Max Impact
25-02-2013, 10:28 PM
Well, I've been reading all this stuff about creepy white guys. I guess in truth most of it has been written by an American feminist of Asian descent (Monica Tan).
But I can't see whats wrong with discriminating towards a certain look and race.
The racism and discrimination seems to come from those that attack "creepy white guys". I mean its in the title "creepy WHITE guys". The purveyors of this dialogue then go on to describe how creepy white guys go for the submissive nature of Asian women. Again the authors generalise by race. I would therefore call that racism as well.
Most of the women I know are Asian and they all are quite capable of putting me in my place and treating me like an insignificant thing if they desire . They are anything but submissive.
Anyway, as a result of Monica's need to fill column space I chanced upon the topic of sajiao:
http://www.dailylife.com.au/news-and-views/dl-opinion/how-dating-is-different-in-china-20121019-27v6x.html
"When Chinese girls are with their boyfriend they like to sajiao (act like a spoiled child) and throw little tantrums. It can be really cute. In return Chinese boyfriends will honghong (humor and comfort them). I'm a classic sajiao loving, tantrum throwing, born in the 80s Beijing girl and Alex always behaved just like a Chinese guy, humoring me."
It's basically a brat-like, foot stamping behaviour. I was intrigued by this Chinese phenomenon.
And then the funniest thing happened. I was sajiao'd in a big way soon after reading about it but I didnt recognise what was happening to me at the time. I didn't respond in a Chinese way, I walked away thinking this girl is crazy. She came back as if it never happened.
Has it happened to you?
But I can't see whats wrong with discriminating towards a certain look and race.
The racism and discrimination seems to come from those that attack "creepy white guys". I mean its in the title "creepy WHITE guys". The purveyors of this dialogue then go on to describe how creepy white guys go for the submissive nature of Asian women. Again the authors generalise by race. I would therefore call that racism as well.
Most of the women I know are Asian and they all are quite capable of putting me in my place and treating me like an insignificant thing if they desire . They are anything but submissive.
Anyway, as a result of Monica's need to fill column space I chanced upon the topic of sajiao:
http://www.dailylife.com.au/news-and-views/dl-opinion/how-dating-is-different-in-china-20121019-27v6x.html
"When Chinese girls are with their boyfriend they like to sajiao (act like a spoiled child) and throw little tantrums. It can be really cute. In return Chinese boyfriends will honghong (humor and comfort them). I'm a classic sajiao loving, tantrum throwing, born in the 80s Beijing girl and Alex always behaved just like a Chinese guy, humoring me."
It's basically a brat-like, foot stamping behaviour. I was intrigued by this Chinese phenomenon.
And then the funniest thing happened. I was sajiao'd in a big way soon after reading about it but I didnt recognise what was happening to me at the time. I didn't respond in a Chinese way, I walked away thinking this girl is crazy. She came back as if it never happened.
Has it happened to you?