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I'm sure we have all witnessed the verbal attacks on some posters recently. Just wondering what others think. If you read Sydney threads, they seem a lot more civil and they have a huge presence. Which may come from a combination of mateship and of course population. I would like to see support on forum for these punters who get verbally brutalised
before we lose them and the forum.
100% agree can be a little daunting for a newbie to come on and worry about saying or doing something wrong. I think the long-time members forget they were a newbie once too. I just came here as I was recommend but tbh too nervous to say a word 🤣🤣 if we make a mistake just tell us doing abuse us I am sure we will learn.
I know what you’re talking about. There’s a bunch of fuckwits on this board that are somehow still not kicked off by the admins. They don’t contribute anything to the discussion, just bash others with abuse. I had that on some of my reviews, especially the first ones. Any post that was positive about an ML or WL would get replies like „I bet she’s a boiler”, „he must be her pimp” etc.
Other boards have a much, much better vibe but I do get some info here too, which is why I post across a few boards.
Admins need to clean this place up.
I agree for one part where name calling is unnecessary but I also think toxic positivity needs to be called out as well.
People also get offended too easily on this forum where if you say something negative as constructive criticism or feedback then they get upset easily. But then again that ends up hurting their reputation anyway. Would be good to have a balance - but that is wishful.
I agree with a lot of what's been said already, I was a member for two years before my first post. Not entirely due to the negatively but it played a role.
We definitely need to encourage more ppl to post as it's sometimes a ghost town in here, especially compared to the Sydney threads. (But don't be fooled, they still have their fair share of trolls and negatively.)
On the other hand it is frustrating when there's an unbroken chain of posts along the lines of 'pls PM me details too' from mbrs who haven't value added with reviews themselves. Equally frustrating are the posts that ask for info that is readily available further up the same thread or easily searched for on the site or even through a basic google search. I must say though, I had trouble searching the site initially. I got a new phone and reached five posts around the same time so unsure which made searching easier 🤔.
As ABCguy stated, there needs to be a balance.
Yes, it certainly goes on here. You make a positive review or comment you have people message and say you are spruiker / pimp. It gets tiresome.
That is why I stop posting. Really do not need the negative views from some of the top contributors which seems to be untouchable.
Other sites are far better monitor and regulate.
I agree about needing to cut back on the abuse. On the other side of the coin though, why do people get upset by something someone wrote FFS? People have become hyper sensitve these days. The others have no idea who you so why get upset what they say??
It's not that simple Holdan. Like the people who get hyper sensitive about being bullied in the school yard. Just get over it, they say. These are the same bullies in different situation.
Fair call HarryQuote:
Originally Posted by harry444
We urgently need to set up a GoFundMe page for the snowf......ehm victims to receive some counseling.
Copping some flak on an adult punter forum is at least as terribly traumatising as being mispronouned, or being barked at by the neighbour's dog.
I personally don't see the need for some of the abusive responses on here, they just don't add anything more constructive to the forum than the post/poster they are responding to. There are also newbies that don't know the lay of the land as yet and are learning on the run and they could probably be cut some slack or at least be responded to civilly in the first place rather than be treated like a social outcast.
That being said, there are also some lazy cunts who come here and just want things handed to them on a silver platter or call out genuine contributors as being frauds or pimps so i do understand that sometimes a retort is to be expected and justified.
As VFlowers alluded to, we are all adults, we come on to an adult sex forum to discuss blow jobs, facials, butt fucking, ass licking, white pussies, brown pussies, tight pussies, shaved pussies, load swallowing and even chicks with dicks get a run so i think it is somewhat delusional to think a place like this is going to operate with the same decorum and political correctness as a book club or chess society.
It's just the way life is, if you get into an octagon or a square ring, you have to be prepared to get hit, if you can't handle being hit, don't get in there in the first place or get the fuck out of there as quick as you can and take up badminton instead.
Adult forums tend to have adult responses
Im feeling very triggered Mr V Flowers, if that is your real name.Quote:
Originally Posted by VFlowers
We should all be spreading joy, happiness and chlamydia.
Im going to see my favourite lady today with a bunch of flowers and box of chocolates.
I will let her talk for the whole hour as i wouldnt want to oppress her by doing acts of microaggression.
The shop should be her safe space where toxic masculinity cannot be tolerated for her mental well being.
If im lucky maybe shes transitioning genders. I would need to support her in this endeavour.
Inclusivity matters and we should respect all ages, sizes, shapes, colours, creed and gender upon visiting these wonderful places
Couldn't agree more.. All the soft cocks commenting on this post should go and start their own warm fuzzy forum..Quote:
Originally Posted by VFlowers
Harden up dipshits... You are adults aren't you..??
We are all free to worship in our own way. Some prefer a warm fuzzy forum. Others prefer to threaten, intimidate and abuse. All should be equal, except some are more equal then others. eg, above post
Perfect example of the tossers being referred to. No need for that comment. Pull your head in. If you want to be a keyboard warrior going do it somewhere else hero...Quote:
Originally Posted by Lovearubntug
Animal Farm it is
Don't think anyone wants warm fuzzy to be honest. Just not the drama of someone with an inferiority complex who gets off throwing the abuse from behind a screen. Type of guy who would run home crying to his mother if it was face to face...Quote:
Originally Posted by harry444
This thread is leading down towards a dangerous path of advocating for censorship. Sensitive Sallys should just grab a box of tissues and scroll along.