Fingering - Why?

When I was a teenager, fingering was fun.
As i discovered new things, fingering was only something employed when needed.

At lot of ladies I see in shops hate fingering.
Some do everything except fingering
Some only do it cause guys insist on it
Many have complained of developing infections from fingering requiring medical treatment

Of course manual stimulus achieves orgasm etc, but the girls say it is not the same as a tongue or sex etc.

So my question to all you who love fingering or want to do it is why?
What do you get out of it? Why do you like doing it?
Genuinely curious.

Maybe as a PSA, wash your hands thoroughly, keep your nails trim and smooth and actually check if the lady is enjoying it or is in pain etc

As you stated fingering is reserved manily for teenagers who want to "cop a feel". Punters should be using "stimulating the clitoris" to get a response which hopefully will lead to more or have an effect on the lady.
Some women enjoy a good g spot fingering but usually find this is not a Wg.
Fingering like DFK tends to be a boundary many Wg won't cross. To me if I can suck on her nipples and play with her clit I am usually half way there to submission.
BYVMD
4FoW2.

I only do fingering if the WL asks for it. nails and stuff are dirty so from a hygiene POV it's not worth their risk, and also for a lot of ladies it's just a bit stabby and uncomfortable and they ain't into it.

If I am fingering it's just a supplement to DATY and some G Spot come hither action. Would never open the batting with it.

Well it gets a girl to squirt every time. I do it alot with non working girls and they love it. Ised to see lots of Sydney wotking girls and they would allow in and anal fingering to if you showed that you have cleaned and cut your nails

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Originally Posted by funinqld

Well it gets a girl to squirt every time. I do it alot with non working girls and they love it. Ised to see lots of Sydney wotking girls and they would allow in and anal fingering to if you showed that you have cleaned and cut your nails

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Everytime? I smell poetic license. If so would love to see your technique.
I just find it too invasive and it makes me feel like a disgusting creep

But what do you get out of it?
How many times do ladies say no thanks or hate the process?

Just got one for one pineapple…and with the funbags it was great

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Originally Posted by Joejohnson8

Just got one for one pineapple…and with the funbags it was great

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But what do you get out of fingering?

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Originally Posted by Who Killed Tangerine

But what do you get out of fingering?

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am i the only one who finds this question odd? maybe i'm 'different' but fingering is the next best thing to sticking your dick in. i find it very arousing and if you can get it with the basic options it's an absolute bonus. i suppose it's not quite the same for guys who go full service.

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Originally Posted by miata

am i the only one who finds this question odd? maybe i'm 'different' but fingering is the next best thing to sticking your dick in. i find it very arousing and if you can get it with the basic options it's an absolute bonus. i suppose it's not quite the same for guys who go full service.

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I would prefer getting my dick sucked, fs, daty, rimming both ways, dfk, spanish, anal….about 600 things to fingering a woman.
But its not about me, I am wondering why you enjoy it.
I enjoyed it as a teenager, but am over it.
Plus i know how much most women dont like it…maybe it has to be done right rather than by people just ramming their filthy fingers in

I enjoy watching women get off....even if it there is a chance it may be fake. I like to think I'm pretty good with my fingers and generally know where to go and what buttons to press (so to speak)

IMO, it all depends on situation and lady.
I will often have a 'little feel' (external) at times and see the reaction or even if the lady is enjoying herself but I will go no further unless invited, and some ladies do invite. For me, if the lady invites it and seemingly enjoys it, all is good as I find that if a lady enjoys herself (real or acted), then that will help me enjoy myself but if there is no reaction than it does not happen and would prefer other aspects.
Have been lucky though this year and had a few experiences where ladies have invited and seemed to enjoy aspects

Well I would not pay to finger anybody. Why would you. Its either part of a girls full service or its not. As for non working girls I do everything thats mentioned and 99% of them love and insist on being fingered.

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Originally Posted by funinqld

Well I would not pay to finger anybody. Why would you. Its either part of a girls full service or its not. As for non working girls I do everything thats mentioned and 99% of them love and insist on being fingered.

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No grey in your world eh? Everything is every time or 99%

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Originally Posted by funinqld

Well I would not pay to finger anybody. Why would you. Its either part of a girls full service or its not. As for non working girls I do everything thats mentioned and 99% of them love and insist on being fingered.

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Not going to pay JUST to finger a chick. But its fun to do something with your hands while her hands (and/or mouth) are busy

Thats it for sure.

It certainly is fun when used to enhance DATY on a willing wet companion.
There is also the sexy girl who occasionally fits you with a finger condom and squirts from a g-spot rub. Now that's enjoyable.
RTG

For me, if a ML doesn’t allow fingering then half of the fun is gone. But I understand why some MLs would not offer it, as I imagine a lot of people would do it too hard, or not properly clean and manicure their hands. Joyce and Melon from Four Seasons don’t offer fingering, though I think they would change their mind if they trusted you enough.

I think fingering is an art. I've fortunately never been rejected from fingering, but one girl did tell me that it doesn't do anything for her. And each girl has a certain level of fingering they can tolerate - some girls absolutely crave it and squirt like crazy! That's the good thing about the variety that comes with punting.

It's a good way to get internally lacerated and it's a common method to get various infections. You don't know if someone else picked their nose, butt, scratched their arms, pimples, or whatever and directly delivered bacteria and virus vaginally into your ML's blood stream. But then I also don't get why people would pay to put their bare tongue on a sex worker's genital. I'm sure I'm missing out on something great and wonderful that people are willing to fork out their inflationary hard-earned for.

Once saw a redtube/youtube vid on fingering method. I think I watched it a couple of times practiced it a few times and can get a girl to squirt and of not at least be encouraged to finger her again next time. most of us here have no idea.