relationship with working girl

[orangejuice925]

I've been seeing a girl for about three years and although I like her very much I've met another girl called Kylie who is a working girl. When I'm with her she makes me feel so good and of course I want to fuck her but we can be doing nothing and it still feels really good. The girl I'm with, I don't feel that with her. She always makes me feel bad about myself and if I wanted a psychologist or professional help then I would have gone out and found it myself. Anyway, has anyone ever had a relationship with a working girl and how was it?

[AHLUNGOR]

I've been seeing a girl for about three years and although I like her very much I've met another girl called Kylie who is a working girl. When I'm with her she makes me feel so good and of course I want to fuck her but we can be doing nothing and it still feels really good. The girl I'm with, I don't feel that with her. She always makes me feel bad about myself and if I wanted a psychologist or professional help then I would have gone out and found it myself. Anyway, has anyone ever had a relationship with a working girl and how was it?

Sounds like you have been seeing the wrong girl.

Stay with Kylie but perhaps only on a commercial basis for now.

Good luck

Cheers

[jellyshots]

Some of these girls are really good at giving you the GFE, confidante and friend with benefits vibe. Has she given you her details and asked for yours in return? Do you have contact with her outside of where she works? I know the next one is a funny question but what does she think of a guy that sees a working girl? And she will also ask, what do you think of me? How will you feel if one of her ex-clients sees her in the street?

It's not easy seeing an ex-ML or ex-ML. Other than that, they're just normal women. Which also happens to mean, if you think you'll get a BBBJ CIM every morning to wake you up, it isn't likely to happen. Maybe occasionally like other women. But they have hobbies and all sorts of things they like to do in their spare time. Me, I'm happy to let them study, learn new things, meet new people and keep up a nice lifestyle so that she never has to go back to work as an ML. And we spoke of her old work at length once and pretty much never again.

[orangejuice925]

well if that's all that she is doing and if that's the only thing i need in my life then i need to start making more money so i can see her more often. :)

[Travelmate]

I tend to find if ML and WL quit their job , it is easier to engage .... (i.e. easier to catch up. talk on the phone, etc)

[orangejuice925]

i can't have her quit. how am i supposed to see her? :(

[jellyshots]

I tend to find if ML and WL quit their job , it is easier to engage .... (i.e. easier to catch up. talk on the phone, etc)

That's a prerequisite for me to pursue something with an ex-ML. Never gone for the ex-WL. I really don't have that much experience with FS girls.


i can't have her quit. how am i supposed to see her? :(

Like you said, make some more money. Why wouldn't you ditch the gf anyway? Travelmate's tipping section will probably help with that.

[rsalcedo]

I'm no Dr Phil brother but here's my 2 cents

you've been together for 3 yrs and you like her very much
then if something feels missing, you have to do something about it
to reinvigorate the relationship, and spice it up a bit, maybe a holiday

talk. communication is important. just sit and ask her, is everything ok?
is there something that u want to tell me? are you happy?
you'll be surprised, maybe the problem is not you but something else bothering her
it may be family, friends, or work. and as her boyfriend, it is your job to help ease the pressure

man up. i know it's tempting to go ML/WL for relief but it's not fair, how would you feel if gf
is doing some monkey business behind your back. even more unfair that you're going to replace her
with a prostitute, you may coz heartache & psychological impact on her if she learns the truth

what you should do is choose one, and let go of the other. (if we are to be hypocrites)
but men are polygamous in nature, so our options here are (plus my scores meaning what i'd do if it's me):
1) let go of kylie and try to improve relationship with gf (45%)
2) keep both girls, but don't let gf know about kylie (35%)
3) let go of girlfriend, because kylie makes you happier (15%)
4) stop seeing both girls, give yourself space and rethink your strategy (5%)

1 & 2 are interchangeable, 2 would've been the winner (80%) if you say kylie gives u free fs outside
but you said you wont see her if she quits, this means she treats you as client
don't be stupid & hurt yourself in the end.

[Littlewonder]

Go with your heart not your dick if you want more than to just visit her at work. If its just a punter wl relationship the follow your dick is fine.

[orangejuice925]

I like Kylie more right now.

[orangejuice925]

Anyway, has anyone ever been in a a relationship with a working girl and what was it like?

[Max Impact]

Anyway, has anyone ever been in a a relationship with a working girl and what was it like?

I dont suggest its a good idea. Unless you like heartache.

[jellyshots]

I'm with an ex-ML. Never been with an ex-WL. She quit before I started dating her and she's back at school now and working part-time. Sorry man, I can't even comment about going out with a WL who stayed in her job. I wouldn't be able to date her.

[orangejuice925]

why is it not a good idea? what happens to the WL?

[IExperiment]

why is it not a good idea? what happens to the WL?

Lots of thing can happen been covered so many times but I would just say go ahead have fun what the worse could happen :) break your heart than get up again and move on to the next girl :)

Ask something more to the point please no point beating around the bush.

[orangejuice925]

why is it not a good idea to date a WL? and what happens to the WL if nobody wants to be with her and why does nobody want to be with her?

[Max Impact]

why is it not a good idea to date a WL? and what happens to the WL if nobody wants to be with her and why does nobody want to be with her?

As worldly Punter Boy iExperiment said: Ask something more to the point please no point beating around the bush.

[Silver Surfer]

Dating a working girl is asking for trouble - the vast majority of girls can't deal with her line of work, so it becomes hugely problematic.

I have never dated a working girl but would certainly give it a shot.

[jellyshots]

why is it not a good idea to date a WL? and what happens to the WL if nobody wants to be with her and why does nobody want to be with her?

