Punting while in a relo

Hello fellow punters,

Been browsing the threads for years now and have seen some post their shenanigans 'while the wifes away'/'during lunch away from the gf' type of trope and was wondering
to get some insight behind punting with a significant other.

For the most part its cheating - but i can see there are many that do it. What are motivations and reasons you guys do this?

Personally, I've always seen escorts as a service people pay for, for a release so can see why its easier - but can't find myself justfying getting a sexual release from someone other than
your partner unless they consent to it.