Originally Posted by
cumquat
Despite OP’s .. desires and lack of a first ‘story’ … his pure intentions Been thwarted and undone
Personally done the SB a few times, though IG/ tinder were the apps. So didn’t have too subscribe .
Again personally you can choose to see value prescribe ascribe gild the lily or what ever you feel you need to do here to try and differentiate the base reality
Ml /wl /SB’s are all a form of sex work . Who cares if you get banned from an app for stating the obvious . Transaction fees .
Bottom line someone is offering something of value , the other receiving it .
Sure it may require more work and charm and you feel you invest more, in a ‘real connection’ , and yes tou may we’ll be having intimacy in familiar places like your bed or there’s and you do a shit in their toilet or yours…. Whatever helps here…. but I’m sure a majority of guys who chase ML’s for that elusive DFK , FS experience or better yet , taking them out for a dinner and a fuk would say the same .
Don’t matter
It’s sex work it’s transactional and you may keep a smouldering interest longer than you may a wl or ml , or not . But like those who pine to be in a relationship with a sex worker , these SB deals , rarely I suspect last that long.
I still occasionally catchup with a young thing I met on tinder 3 years ago. Dinner a movie . At most . Sex hasn’t been discussed or wanted by me with her for more than a year. She’ll still occasionally ask for monetary assistance and I laugh and ask. What she’ll offer in return .
Arrangements, just another term for allocated time , and associated
Costs …. Same same but different
So whose got a scintillating sex story (seems the OP forgot) that’ll be bawdy and broadly different from any review in this forum ?
As per the bucket list fantasy … I’m sure there’ll be a lot of law /med students , psych majors and bikini glamour models and the big 3 c’s
champagne coke and cash and the SD’s secret weapon charm.
Funnily enough plenty of wl /ml’s are law med psych majors bikini models and farmers