Does anyone know about your secret life?

[manjuice333]

So gents, does anybody (from the real world lol) know your secret life as a punter?

I have not told a soul about the extent of my devious activities. Though I have one friend whom I recently told about my one experience with Jap girl. A mate I feel like I can confide in.

I have always wondered if there are other people I know who are lurking through these forums and others that I visit.

I think most people I know would be shocked beyond belief knowing about my punting career, let alone my forum username lol! In hindsight, I think it might be the grossest username I've seen on this or any other forum, and for that, I apologise.

[Raybo]

Yeah I have friends that know about my punting and they kinda understand. Not like a punter though. Problem is punters aren't great friends. Don't seek friendship, seek knowledge here.

[Climax598]

Maybe some of forum punter are your friends/relatives/work colleagues you don't even know are punting. A lot of secrets in this world. I don't tell. The secret dies with me. Can't trust anyone.

[poida]

i dont trust anyone, secret stays with me :)

[annintofu]

Before I came to Australia, in my circle of friends & colleagues, punting was considered a very normal means of relaxation, even for those who did't usually punt. Over lunch, it was very common to talk about last night's girls or today's plan after work, or new girls in certain shops etc.
I really enjoyed those years, as most people thought it's just a little hobby. Funny thing was, I rarely shared my punting experiences with them (too shy?) but always listened to their stories with great zest. I believe I was one of the most addicted, but they all thought of me as not going to such shops too often.

In Australia, I've never told anyone I know about my "little hobby"

[Archer]

These extra curricular activities should be avoided at dinner conversations because someone will always slip and leak the secret. Having said that I often bump into friends while punting.

[krnboy]

Two of my closest cousins know and they join me to go for a punt

[local]

I actually have a mixed bag of friends and associates...

There is of course a "punting" group who knows (but not all).

I probably know more of them than reverse.

Of course there are a few ladies I have met over the years, some have become friends, some have married other friends, and of course some of us share certain "secrets".

[Carissawhore]

I mentioned to 2 of my close friends about my punting secret and they both ghosted me after few days and one of them has wife and kids and the other one is still single but they enjoyed listening to my story in the beginning later they just stopped contacting me since I did this occasionally and did not want that influencing their sad life. Everyone fantasizes about fucking as many girls as they can in their short life but starts lecturing punters when we reveal our secrets to make us look bad in public eye so that they are seen as saints in front of everyone.

[Bunty4]

Yeah I have friends that know about my punting and they kinda understand. Not like a punter though. Problem is punters aren't great friends. Don't seek friendship, seek knowledge here.

I feel one punter feels for other punter and they can be great mates....ofcourse if you are mates first and then punt together nothing beats that.

[Bunty4]

I don't hold back....I wear it as a badge....I will happily talk about it to anyone who starts the conversation....if I am ashamed of something I would not do the act.

[manjuice333]

Thanks for the interesting responses.

It got me thinking today when we post things about our general interests (such as music tastes etc...) if someone knew us fairly well they might be able to work out who we are from a few posts. I'm thinking of just about 3 interests of mine that if I posted them here someone might say, hey I think that's so and so..

Of course, then there is also the question as to why they are on these forums as well, but it just got me thinking.

[Raybo]

I mentioned to 2 of my close friends about my punting secret and they both ghosted me after few days and one of them has wife and kids and the other one is still single but they enjoyed listening to my story in the beginning later they just stopped contacting me since I did this occasionally and did not want that influencing their sad life. Everyone fantasizes about fucking as many girls as they can in their short life but starts lecturing punters when we reveal our secrets to make us look bad in public eye so that they are seen as saints in front of everyone.

You can breathe whenever you like, until you can't. We don't fantasize about fucking girls, we fulfil it. Then we try and find something better. The law of diminishing returns.

[Minathy8724]

There was a punter on this forum once told he walked out of a shop and bumped into the relatives of the missus. The married subsequently broke down, but prior to the discovery their marriage was already on the ropes. He got on fire with the father-in-law and still keep in contact with him after the divorce, I mean, so well they both go punting together. Now, this is his daughter we are talking about, .. no secrets to hide there.

[Jumper63]

I told 2 friends who were lamenting over beers and dinner about one guy’s divorce and the other’s perennial sex life with his wife. I suggested utilising a paid service and was met with the usual misinformed views about drug using crack whores, STIs, “I would never pay for it” and prohibitive cost. So I invited both to look at various services on my WeChat. To dispel the misconceptions.
Both knew I am a libertine but neither knew I used paid services. Both know I’m in a long term relationship with a younger woman. I quite happily spoke openly and at length about my practices and the utility of this forum.
It’s fair to say ... there was an uncomfortable silence when I revealed that I use paid services. Whilst both were amazed at the quality of WLs, affordability and array, it so affected their moral compass that neither was to be persuaded to our view.
Neither raise the subject with me anymore ... it’s like the war ...

