very poignant...but sounds like your at peace with everything...of course there are occasional exceptions but once past 30 the male sex drive diverges from the female...sounds like you have found a way to live with that....still holding hands with your missus and have a great companion...and some young puss thrown in!


And yes everyone different but i agree kids a massive joy i never regretted them not a grandad yet but looking fwd to doing it all again one day

Climax598
06-04-2020, 10:36 PM
I have been punting since....2000...f**k that is 20 yrs...
I was single and wanted a gf back than..
Than met my wife and realised she has a nose like a hound dog... But good thing for me was she worked shift on the weekend. So i used to punt on the weekend or on her night shifts.

This became hard after she her promoted and working same time as me.

So i sneaked out at 1am or punt during work..have to call sick time to time or during my lunch break..or 5am....sigh..
How do you sneaked out at 1.00am?

BlackToad
07-04-2020, 12:20 AM
How do you sneaked out at 1.00am?

I guess that’s why he is midnight prowl

Meng
07-04-2020, 06:10 AM
Mate thats very poignant...but sounds like your at peace with everything...of course there are occasional exceptions but once past 30 the male sex drive diverges from the female...sounds like you have found a way to live with that....still holding hands with your missus and have a great companion...and some young puss thrown in!


And yes everyone different but i agree kids a massive joy i never regretted them not a grandad yet but looking fwd to doing it all again one day

Your wife must be a heavy sleeper lol

cuteguy
08-04-2020, 03:31 PM
How do you sneaked out at 1.00am?

You can't take out the garbage at 1.00am all the time!:shout:

mkkid
09-04-2020, 05:45 PM
Physical presence or lack of is one thing. Withdrawing funds is another... hiding that requires some work too.

Huey
10-04-2020, 06:29 AM
Sound quite stressful

yobbo87
11-04-2020, 01:40 AM
Imagine the misery of being married with no sex life and stuck in lockdown...

cuteguy
11-04-2020, 01:18 PM
Imagine the misery of being married with no sex life and stuck in lockdown...

No wonder domestic violence is on the increase. Some might say it's easy just to leave a relationship that has completely broken down but divorce can be a costly exercise. In the majority of cases, the man tends to come out worse if there are children involved and he is working.