How long can it last?

[Carpe Diem]

Hi guys, I've been punting a bit over a year, I have a partner who is oblivious so far. I figure it's a matter of time before I'm busted. There must be many more out there like me. How long have you guys got away with it?

[Hammered]

Do you want to get caught?

[warwick1]

Do you want to get caught?

If you have a partner dont punt , how would you feel if she was fucking around....................

[Batting100]

If you have a partner dont punt , how would you feel if she was fucking around....................

Come on dude really???

[Scotty from Marketing]

You have to organise your punts with your big head.
Once in the shop the other guy can take over.

Keep your activities in the shop and you minimise risk. Dont come home covered in oil, jizz or pussy also helps.
Have a burner phone that doesnt see the light of day at home or in billing.
Dont talk about that hot K-Pop girl who does that thing you like and dont fall in love

[Scotty from Marketing]

If you have a partner dont punt , how would you feel if she was fucking around....................
Is she paying for it too and happier at home because of it?

[warwick1]

Come on dude really???

Yes really dude, at least you didnt call me bro....I knew that would get a bite......

[4FoW2]

Hi guys, I've been punting a bit over a year, I have a partner who is oblivious so far. I figure it's a matter of time before I'm busted. There must be many more out there like me. How long have you guys got away with it?
Some cultures (not Australian) are ok with mistresses or wandering husbands. I'm sure many Jap wives know exactly what their husbands are up to. As long as he looks after the family and is discrete all is good. Its a bit like the prostitution in Philippines ...a necessary money earner for a period of time to help the family. Of course they made it from being a maid or waitress. To answer your question about 12 years now BUT yes I have an Asian partner. Don't be surprised if she already knows my friend.
Re your situation with your partner ( hope not wife, hope not kids) the question I would be asking is - What is your financial exit strategy when the shit hits the fan?

[popeye96]

For starters probably don't go visiting punter forums. Not hard to trace online viewing habits if you have half a brain.

[gpeck80]

Some cultures (not Australian) are ok with mistresses or wandering husbands. I'm sure many Jap wives know exactly what their husbands are up to. As long as he looks after the family and is discrete all is good. Its a bit like the prostitution in Philippines ...a necessary money earner for a period of time to help the family. Of course they made it from being a maid or waitress. To answer your question about 12 years now BUT yes I have an Asian partner. Don't be surprised if she already knows my friend.
Re your situation with your partner ( hope not wife, hope not kids) the question I would be asking is - What is your financial exit strategy when the shit hits the fan?

Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side.

[ococpunt]

Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side.

In general, but not everyone it's common for Jap and Korean girls to have additional "partners" and they know their guy is probably also doing the same...

[iamking]

I get called out for using the term Jap as short hand, but noone says anythung when prople making crap up about Japanese and Koreans is ok?
Statement like "it's common for Jap and Korean girls to have additional "partners"" and "Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side" show people's true sides. Why not replace them with Italian or Australian, it would be no different. Some guys here have a warped sense of women, but even more so about Asian women. That's scary.

[The Professor]

I get called out for using the term Jap as short hand, but noone says anythung when prople making crap up about Japanese and Koreans is ok?
Statement like "it's common for Jap and Korean girls to have additional "partners"" and "Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side" show people's true sides. Why not replace them with Italian or Australian, it would be no different. Some guys here have a warped sense of women, but even more so about Asian women. That's scary.
My dear friend please accept that you are not correct and move on. Saying you can substitute Australian or Italian women for Japanese or Korean is clearly false. It would appear your understanding of cultural norms from these places are not your strong suit. I have no quarrel with you nor disapprove of your use of Jap as short hand but lets spread the truth so others can learn. There's nothing wrong with getting something incorrect ever now and then - the better man is strong enough to admit his mistake and learn from it - the arrogant one just denies it.
Have a nice day.
Prof

[blake_ly]

Keep your activities in the shop and you minimise risk. Dont come home covered in oil, jizz or pussy also helps.
Have a burner phone that doesnt see the light of day at home or in billing.
Dont talk about that hot K-Pop girl who does that thing you like and dont fall in love

this should totally be a beginner 101 lesson to this forum. Can easily last years if you're careful, and if your partner is not the full-suspicious type.


Statement like "it's common for Jap and Korean girls to have additional "partners"" and "Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side" show people's true sides. Why not replace them with Italian or Australian, it would be no different. Some guys here have a warped sense of women, but even more so about Asian women. That's scary.

I think the original statement you're reacting to might have been made without cultural considerations, but it is more likely that Asian women do this on the side compared to italians or Australians (other women from different cultures do as well, just less frequent). a simple test is to look at the number of private girls/escorts online.