[local]

You can breathe whenever you like, until you can't. We don't fantasize about fucking girls, we fulfil it. Then we try and find something better. The law of diminishing returns.

Pretty spot on.

The law of diminishing returns really does govern us.
Maybe a good thread title for later...

[Labia Vortex]

On and off for over 40 years
Not one soul knows
The reasons we punt are many and varied
No one knows as I refuse to be judged for a harmless pastime that completes my joy of living

[harrycd]

I took a flatmate to 42 once but he's a 30min guy while I'm more an hour.

[bigfatkilo]

For me that crosses the boundary... discretion is a necessity in this domain.

Having said this, I have meet up with a few guys from this forum. It's a common interest.


There was a punter on this forum once told he walked out of a shop and bumped into the relatives of the missus. The married subsequently broke down, but prior to the discovery their marriage was already on the ropes. He got on fire with the father-in-law and still keep in contact with him after the divorce, I mean, so well they both go punting together. Now, this is his daughter we are talking about, .. no secrets to hide there.

[Yougottabe]

Nobody knows I punt amongst my friends. I don’t want anyone to find out either. I’m considered a pretty nice guy people even come to me when they are feeling down in the dumps especially females for a chat. They’d be mortified. I know friends who go to Titty bars & I can’t stand those places. They’d be surprised if they knew. Sometimes I feel terrible about what I am & I’m going more than ever. Lol I saw so many hot Asian girls today in the city & I wasn’t going to punt today but here I go off too punt again. Every time I go into the city these days I end up punting.

[warwick1]

"The secret life of a mad whoremonger"...got mini series written all over it...............

[drifter]

This is years ago at Golden Apple in Kings Cross. When I was about to leave I saw my uncle at the back door on the monitor. Had to hide in the private waiting rooms.

[Serrucho]

Maybe i have a weird group of friends... obviously some i dont mention it but i dont feel ashamed if it came up.

Too each their own as always

[holi_day]

This is years ago at Golden Apple in Kings Cross. When I was about to leave I saw my uncle at the back door on the monitor. Had to hide in the private waiting rooms.

Haha, maybe many of us have been seen by friends, relatives, or colleagues visiting these places just you never know.

[bigfatkilo]

Any place in particular with these hot chicks? I mean where in CBD?


Nobody knows I punt amongst my friends. I d I mean where on’t want anyone to find out either. I’m considered a pretty nice guy people even come to me when they are feeling down in the dumps especially females for a chat. They’d be mortified. I know friends who go to Titty bars & I can’t stand those places. They’d be surprised if they knew. Sometimes I feel terrible about what I am & I’m going more than ever. Lol I saw so many hot Asian girls today in the city & I wasn’t going to punt today but here I go off too punt again. Every time I go into the city these days I end up punting.

[Nelly69]

yeah, I keep my punting private, my family and friends will be shocked on how much I spend on punting.

[chemistry84]

yeah, I keep my punting private, my family and friends will be shocked on how much I spend on punting.

I think this sums up a lot of us on the forum. Spent an insane amount of money.

[rooter]

I think this sums up a lot of us on the forum. Spent an insane amount of money.

Yeah us punters are crazy.
At the supermarket I will look for the specials, buy the cheaper brands, or a cheaper cut of meat etc just to save a couple of dollars.
And then I will spend hundreds of dollars on punting with no hesitation at all. Lol!

[cuteguy]

I think this sums up a lot of us on the forum. Spent an insane amount of money.

But then price is not negotiable in the brothels or RNT shops unlike in supermarkets where it cane be discounted due to freshness of the item or coming close to use by date.

[kingmike]

Not really, i'm just trying it out but so far i don't think this is for me, i just end up chatting to the girls and hanging out i'm not really too fussed about sex i don't really even feel anything at the moment so i'm trying to quit porn also and masturbation.

But end of the day most likely will quit this pretty soon and i haven't done it for long it's not for me.

[davesydney2]

No one - not even any of my regulars knows the full truth on the frequency or diverse nature of my exploits - I'm tempted to share a portion of my activities with a mate or two just so is not locked up but I don't think it's worth the risk of a bad reaction or any possible discomfort between us

[Nelly69]

Yeah us punters are crazy.
At the supermarket I will look for the specials, buy the cheaper brands, or a cheaper cut of meat etc just to save a couple of dollars.
And then I will spend hundreds of dollars on punting with no hesitation at all. Lol!

