Why do you punt?

There has been some interesting threads recently on a number of topics. I think there is a common thread in some recent posts about the perception that men punt because they can’t get it for free.

That is not the case for me, I can get it for free and indeed I get it for free but I like punting. I also guess that most punters also get it for free so I ask, why do you punt?

I suspect I won’t get a lot of genuine answers if many answers at all. I am not asking if you are married or in a relationship, just why you punt. I will start.

I punt because I enjoy having sex with a variety of women. I enjoy how each of them do various things differently and the WLs are willing, or paid, to do things that most girls wouldn’t do like rimming or a lesbian double. I punt to have sex with a variety of girls who give me a variety of sexual experiences.

Yes I have regular and enjoyable free sex but I enjoy punting nevertheless.

Over to you folks!

Have sex with as many different women as possible, seeing new faces, new bodies, new personalities. That's why I don't do regulars, even that gets boring after 1-2 sessions.

Interesting question. For me, your fourth paragraph largely explains it. There are countless ways in which I get to experience the following: buildup of arousal, sexual techniques, differing vibes of seduction/erotic playfulness.

Also, punting is a stress reliever, both mental and physical (when I book massages). I come out of it relaxed, relieved, and satisfied.

Lastly, I get to learn and apply specific sexual techniques that I have come across in porn/podcasts/instructional videos/articles. Always good to improve little by little, so I can derive more enjoyment.

I've punted while previously married, while in other relationships, and while previously single. And the simple answer is that I have a rather high sex drive and I've found a decent fuck can satisfy that urge for up to 2 or 3 days sometimes while jerking off might satisfy for a day at most. I don't have any unmet fetishes or proclivities, I just need to fuck more than any woman I've ever been with. Sometimes this takes the form of having additional relationships that are free/non-punting, and that helps too. But punting is the fastest way to satisfaction sometimes.

I do also like getting to know the girls a bit. I travel parts of Asia for work once or twice a year (never partaking during that) and it's just nice to chat a bit about cities we both know, learning what they think of Australia, etc. They're some of the most genuine people I've ever met sometimes.

I also feel good that in the case of privates/MLs I meet outside of the shop, that the money goes straight to them fully. Not that I'm a saint or anything lol, I'm still fucking their brains out for money. But it's nice to know when the money goes fully to them.

I like to punt because there's no head fucks. Plain and simple.

To me punting is like choosing where to go for dinner. Possibly today I want to feast on Korean or Japanese, KBBQ or Sashimi. On the odd occasion Pad Thai or Yum Cha lmao

Can i still get pussy for free? Fuck yes, I still get picked up at the gym from time to time, girls asking me for my number or when I'm out with the boys ill get picked up at the bar. Do I give my number out, fuck no. That just spells trouble for me, and best to avoid.

I'm actually very happy in my relationship funny enough. Last thing I would want is some crazy bitch as stalking me or one day knocking on my door. I'd hate to ruin what good I have going in my life.

Punting is just a transaction and it will stay that way.

I punt cos I don't want the burden of responsibility and I avoid the toxicity of some women these days. I've been in 2 relationships were both women became toxic towards me.

Punting relieves my high sex drive without the risk of being in a relationship. I am still a free man.

I do get approached and people have tried to set me up on blind dates. Always refused and single and happy for the better part of a decade now...

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I'll be vulnerable here for a moment.

This is my form of escapism. And, it's something I'm working on stopping completely as well.

That's all I'd like to say.

I first started to punt because I had recently broken up with a long time ex girlfriend and just really wanted to have sex.

Punting tho has tho given me confidence with girls I am now seeing with outside shops.

I like fucking various types of women

Like many here, I just like the idea of trying a variety of women without the whole online dating game hassle.

Sometimes I don't want to flirt, organise a date[s], get a hotel and all that.
Online dating has more satisfying sexual experiences for me

But paying for a punt on the whim that I feel like is nice to treat myself.

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Originally Posted by urmumsurdad

I'll be vulnerable here for a moment.

This is my form of escapism. And, it's something I'm working on stopping completely as well.

