Falling in love with Massage therapist

I know it shouldnt happen. I kept telling myself for weeks now . Like i cant catch a feeling with this girl.
So first time visited her, she was new in the shop. And we secretly exchanged our number. She got boyfriend. We texting once in a while i got it she got boyfriend so cant really reply on me.

Second visit. Nearly drop her home , but her boyfriend come to pick her up. Then the next night at 1am in the morning . She texted me asking if i am still up , she s trying to catch up for a drink.


Third visit when things goes a bit wild. I gave her a letter . Written in japanese. And a cute doll keychain. She was really happy. Even when she open the door at the shop and found out it was me. She was like so excited. Asked her to be honest like . If u dont want catch up or text from me just please tell me . So i can back up . But she say just keep texting her from different apps so her boyfriend not gonna find out and we set up a catch up this coming Saturday but not sure yet. At the very last session i asked for selfie. Not to mention . We have a nat sex as well. Which is i believe she didnt do it with someone else.


What should i do now ?

Im pretty fucked up and exhausted

She is japanese. So i believe shes pretty honest

If you’re single, go for it and have a short, casual relationship.

If you’re married or attached, stop all contact immediately as this will ruin you.

Sounds like a good story bro. If she is keen go ahead.

Go and have fun but just remind yourself she ain't a keeper. Especially when she has a bf already.

Even if she does break up with her BF and get together with you. What are the chances of her doing this again with another bloke? This time you'll be the BF who she's trying to hide texts from another bloke.

Run forest run, smells a bit too fishy plus it’ll only lead to more crap, don’t date em just fuck em

Not worth the time, money and the head fuck bro. You're better off on tinder and trying to find a better GF on there.

She got a bf that won’t change so if u was you I’d be getting the action and wearing a condom incase of accidents.

Don’t fall in love remind urself she has a bf!!!! And that ain’t going to change.

And remember if it does change and you become the new bf, how long until she meets another new side dude ?

Just no dude. Been there, done that and it is not worth it. So many red flags in your story that it is not funny.

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Originally Posted by Meng

Even if she does break up with her BF and get together with you. What are the chances of her doing this again with another bloke? This time you'll be the BF who she's trying to hide texts from another bloke.

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Words of wisdom for sure.

How do you say safety net in Japanese? Or hot standby?

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Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212

She is japanese. So i believe shes pretty honest

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Japanese... pretty honest? Think she's told her bf about YOU?

Dude,

Not sure how long u have been punting for but I think over the years, we have all developed feelings for our regulars in someway or another.

Remember this... She works in an industry to provides a service. Every guy will try to get that GFE with her and more. She does it for $ not because she wants to...

Plus she's also in a relationship. No doubt you have a connection and maybe vice-versa...

If you can deal with all that, then its ok..

Always hard when there's a connection, feelings get louder and sessions seen perfect...

Questions to also ask yourself.

Would you stop punting because of her and would she stop working in a shop for you???

Fyi guys:
I got a girlfriend as well. I ve been punying for years even before with my girlfriend now. But it stopped once i m with my girlfriend. Then was just bored . Drop to the store. She just got all the vibes and energy that i ve been looking for. My girlfriend, i need to admit that she doesnt have that vibes she is more like wifey material. (I know im dumb).

Its been 2 weeks since first time i visited her.
Now shes very famous . Booked out every single day whenever she show up in the store. Im just jealous as f now. I regularly checking people threads about her in this forum as well. And its just drive me crazy.

Cant really work properly cause been thinkin of her all the time .
She just replied my text 3-4 times in a day . (I got it she got boyfriend) , but like now adays people always check their phone right ? Its just drive me crazy.

One of you were asking if i gonna stop punt if i m with her. yes i will. But will she stop working ? I dont think so .

Yeah i know im pretty f up now. I wish i never visit her . Got a selfie with her the other day. I keep looking on it everytime i missed her.


I tried to tell myself everytime . To run . And leave all this behind. But seriously. Im ADDICTED!!! maybe its LOVE ? Now i believe woman can destroy. 🥹🥹

If you're single, YOLO!

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Originally Posted by Kiki kong

Not worth the time, money and the head fuck bro. You're better off on tinder and trying to find a better GF on there.

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Hahaha as if girls / women NOT in the sex industry are any better and as for Tinder , lawdy .. better ?!?! just back to square one !!!