Thats so funny! I am the same! Save money everywhere else but punting.

I would like to organize an end of COVID Punting trip to Thailand when the border opens up. I am sick of going there by myself, I wouldn't mind sharing (not physically) experience with fellow punters and be able to talk about it afterwards. So far all my punting trips experience is bottled up inside me.

[ML_Lover]

My ex ML now FWB hangs out with me and a couple of close mates regularly - definitely feel the need to share our crazy stories. One of them goes punting with me occasionally.

Spent maybe $8k this year on FWB - presents, groceries, hotels, etc. plus maybe another $1k on punting. Scary.

[Joe1956]

I get scared just logging on to this site using face recognition. I think “shit! The bastards seen me.........again!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂

[somtum]

nope. lol loved the fact my first post is a reply to this question :cool2:

[WebbiestBull]

I've told a couple of mates about it, they sometimes get jealous as they didn't know about this before they got into relationships. Also got some of my workmates into punting, which was pretty funny

[chaoticpotato]

Nope, but even before covid only punted a handful of times a year so not too much to hide

[Archer]

Used to share my experience with a few close mates, but people life changes and they eventually starts judging the frequency and the ML/WL you visit. It's better keeping it to yourself to avoid all the dramas.

[azza1234]

Nope have kept it all secret from everyone

[BigDickAsian]

I was introduced to punting by a friend from long ago. Ever since then I never stopped.
I am no longer in contact with him as we both led different lives after school.
I punted a few times overseas with a Sydney friend whilst on holiday.
We are still in touch and look back fondly on our memory from that holiday but have never punter together in Sydney.

More interesting is that a friend of a friend got found out by his wife for punting. They almost divorced but somehow managed to keep it together for the kiddies sake.
I just pretended to be shocked and said it was sad for the kids.
He was arrogant and boasted about his exploits apparently and that’s how word got out.

[Sam678]

Hell big No. My punting no one's business (except for the ones I am paying to) 😉😉

[The AR guy]

Shit I hope not. Never ever would I tell anyone. No-one can keep a juicy secret like that and sometimes friends turn into ex-friends. Imagine if it got back to your workplace or someone told your Mum. Never

[vitrium]

I've nearly bumped into 2 people I know while visiting brothels. After the second occasion I vowed not to visit shops near where I live, or too many friends or colleagues.

Luckily on both of those occasions I saw them before they saw me. So I managed to get away before I was noticed.

There was a 3rd time but I wasn't on my way to the shop in question, just happened to be walking past it. And one of the guys I work with, from the IT team walked out exactly as I walked past. We bothade eye contact and he sheepishly power walked off down the street. We never spoke about it. Lol

[Sam678]

He could have been your punting buddy if you wanted 😉😉😉

[DirtyLurker]

Keep it close to the chest and away from I love and work. Don’t want to be running into anyone

[Azninvasion85]

I have a group of friends that punt together lol... u know what they say... friends that punt together stay together. Its also great to have a beer afterwards n chat about ur experiences

[sporty32]

TOP SECRET!!

Actually only one friend knows about my punting life, and he does too...so is like we share our "secret".

[DirtyLurker]

Group of friends is high risk, too many chances for loose lips haha

[CFM001]

Will always and forever be a secret

[thaifetish]

I hope no-one knows. I often hear other brutish men discussing Rub-n-Tugs in filthy tones at work but that's just the nature of being a High Court Judge.

I'm sure ASIO and the Attorney Generals department and the Chinese MSS know about my punting but I like to think it's a secret.

[Budgyboy]

A high court judge on this forum, punting can almost be rated along side horse racing. You can be a shiek or a singo or you can be in a syndicate with a bunch of working class mates. Same as punting dosent matter its a pastime to enjoy.

[DirtyLurker]

To be fair I have told two mates, but I’ve had other mates share their punting stories with me and they have no idea I do

[konfuzion]

I hope no-one knows. I often hear other brutish men discussing Rub-n-Tugs in filthy tones at work but that's just the nature of being a High Court Judge.

I'm sure ASIO and the Attorney Generals department and the Chinese MSS know about my punting but I like to think it's a secret.

Wakwakwak

http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread.php?99929-Outdoor-HJ-with-ML

He said cartographer how from that to court judge? How many accounts you have?

[CFM001]

Maybe he is a Cartographer that works with High Court judges???

[local]

Maybe he is a Cartographer that works with High Court judges???

Sounds more like BSA

[TittyGuy]

I introduced a mate to punting. We don’t always share stories, but we sometimes are each other’s alibi. It’s handy.