[ococpunt]

Hi guys, I've been punting a bit over a year, I have a partner who is oblivious so far. I figure it's a matter of time before I'm busted. There must be many more out there like me. How long have you guys got away with it?

ring up and text the shop to make a booking, delete the message and the phone records, show up, have your punt, pay and get out

worst case scenario, she calls you during your massage, ignore and call back 30mins later and make up whatever excuses, she won't get suspicious unless it's happening every week

only way you'll get caught is when you start exchanging texts with MLs afterwards I would say, there's nothing wrong with going for a massage unless you are involved with something else, most MLs (99%) won't actively bother you outside unless you have shown some sort of willingness to see them outside

[Batting100]

All *insert race of people* are good at/bad at/always do activity... comments are racist “all Asians are good at math” is still racist even if it doesn’t sound bad

Doesn’t mean we don’t all say them though

[iamking]

this should totally be a beginner 101 lesson to this forum. Can easily last years if you're careful, and if your partner is not the full-suspicious type.



I think the original statement you're reacting to might have been made without cultural considerations, but it is more likely that Asian women do this on the side compared to italians or Australians (other women from different cultures do as well, just less frequent). a simple test is to look at the number of private girls/escorts online.

Because we define women from certain countries based on private girls and escorts online??? WTF?
Even if you took the simple test, how many of the privates are married or on a relationship?

The statemenrs made were based on cheating, and multiple partners being the norm nit where your MLs or WLs are from.

Are Russian women more likely to be gold diggers based on the number of online international marriages? Are Czech women more likely to do porn? Are more German women into S&M?
Making statements based on western knowledge of other cultures and biased perceptions and white washed ideas is poor form. Going to Vietnam, eating pho in Inala and dating a Viet girl doesn't make a westerner an expert on how all Vietnamese women behave.

Being part Japanese and having spent time living there makes me understand Japanese cultural norms better than most westerners. With a population of 100 million more than Australia, the sample size most of us experience is limited and skewed.

Replacing Korean and Japanese with Australian and Italian is valid, cheating girlfriends and wives are common in both countries based on their social norms and divorce rates. So statements like "Japanese women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side" still rings true when you say Austrslian women cheat. Some of them prostitute on the side"

To say "In general, but not everyone it's common for Jap and Korean girls to have additional "partners"" is crap. To use in general followed by common implies a majority, which is not true. Its not the norm for either country.

If one used the word somtimes rather than common I would say yes. But it rings true for Austrslian, Italian, Greek, French women too. We all know of people who cheated, were they only with Japanese or Korean women? I know more Australian women who have additonal partners, are on Tinder whilst in a relationship or are in an open relationships than all my asian friends combined, but that doesn't mean that in general Australian women are sluts and swingers.

Don't confuse the MLs and WLs we see with the "typical" women from those countries.

Unless the wise Professor chooses to share a study to prove me otherwise I'll stay arrogant.

[Truthteller]

Alot of generalizations here

[The Professor]

If posters travelled to these countries and had an understanding of their cultural norms then they would know and understand. Simple question how many times and where have you travelled to in Asia?
Next you'll be telling me most Indian men, not all, don't treat women like shit. Not a generalization, a fact.

[Carpe Diem]

I'm extremely careful with my activities, all the usual measures. I'm feeling more hopeful that I'll be able to maintain this indefinitely given some replies here.
As for the moralising, I feel no guilt punting at all. I never looked at a woman thru 25 years of a dead bedroom situation; my only regret is I didn't start punting earlier. Life is not always black and white.

[4FoW2]

As for the moralising, I feel no guilt punting at all. I never looked at a woman thru 25 years of a dead bedroom situation; my only regret is I didn't start punting earlier.
I wonder how many guys go through this esp with Western women (there he goes again generalizing) and find out later in life what they have missed or sacrificed.
I would say at least 50% and no I don't have any studies to back up my thoughts.

[LoveHer]

I'm glad I found this forum. People outside tend to judge fairly harshly of the behaviours that I ( and you partake.)

I've been in a committed relationship for over 25 years. I started using telephone sex services over 24 years ago when I was travelling on business, then evolved to massage parlours and then eventually a regular massage girl suggested we try FS. Fast forward to now and I'm visiting joints two times a week for entertainment and FS.

A couple of my personal rules for success.

Always use a burner phone
Always have a cover story
Always pay cash, plausible deniability

If it all turns to shit I'm prepared to lose everything and will go live on a beach in Thailand, Indo or Crunulla until the boarders reopen.