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Abracadabra
05-12-2020, 12:13 PM
Hi guys,

Just wondering if you have any set approach to a 1hour WL session ~~ do you have your own routine or do you allow the WL's routine (if she has one) to unfold and flow with it unless there is stuff you specifically don't like or she is clearly slow etc.

In other words, do you "manage" the session and sort of "tick off" stuff as the hour unfolds or just let it happen, if it is enjoyable that is!

Obviously no set answer here and perhaps the answer varies according to what is going down (sorry!).

I am usually in the former but suspect a few times recently I should have just let it flow .....

harrycd
05-12-2020, 12:27 PM
I'm vanilla as fuck but I usually have 1 different thing I want to try that I'll ask for in a sesh. Might be a small thing like having the girl wear their hair in a ponytail or to try a new position.

I much prefer when a girl has a new routine, I had one WL i visited who asked about other girls routines and would try to copy things such as a nuru body slide. Made for an interesting series of sessions.

bigfatkilo
05-12-2020, 12:30 PM
I generally always start off by talking to them. Depends on language ability of both parties obviously. I don't ask personal questions but general ones. Then I like to stand face to face and start to gently pull them in, touch their bum or somewhere, and then kiss. Start of neck, ears, lips. Then try DFK. So I aim for more gfe style, but not only do I prefer this, it sets the scene that I am a 'nice' guy and gentle etc. I still fuck hard if I can/ if the girl can handle; hence the 'nice' part. I just don't do hard straight away like a bull in a tea shop. After this, I usually speed things up and get the shower done and on to the bed. More kissing and build some tension and then get her to cat bath etc and then slowly wrap her mouth around my rock hard penis. I like building this tension. Then I usually reciprocate, cat bath, nipple sucking and daty. But every girl is different and sometimes she will take the lead, sometimes you need to.

. Bottom line is, always show respect and be calm. I also do not go in with particular expectations.. reference the tick off method... if something doesn't happen or is less than what I might be accustomed to (eg girl doesn't like dfk), then I remain flexible and try something else. Without going into too much details, we all punt for different reasons at different times, but for me its a form of no strings relaxation. Having sex is inherent and essential, but I also look for a short time, pseudo gfe session.

harrycd
05-12-2020, 12:35 PM
Well said, I think the pseudo GFE session is spot on which is why English is important for me.

Abracadabra
05-12-2020, 01:04 PM
I generally always start off by talking to them. Depends on language ability of both parties obviously. I don't ask personal questions but general ones. Then I like to stand face to face and start to gently pull them in, touch their bum or somewhere, and then kiss. Start of neck, ears, lips. Then try DFK. So I aim for more gfe style, but not only do I prefer this, it sets the scene that I am a 'nice' guy and gentle etc. I still fuck hard if I can/ if the girl can handle; hence the 'nice' part. I just don't do hard straight away like a bull in a tea shop. After this, I usually speed things up and get the shower done and on to the bed. More kissing and build some tension and then get her to cat bath etc and then slowly wrap her mouth around my rock hard penis. I like building this tension. Then I usually reciprocate, cat bath, nipple sucking and daty. But every girl is different and sometimes she will take the lead, sometimes you need to. Bottom line is, always show respect and be calm. I also do not go in with particular expectations.. reference the tick off method... if something doesn't happen or is less than what I might be accustomed to (eg girl doesn't like dfk), then I remain flexible and try something else. Without going into too much details, we all punt for different reasons at different times, but for me its a form of no strings relaxation. Having sex is inherent and essential, but I also look for a short time, pseudo gfe session. I never expect to meet them outside so hence pseudo (and the fact I am a paying customer). For 1 hr sessions, I try second round, but again it depends on the girl. If she doesn't seem up to it, I don't. We don't own them even if we are paying. Sorry for this is a bit too much details.. I'd be interested in hearing others course of action! I might take a page from someone else's book! Cheers.

Thanks BFK. Some really good insights and lessons here. I particularly like the relaxation comment, as its often easy to forget in a punt.

Whilst a 2nd round is abt a 25% option for me these days, just being in the back of mind, it can sometimes interfere with the fun and flow of the 1st round!

rooter
05-12-2020, 01:38 PM
I think I probably do a professional routine because the girls sometimes say to me “I feel like I am the customer”. Lol! Or sometimes they say "I should be paying you" LOL! But that's when I know they are just being cheeky :)

Pcnut
05-12-2020, 03:38 PM
I would said I personally like more GFE routines or no routines at all, just flow as nature path. Understand everyone has their own hobby and interest. Also depend on the girls, whatever if you can click well or have chemist with her.

Thomas Crown
06-12-2020, 11:26 AM
Can’t stand routines. As soon as I feel the girl is giving me a template service, I take the lead and I run the session. This happens maybe 50% of the time.

woods23
06-12-2020, 02:21 PM
I let them do it first visit nd break it the next time.
If routine is boring or slow I will break it up right away md take charge.

As for ml is somthing i regrets breaking up their routine to early as don't get to sample it. A very good B2b catbath is just as good of any extras.

Leslie75
06-12-2020, 02:41 PM
I let them do it first visit nd break it the next time.
If routine is boring or slow I will break it up right away md take charge.