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Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212

Not to mention . We have a nat sex as well. Which is i believe she didnt do it with someone else.

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You sound so well intentioned it's hard to just reverse suplex that into the ground.

But you need it.

She absolutely has had Nat Sex with more than you, and I don't mean her BF.

I mean, that's the first absolute red flag on this whole thing, she has a BF but she fucked you Nat if we believe your story.

You are not the first, and you won't be the last.
Let's say somehow she DOES leave her BF for you.

Happily ever after??????????

?¿?¿?¿?

You don't think she will repeat EXACTLY what she did with you with someone else just because she is Japanese?

What about her financial lifestyle? They make a fair bit getting under or on top of blokes. If you ask them to stop that for you what will they do?

Hope you got money then.

I know it's easy to catch the feels ESPECIALLY if she lets you raw dog her because that is kind of subliminal messaging that she must REALLY like you if she lets you go in domless and it fucks so hard with our minds I know it.

I almost did this from a regular who lete bbfs (no, I won't tell anyone who it is) and I was mindfucked for ages. Contemplated giving her my number, hanging out etc.

But I am so lucky I forced myself not to. Not because she's a bad person or anything but because I have to know this is a regular thing for them. They get guys swooning over them all the time, because somehow, easy access to sex + good experience = must turn her into my GF for blokes.

Just have to go cold turkey man.

Sorry.

- F0x

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Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212

I know it shouldnt happen. I kept telling myself for weeks now . Like i cant catch a feeling with this girl.
So first time visited her, she was new in the shop. And we secretly exchanged our number. She got boyfriend. We texting once in a while i got it she got boyfriend so cant really reply on me.

Second visit. Nearly drop her home , but her boyfriend come to pick her up. Then the next night at 1am in the morning . She texted me asking if i am still up , she s trying to catch up for a drink.


Third visit when things goes a bit wild. I gave her a letter . Written in japanese. And a cute doll keychain. She was really happy. Even when she open the door at the shop and found out it was me. She was like so excited. Asked her to be honest like . If u dont want catch up or text from me just please tell me . So i can back up . But she say just keep texting her from different apps so her boyfriend not gonna find out and we set up a catch up this coming Saturday but not sure yet. At the very last session i asked for selfie. Not to mention . We have a nat sex as well. Which is i believe she didnt do it with someone else.


What should i do now ?

Im pretty fucked up and exhausted

She is japanese. So i believe shes pretty honest

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Bro, this is just as bad as those old bald fat Farangs who fall for a Thai Hooker then marries her.

Pays a massive Sin-Sod, then sends her & her family money every month. Buys her land and house under her name. A car, a business, then loses all his life savings. As she already had a Thai BF/Husband who was in on it as well

Dont be like these desperate old fools

Just think, would Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth get with a ML/WL

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Originally Posted by Aokiji1234543212

She is japanese. So i believe shes pretty honest

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Maybe you believe in fairies, or Santa Claus, too?

J girls have few morals when it comes to playing with men.

It’s sad to see how we men continue to think with our dicks while most women are experts at hooking us with the emotional game.
Just remember, being Japanese doesn’t make any difference in the way she can crash you soon enough.

I’ve seen Japanese girls switch to a wealthier guy without even saying “bye” to the man they were devoted to.

As you brush your teeth every morning, repeat to your self “this is all about fucking and paying a price”.

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Originally Posted by andrewv

It’s sad to see how we men continue to think with our dicks while most women are experts at hooking us with the emotional game.
Just remember, being Japanese doesn’t make any difference in the way she can crash you soon enough.

I’ve seen Japanese girls switch to a wealthier guy without even saying “bye” to the man they were devoted to.

As you brush your teeth every morning, repeat to your self “this is all about fucking and paying a price”.

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This is a tale as old as time. Not unique to Japanese girls. Every girl will do this

Its called hypergamy mate. Once she finds a wealthier, better man than her current one, its Adios Amigos !!

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Originally Posted by aussiegaigin

Maybe you believe in fairies, or Santa Claus, too?

J girls have few morals when it comes to playing with men.

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100%. Laughed when he wrote this. Japanese girls are the most ruthless women on earth. Just cause they seem demure on the surface doesn't mean they actually are.

The OP needs a bit of life experience me thinks.