[dwx]

For me it is my secret hour away from a busy life,
Yes, I have one mate that knows about me, like I know he has a mistress. While he doesn’t fully understand paying for it, yet for me it is simple.

I agree with most that I too become cheap in shopping so can go punting more.

[cuteguy]

Nah. People are too uptight & judgemental. Plus I've always found that doing secret things is more fun I have great fun visiting regular & new WL's.

I have heard from guys who have talked about visiting girls at some establishments. If they want to talk about their experiences then let it be. In the end, it's best to keep it to yourself and not acknowledge it with friends.

[kaos]

That's a big nope from me. Too much hassle and drama if word got out

[Niceguy11]

My good friend and my psychologist. They are the only two that know. The ironic thing is my psychologist is Chinese and she looks cute as. Very beautiful Chinese girl but know there is a zero chance of having sex with her lol

[Minathy8724]

As a lot of punters alluded to, keep your mouth shut and refrain from telling anyone, because it just leads to problems. Word of wisedom to the younger members - in my prime decades ago I use to date multiple girls at the same time. Got caught as it was difficult to hide, I swear chicks has spies everywhere and a sixth sense. After discovering punting it was the best thing ever. Seeing hot WL/ML, no baggage, no unexpected calls, no multiple dates to bed them later, no pressure to go out with them, no rejections and no lies and keeping tracking of all lies etc. After a session being treated very well I walk out the door knowing the romp will be a secret. Now... isn't that great? Keep those loose lips shut is the secret.

[thaifetish]

As a lot of punters alluded to, keep your mouth shut and refrain from telling anyone, because it just leads to problems. Word of wisedom to the younger members - in my prime decades ago I use to date multiple girls at the same time. Got caught as it was difficult to hide, I swear chicks has spies everywhere and a sixth sense. After discovering punting it was the best thing ever. Seeing hot WL/ML, no baggage, no unexpected calls, no multiple dates to bed them later, no pressure to go out with them, no rejections and no lies and keeping tracking of all lies etc. After a session being treated very well I walk out the door knowing the romp will be a secret. Now... isn't that great? Keep those loose lips shut is the secret.

AMEN! this is very good advice.

[Dark_nanon]

My brother and couple close guy friends. Some joke about it from time to time when its just the boys but have kept it secret otherwise.

[Crusader]

Funnily enough, my old man is impartial to some rnt. My brother is right into it. Punted a few times with a couple of close cousins and mates. A number of years ago, ran into my FIL coming out of a joint in Mosman. Bro code ftw

[theusual]

Only one dude knows because of circumstances and we compared notes to make sure we were swimming in different ponds and it's been dropped ever since.

Outside of that, top secret.

[pegasus]

A couple of my old mates used to know and join me from time to time. Haven't been in touch with them for years though. So just my secret at the moment

[rooter]

I think there are 100,000s of closet punters in Sydney.
Most don't even come on to a Forum such as this one.
They just do their punt and go back home or back to work or whatever and don't discuss it with anyone either in person or on online forums like this one.

[whatuppop]

i dont think i will ever talk about it with anyone else

[the_boss_king]

Most times I’ve been punting, it’s usually with like minded friends. I find it more fun and easier to go in that way.
But sometimes I do like to go by myself

[pokerslowly]

Punting has always been a solo activity for me, locally.

That being said, when I’m overseas, it is almost normal for work mates to go out on these recreational activities. I’m comfortable sharing it with them. In fact, I play innocent sometimes...

[Shogunsan]

Top secret. Agree that best to refrain from telling others, as can only lead to problems.

[BadDog1980]

Lol...good topic... Massage parlours mainly solo activity for me. Even FS places. But occasionally, one of me close mate and I go punting together FS places. More fun sneaking and lying. Conning each other...afterwards go for a feed. But super close friend and no telling to others...

[rooter]

The first rule of Punt Club is: You do not talk about Punt Club.
The second rule of Punt Club is: You do not talk about Punt Club.

[Scanlan]

There are many cryptic messages in the punting world. I use to be a regular with a
Caucasian Lady at the old Chequers in Goulburn Street. She told me she was leaving
the business for a Client who she said was good to her and she would
give her a better life style. I was young at the time and had chuckle to himself as i thought
of Pretty Women. Few yrs later i saw her at Randwick and she was with a Melb Cup winning
Jockey and she was being introduced as his Nanny.
They are still happily married and really i am happy for her as she was decent girl in this
corrupted society.

[Dettol]

Just my barrister and baristas.

[Warrabong]

Only a few close mates with the same hobby. It’s good to share intel