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What usually happens?
What has happened to you?
I suppose it really boils down to thse....
Do they give you a heads up before? 'I'm leaving next month/week'
Tell you during that last session?
Or do they just vanish.... you phone to book and they are gone.....
They just vanish like Kaiser Soze, bro.
EXCELLENT reference, LOL !!!Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Just happened with a LONG time regular. Tried to message her, the account had been closed. Bit of a stomach punch as she was stunning.
BUT, as I always tell them when I leave, "For ME, I hope I see you next time. For YOU, I hope I don't..."
Then you move on.
I figured that would be the case generally…. the girl I see at the moment is planning to move to Queensland in March…. I’m hoping she works until then….
Myself, I keep in contact. You never know, she might be back, you might be there... Post covid was not a problem as, even with 3 years, kept in contact. It's over when the chat app account is closed. For me, that's "business closed".Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
Happened to me once when I was living in south america. I have a regular colombian escort and one day she just disappear up until now sometimes I look at the escort page if she returned but no luck. =(Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
My last told me she was tired and needed a break after 3 years on the job.
Another retired. One hooked up with a sugar daddy and another got hitched.
It’s not like they’re gonna be in the industry for ever right?
The good ones will tell you and schedule a last, good bye, session with you. One frequent I had told me and we had a month's long worth of farewell sessions. She was great and we had a good thing going but for her sake I am glad she left. Part of me is always happy for them when they reach their goals and just leave this wreched and wonderful industry.
I mean it could be good for business couldn't it, giving notice.... :)Quote:
Originally Posted by ditchtheboss
They all vanished for fear of seeing another cock of a stranger yet again.
Even the sight of a banana made them queasy.
You will find a lot of girls who worked in the industry while on student visas, will disappear back to their own country without a trace once they have completed their degrees.
They tell their parents they did causal work in the hospitality industry, while they where here, to keep good face,
Their greatest fear is disgracing the family image back home, as a lot of family business depend on having a good reputation. Especially in smaller cities where everyone knows each other’s business privately and publicly.
So don’t take it personally if you get the cold shoulder, just enjoy the time you get to spend with her today.
I had one a few years ago. Turned up for my semi-regular ML session; the boss was in complete denial that the girl had worked there.
But not so bad; he offered me a new girl at a discount; her "first day in the industry" - she was so naive, I got FS for no extra fee.
It is for her good as well as the good of your well-being that she does this only for a short time.Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
Maybe they saved a lot during the rainy season, now they have a new life
All of the above. Scheduled a last session with a girl once, she was a lovely girl heading back home.Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
Had one tell me during the session that this would be our last, and ahe gave me a little cake (which I assumed was given to her by another regular for her last day.).
Had girls just vanish.
Had one girl refuse tips in our what would turn out to be our last session. She didn't mention it, but she said "No, no need today, it's a gift for you." Then when I tried to book her the next week the phone was disconnected and she was gone.
Nothing is permanent in this game, you enjoy the moments you have with them, then they are gone, like the moments will eventually be gone, lost in time, like tears in the rain.
Well said, nothing permanent... well, except for herpes...Quote:
Originally Posted by asiafever
Both answers so true and beautiful. Punters poetry moves meQuote:
Originally Posted by 11Bravo
After seeing a few come and go and dating them and reading all the comments, I think it is best they just disappear. That sounds a bit callous about the ones we are frequents and have a rapport with but on refiection I think it is best they just move on as quickly as possible. No need for farewells or sharing cakes. Do you take your dentist out when you finish treatment or if the dentist moves to another town, no. Nobody cares. She doesn’t care and we shouldn’t care either. Pay fuck and leave. Arigato sayonara
This is the reason that you should have married your regular if you want her to be with you for good.Quote:
Originally Posted by bung72
This is the reason that you should have married your regular if you want her to be with you for good.Quote:
Originally Posted by asiafever