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qwertymanno1
12-06-2020, 10:59 AM
This is the world of punters where you can say anything anonymously so here goes....

No shame in hiding the fact that I'm having difficulty coming the second time by intercourse and therefore most of the time opt of HJ after feeling tired/exhausted.

A little background on my story
I wait around 5-7 mins after coming the first time before I try to go the second round, but don't always immediately do that. Sometime I'll go down on her for 5-10 mins or so and then start. But even though I'll feel exhausted and out of breadth. But I will be erect throughout it's just I'll have a bit of pain in my legs. I'm not very experienced with sex, and truth be told, I've only ever had sex with a WL. I'm in my mid 20's and a bit overweight.

I understand that losing weight and exercise would help. I guess what I'm asking is if you've experienced this and dealt with this successfully? How did you deal with this, was there a strategy involved? Do you do any exercises in particular to get your stamina up? Any other tricks would most certainly help.

Thanks in advance guys

P.S .. not intending to take any meds

Dettol
12-06-2020, 01:00 PM
I think refractory period varies from person to person but some guys in porn can cum and fucking continuously (no downtime). Stopped after 2-3 times ..that’s insane !

eagerpunter
12-06-2020, 01:06 PM
You can try kegel exercises to help you last longer. Essentially it's the muscle you use to stop yourself peeing mid stream.

asiafever
12-06-2020, 01:24 PM
So many factors at play. I sometimes take ages to get even 1 shot off. The more you over think it the harder it can be to achieve, so really just relax and enjoy the experience and if it has to be by hj then enjoy that experience to its max too. If there's something on your mind you want to try ask the girl. The last fs girl I saw got me away twice in 45 mins and said next time if I booked an hour she thought she could get three out of me, she just knew how to push my button. I know for me that when a girl kisses it gets me more involved and hotter, same goes for massage too. Don't be shy about things that may turn you on either like using the mirrors for better views, trust me you aren't the first guy that's enjoyed looking at the mirror while going doggy on a perfect body like the star of your own porn movie.
Hope that helps.

rooter
12-06-2020, 01:30 PM
Don't get hung up about it bro.
Sometimes you come once, sometimes you come twice, and sometimes you don't come at all.
It doesn't really matter. It's just punting. Relax and Enjoy!

asiafever
12-06-2020, 01:33 PM
A little while ago my gf was over (daughter having sleepover at friends house). She wanted to see how many times we could do it. Over a few hours we did 5 before we went to sleep, then once more in the morning. Not bad fpr an old fella.
Chemistry with the partner is a big factor for me, if there's nothing there then yeah I can find it hard to back up.

asiafever
12-06-2020, 01:34 PM
Don't get hung up about it bro.
Sometimes you come once, sometimes you come twice, and sometimes you don't come at all.
It doesn't really matter. It's just punting. Relax and Enjoy!

That's exactly it. Relax and let whatever happens happen.

keddy
12-06-2020, 01:38 PM
Got the same issue with the second shot as well. Gets hard to stay hard when inside and usually need a helping hand. God I wish I had a button to unload at will.

kingwally
12-06-2020, 03:49 PM
What is msog...please advise

tpol
12-06-2020, 04:31 PM
I find if you relax and focus on the girl's pleasure, you can last much longer. When you focus on your own pleasure, you come faster

asiafever
12-06-2020, 04:31 PM
What is msog...please advise

Multiple
Shots
On
Goal

Raybo
12-06-2020, 04:44 PM
A couple of WLs I have spoke to about this reckons it's just a matter of practice. I often wonder whether they are scouting for return business or they are on to something. I am beginning to think they could be right.

Until I started punting 7 years ago in a regular or semi-regular fashion, most of my previous sexual experience was obviously with my partner. i maybe had sex with a dozen or so women before I met her and apart from an office affair and a break up for 3 months, it was only her. Apart from the odd occasion early on, we would have sex and it would pretty much finish when I ejaculated. My mind and body have been conditioned over time that once I have shot my load, that's it.

Meng
12-06-2020, 04:50 PM
It’s really hard a second shot. I really want it but I feel pressure that I might not get it up and that makes it worse. A lot of the time second shots are usually a handjob/ blow job.

There was a few girls that got me a second shot from sexy and it was Tiffany from ginza, Lily from 42 and a Japanese girl from 42 I can’t remember her name but she’s not there yet.

rlarla311
12-06-2020, 11:25 PM
Try to save some stamina during your first action and also try to find best posture that pleasures you the most.

qwertymanno1
13-06-2020, 04:17 AM
Thanks for all the advice guys :-)

Labia Vortex
13-06-2020, 01:46 PM
What is msog...please advise

Multiple Shots on Goal

kingwally
13-06-2020, 06:39 PM
Multiple Shots on Goal

So, does that mean you nominate where you are going to blow on her and you aim for there?

cuteguy
13-06-2020, 06:48 PM
Multiple Shots on Goal

Hopefully you can aim for different spots and not the same one.:shout:

lucky59
12-09-2020, 05:21 PM
Most of my enjoyment is what goes on before the first shot!! Lots of sexy DFK, fondling, DATY and an explosive finish ...perfect. Expectations met & no performance anxiety for me:)

Midnight_Prowl
12-09-2020, 08:16 PM
I didnt have any issue with MSOG when i was younger, but 1st round was quite short..5mins?? But 2nd round was longer obviously...but after i turned 30's i noticed it is taking longer in my 1st round 10mins?? And 2nd round just would not cum unless girl is hot...these days MSOG has been deleted from my life...no way...even the 1st round i cannot feel anything...
But if i do it with the girl who is really hot and exactly know my bttons than i have no issues.

IMO it is connection with the gal... I noticed wls these days are not that desperate as before..

azza1234
21-12-2020, 04:51 PM
Its connection for me, if I get a good connection with them I can do it

Sam678
21-12-2020, 04:55 PM
I would say if I can connect with WL then it generally goes for normal duration and can go for second round after a small break. I generally tend to book longer duration when wish to go for multiple action rounds.

Funland
21-12-2020, 11:47 PM
Just book 1.5 hrs , I always do that, no rush, two shots, satisfied, worth the money

thats solid advice and gives you plenty of time to relax and enjoy yourself.

didaswiwaw
22-12-2020, 01:47 AM
You need to know how much time you need to cum first time. If its more than 20 mins, then you probably can't do multiple shots in 1 hour session. You need to take into account
- ~5 minutes shower
- 5-10 minutes refractory period after you cum
- 2nd orgasm usually need longer time than the 1st

So my advice is to try to cum the 1st time as soon as you can, so you can have time to do the 2nd one. Don't masturbate for a couple of days before punting, so you have the lust built up.

spaniel77
22-12-2020, 06:46 AM
I know someone who cummed 6x in 45 mins...