Up to you whether you want to date a WL or not. In your situation my first priority would be to get rid of the gf that makes you feel bad about yourself. Once you do that, you will be a happier person. You will attract more positive women in your life if you are not weighed down by someone else's negativity. That may or may not include Kylie. GF is not the same as wife.

What kind of shop does she work for? High end or budget? If it's budget, she will be having sex with about 12 men a day. The high end places, only about 6. Multiply that by however many days she is rostered on. I don't have the figures for private WL. If she's an ML, it's still about the same, they actually see a similar number but with the high end shops, they will get 20% of clients just wanting to sit in the spa with a naked woman, talking to them. Also, once she tells you why she had to work in the industry in the first place, it will probably make you quite sad. No woman really wants to be selling their assets for money if they felt they had different options.

If nobody wants to be with a WL, she goes broke. That's the reality of it.

[getbro]

iv dated WLs and am now, have been with current for 2yrs. not so jellyshots about no woman wants to be doing WL work. some WLs really do enjoy their work and do have other options. fact is some WLs just love sex...nothing sad about it.

[orangejuice925]

some WG can have more class than a "normal" girl and i think that's quite sad. What I meant was, if nobody wants to be with a working girl then does that mean they can't ever have a proper relationship with someone without hiding their past? I suppose if nobody wants to be with them it just gives me better chances to be with Kylie right?

[8inches]

no sloppy seconds for me pls.
just for fun with a wl, I couldn't be with a girl thats being fucked my 8-10 cocks everyday

[jellyshots]

iv dated WLs and am now, have been with current for 2yrs. not so jellyshots about no woman wants to be doing WL work. some WLs really do enjoy their work and do have other options. fact is some WLs just love sex...nothing sad about it.

I stand corrected but I didn't say it was sad...

[jellyshots]

some WG can have more class than a "normal" girl and i think that's quite sad. What I meant was, if nobody wants to be with a working girl then does that mean they can't ever have a proper relationship with someone without hiding their past? I suppose if nobody wants to be with them it just gives me better chances to be with Kylie right?

Yep. Pretty much every ML I've spoken to hides what they do from their bf. The most common one is they just work reception. Hell, I knew a few strippers who lied to their bf's.

[orangejuice925]

there's a step between ML and WL, don't you think?

[Sextus]

Yep. Pretty much every ML I've spoken to hides what they do from their bf. The most common one is they just work reception.

I wonder how many of those bf's, in the small still hours of the night, wonder whether their gf ever walks that tiny, tiny three metres from the desk to the table.

[asiafever]

So true sextus, but remember, denial is not just a river in Egypt..

[cmk76]

'...No woman really wants to be selling their assets for money if they felt they had different options."

On the contrary, many other women employ their assets to bring in the quick big bucks too!

[cmk76]

I wonder how many of those bf's, in the small still hours of the night, wonder whether their gf ever walks that tiny, tiny three metres from the desk to the table.

Yes, I use to wonder about the cocks that had erupted in an ex's mouth every time she came home and wanting to dkf me!
But the thought never crossed my mind how many other cocks that had erupted in a WL's mouth when I'm dfk'ing them!

[asiafever]

Exactly. I was watching a documentary on sex in business. These women were marketing execs. They were told to sell a product without using their looks (they were all pretty hot), no flirtation, nothing. They failed. Dismally. At the end the woman running it destroyed them warning them that at 40 someone younger and prettier will make them redundant if they aren't at least competent, which she said none were.

[jellyshots]

Fark, how many punters have DFk'd the Styles girls and not thought about how many dicks they've sucked that morning?

[Sextus]

It is like being worried about licking a river stone because water flowed over it an hour before.

[orangejuice925]

she gets a lot of practice. All the better to please me with.

[jellyshots]

she gets a lot of practice. All the better to please me with.

I'm sure you've got plenty to teach her if you're enthusiastic. If you haven't got a problem with what she does for a living, I'd say, keep being with her.

[jellyshots]

So my ex-ML gf and I have decided that we like friends with benefits. Less stress all around. Bucket list box ticked. Bro orangejuice925, they really have a hard time dealing with their past sometimes. As in, they'd rather store it away in a box they don't open but really, mine thought about it more than I did. And I'd rather keep seeing her without the added pressure of trying to figure out the relationship issues. So, looks like I'm single and back to punting, muhahaha! First stop SF, next stop Thai Oasis.

[orangejuice925]

alright she gets off work at 9:30, I'm gonna pick her up and get something to eat and have a night out, do you reckon that's a good idea?

[jellyshots]

Sure man, go for it. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't show up? At the least, you'll have a nice night out with a girl you obviously like.

[Sextus]

Providing her spit stopped flowing like the river it is!

[orangejuice925]

Nobody becomes a WL because they want to. Maybe some but most not.

[Sextus]

Yes, the tongue part was the stone metaphor, and the river was the constantly replenishing spit. Your mouth is a new environment minute by minute!

[Littlewonder]

Why buy a book when there is a whole library out there? lovem and return em! You can always get the book out again next week if its that good.

[tknt84]

Took a ML out for a few dates once. She was very picky about where, as I had become a somewhat familiar face in the shop. That being said it was pretty uneventful. I lost interest in her outside of the shop setting, but no love lost. We were still friendly up until I stopped going to the shop. Point is, go in without expecting too much.

[Littlewonder]

It can work and can be fun I dated one when she stopped working for 10 years she was just a normal person or woman but I think its harder while they are still working.

Hav been out with current working ladies Its fun and good but dont expect too much just go with the flow.

[tknt84]

I dated a WL briefly as well. But the same thing happened, I kept largely detached and preferred the pay for play relationship instead. Weird huh? Probably a self defence mechanism on my behalf.