As for ml is somthing i regrets breaking up their routine to early as don't get to sample it. A very good B2b catbath is just as good of any extras.
Ha Haa. Master Woods, your fav girl Anita shared with me technique of be a driver or passenger. May go be to Anita that whether I can be the instructor?:D:D

woods23
06-12-2020, 02:55 PM
Ha Haa. Master Woods, your fav girl Anita shared with me technique of be a driver or passenger. May go be to Anita that whether I can be the instructor?:D:D

Yes my fav girl ( all time best ) Hahaha I never get to see any of her stories... Is she still doing it? She told me about the car story...so u must had that one haha ;) yes maybe she always willing to learn !

I regret I didn't see Fiona' routine at Summerville last time I seen her. Go try her nd report back haha


Can u confirm if Erika is bsck in Japan?

Leslie75
06-12-2020, 03:10 PM
Yes my fav girl ( all time best ) Hahaha I never get to see any of her stories... Is she still doing it? She told me about the car story...so u must had that one haha ;) yes maybe she always willing to learn !

I regret I didn't see Fiona' routine at Summerville last time I seen her. Go try her nd report back haha
Master Woods,
SV has numerous ML, Anita hasn’t completed the driving story yet. And I will keep her on my SV visit at all time

Rahul Jupta
14-12-2020, 09:05 AM
Concur with you, mate

Drmartens
14-12-2020, 09:16 AM
I let them do it first visit nd break it the next time.
If routine is boring or slow I will break it up right away md take charge.

As for ml is somthing i regrets breaking up their routine to early as don't get to sample it. A very good B2b catbath is just as good of any extras.
Vouch your routines bro woods

Meng
14-12-2020, 09:50 AM
Routines are good. The trick is to not make it feel like a routine.

Labia Vortex
14-12-2020, 07:16 PM
Working in with the Lady you are seeing and her routine
For me it’s 10 minutes of conversation and showering
Some girls don’t want to be in charge but feel obliged
Touching them and seeing the response
The time of day... how tired they are
How tired you are
The touching and exploring follows after the conversation
The main event only lasts about ten minutes for me... that’s enough
It’s the tongue in pussy... cock in mouth... the DFK and the fondling
That does it for me..spreading that over an hour... anything less is too short for me
Ten minute shower conversation
Ten minute main event
The other 40 minutes is the fun bit
Most girls enjoy being the centre of attention I’ve found
My Claytons routine...

wilisno
14-12-2020, 07:26 PM
It shows how hard a job it is for the girl to please !

If a girl tries to demonstrate all the tricks she’s learned from the trade, she’ll be branded as following routines. If she doesn’t know all that, she’ll be branded as dead fish !

It’s an interaction between two people ! If one doesn’t make the move, then the other one has to take charge, as simple as that ! Just go in and have fun like meeting a lover, then these problems wouldn’t exist !

Abracadabra
14-12-2020, 08:28 PM
It shows how hard a job it is for the girl to please !

If a girl tries to demonstrate all the tricks she’s learned from the trade, she’ll be branded as following routines. If she doesn’t know all that, she’ll be branded as dead fish !

It’s an interaction between two people ! If one doesn’t make the move, then the other one has to take charge, as simple as that ! Just go in and have fun like meeting a lover, then these problems wouldn’t exist !

Agree philosophically wilisno and hopefully that results on a good time allround. but I remain conscious of outlaying big $$$ and getting a bang for my buck (sorry) in terms of certain services.

Frankly if a girl had on a sexy dress and wanted to do an erotic seductive dance in front of me I'd be spellbound and watch that for an hour and then realise I hadn't had my dick sucked or got my rocks off!

Abracadabra
14-12-2020, 08:39 PM
Working in with the Lady you are seeing and her routine
For me it’s 10 minutes of conversation and showering
Some girls don’t want to be in charge but feel obliged
Touching them and seeing the response
The time of day... how tired they are
How tired you are
The touching and exploring follows after the conversation
The main event only lasts about ten minutes for me... that’s enough
It’s the tongue in pussy... cock in mouth... the DFK and the fondling
That does it for me..spreading that over an hour... anything less is too short for me
Ten minute shower conversation
Ten minute main event
The other 40 minutes is the fun bit
Most girls enjoy being the centre of attention I’ve found
My Claytons routine...

That's interesting LV.

So have I got it right after 10 intro/shower etc you jump straight into 10 mins of fucking ....and the spend 40 mins mutual enjoyment in many forms?

wilisno
14-12-2020, 09:36 PM
Agree philosophically wilisno and hopefully that results on a good time allround. but I remain conscious of outlaying big $$$ and getting a bang for my buck (sorry) in terms of certain services.

Frankly if a girl had on a sexy dress and wanted to do an erotic seductive dance in front of me I'd be spellbound and watch that for an hour and then realise I hadn't had my dick sucked or got my rocks off!
What’s the difference ?

Even if that happens, you were spellbound at that moment, you like that punt so much and you return another day for a second time, she’s gonna do that erotic dance for you, then you be complaining about her following routine again !

Because that’s all she knows !

Abracadabra
14-12-2020, 09:49 PM
What’s the difference ?

Even if that happens, you were spellbound at that moment, you like that punt so much and you return another day for a second time, she’s gonna do that erotic dance for you, then you be complaining about her following routine again !

Because that’s all she knows !

The difference is that whilst spellbound at an erotic dance strip, I punt for sex and not a $280 erotic dance strip irrespective of how good it was and how much I enjoyed it; hence the need for some kind of routine for me at least 😉

wilisno
14-12-2020, 10:00 PM
The difference is that whilst spellbound at an erotic dance strip, I punt for sex and not a $280 erotic dance strip irrespective of how good it was and how much I enjoyed it; hence the need for some kind of routine for me at least ��
So you want routines ! I thought you complained about routines.

Abracadabra
14-12-2020, 10:07 PM
So you want routines ! I thought you complained about routines.

No~ scroll back to my initial post.

wilisno
14-12-2020, 10:37 PM
No~ scroll back to my initial post.

If you read through the replies, almost all replies are against routines, hence I made my point ! ;) ;) ;)

Raybo
15-12-2020, 01:06 AM
If you read through the replies, almost all replies are against routines, hence I made my point ! ;) ;) ;)

I am happy for a girl to go through her routine when I meet her for the first time. If I go back though, it will probably be different.

AHLUNGOR
16-12-2020, 10:26 AM
Speaking with my own experiences: which is quite a lot for RnT but rather limited when it comes to FS!

Firstly with FS: since I don’t go often so hardly ever see any WL more than once (except Milo from 5 Star and that’s long time ago !) therefore , whatever “routines” they did to me was fresh, unique and quite enjoyable! And I wouldn’t cum close to get bored as the same deeds were never repeated ! Every FS to me is an adventure and excitement and exploration of the female bodies and broaden my sexual horizons, so all good ! Besides , as I almost always only see busty girls, so if all fails, there’s always the Spanish to fall back on.

Now for RnT: this is more complicated and for me it could basically boiled down to two situations : the one hour session and the 30 min quickies !!

There were times when my chronic back problems were playing up, massage was a necessity and only the one hour or longer session will do. And I would have gone to legit shops to get it fixed !

Then of course, the horny nature took over and a release in the end became equally important so the search for the therapeutic MLs began: many of them were at Zanadu and old Chequers or Babylon. Then I found this forum and 501 Newtown was like a gold mine. The rest was really just history : so many genuinely skillful massage masters such as Coco, Lisa (HK), Candy, Yuki, Cherry (not the 🍒) Sue and Nina.

And yes, most of them have a set routines which can be modified if my needs are varying. But they gone through their own way so that your whole body is covered including between your legs........ lol.

Then the 30 min quickies - now that’s just anything goes and every man for himself and definitely YMMV !

annintofu
19-12-2020, 07:37 AM
saw Nikky at 121 CBD the other day, she was tall and seemed to have good looks and well proportioned body during line up, so I picked her. Big mistake.

she followed a well practiced routine like a hardened massage worker, every move was firm and decisive, eager to please like a whore.

there was no intimate feeling whatsoever, she was plainly doing her job thoroughly & efficiently, not missing a single step, rubbed oil on my dick without asking if I wanted. got me cum quickly.

it was one of the worst sessions, felt like I had been operated on.

btw, she's got heavy tattoos all over, another huge disappointment. only compliment I can give her are her firm white boobs which were luscious to touch & suck on. (no tattoos or any blemish on her boobs, thanks God).

Niceguy11
19-12-2020, 10:35 PM
I'm not a routine person that's for sure. I usually like to wash the WL's instead of me because I find it different. I don't mind them washing me but I like to do things like that and even help them set up the room. If I walk out with the wet towels and sheets, I usually let the manager know that I'm happy to help the girl out so they don't think the girl is lazy or not doing her job.

Funland
23-12-2020, 11:43 PM
Karen at 533 has a well worn routine and it's fucking great. If your reading this Karen, change nothing.

DirtyLurker
24-12-2020, 07:04 AM
saw Nikky at 121 CBD the other day, she was tall and seemed to have good looks and well proportioned body during line up, so I picked her. Big mistake.

she followed a well practiced routine like a hardened massage worker, every move was firm and decisive, eager to please like a whore.

there was no intimate feeling whatsoever, she was plainly doing her job thoroughly & efficiently, not missing a single step, rubbed oil on my dick without asking if I wanted. got me cum quickly.

it was one of the worst sessions, felt like I had been operated on.

btw, she's got heavy tattoos all over, another huge disappointment. only compliment I can give her are her firm white boobs which were luscious to touch & suck on. (no tattoos or any blemish on her boobs, thanks God).

Isn’t that what you’re expecting though?

It’s only clinical when there’s no conversation, otherwise the outcome was exactly what you were expecting.

CFM001
24-12-2020, 11:11 AM
For RnT, nothing wrong with a routine. Maybe they can switch it up in part 2 to be less of a routine (depends if you are a regular or nor)
But for FS, probably a bit clinical if all the punts are the same routine. SHould feel like an intimate encounter and not a robotic service.