That's all I'd like to say.

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Got to agree in all honesty.

For me started out like a sport, but now tend to punt more as escapism too or when I'm bored etc, to fill the accomplishment void.

For me, I am not all that into sex per se and can go for years between roots and have no interest in dating, so on the very odd occasion I like to go get a massage with extras by hot Asian women (young and old).. Hopefully that explains the large gaps between my after reports haha …. Ha …ugh

Simple. I have wants which are varied in types of females.

And nothing to do with my private relationship as that is seperate.

I enjoy big boobie girls, large boobie girls and fucken enormous boobie girls.

I enjoy threesomes (best was with 2 60+ year olds at a cheap motel down Sutherland).

I enjoy fuckin blondes.

I enjoy black women.

Recently really enjoying these “18 - early 20s” Asian girls. Particularly the “green apple” ones.

I enjoy fucking hot girls with good service. You don't get that outside with normal girls. These girls are here to get you off with all they have.

Punting is the most honest business arrangement in which two people exchange resources and receive immediate benefits within the hour.

In fact, today, it is cheaper to spend $300 or even $400 for an hour than the expected cost of taking a woman out to dinner. Many women on the dating scene today measure their willingness to meet and spend time with a man by the amount he spends on fancy dinners and presents.

We all have seen the many media articles about online dating, including Tinder, which say that the top 80% (Yes, folks) of women on these websites are interested only in the top 10% of men.... Leaving 90% of men to chase the bottom 20% of the women listed.

Yes, folks, most of these sites have women trying to do deals, and far less honest that the nice women in brothels and massage shops who are simply after a few hundred dollars in exchange of physical pleasure with you.

Punting is a short cut to pleasure, to the good stuff, with just an entry fee, without having to play the game, wait days, make promises (most we cant keep), buy dinners/gifts, go through what seems like job interviews, compete with other blokes...

Punting is also a way of bringing JAV/porn into our reality.

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Originally Posted by andrewv

Punting is the most honest business arrangement in which two people exchange resources and receive immediate benefits within the hour.

In fact, today, it is cheaper to spend $300 or even $400 for an hour than the expected cost of taking a woman out to dinner. Many women on the dating scene today measure their willingness to meet and spend time with a man by the amount he spends on fancy dinners and presents.

We all have seen the many media articles about online dating, including Tinder, which say that the top 80% (Yes, folks) of women on these websites are interested only in the top 10% of men.... Leaving 90% of men to chase the bottom 20% of the women listed.

Yes, folks, most of these sites have women trying to do deals, and far less honest that the nice women in brothels and massage shops who are simply after a few hundred dollars in exchange of physical pleasure with you.

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This is true. Every relationship is transactional. When you date or marry a girl. That is transactional too, more expensive & more time consuming. Few hours date, expensive dinner, just to get 20 mins of sex afterwards. You provide something & she provides something.

Punting is just more honest & straight forward

I can get for "free". But takes too much time. Effort. Banter, flirting. Talking. Texting. All of which takes up mental energy. Easier and cheaper to just rock up, pay, fuck then leave. And go about my business. And WL's/ML's are hotter than your average girl anyway..

Thats true about Tinder. Most guys are just average looking and are invisible to women. Unless you look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth, then don't bother with Tinder or any online dating.

Marriage and kids doesn't always mean happiness, I'm selfish. And it's hard to get a casual thing going when 90% of woman want to settle down and not fuck around, and I've thought about lying to them and using them but I know karma will get me back for it

After birth how long does it take for the eyes to open:

Cows: Right away – no time wasted.
Goats: Give them 2 hours, they’ll be staring back.
Cats: 6 days of mystery before they see the world.
Dogs: 10 days of darkness, then boom - vision!
Men: Not until after marriage.

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Originally Posted by JJBlows

Marriage and kids doesn't always mean happiness, I'm selfish. And it's hard to get a casual thing going when 90% of woman want to settle down and not fuck around, and I've thought about lying to them and using them but I know karma will get me back for it

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Most women will eventually pressuure for marriage and to settle down. Both to tie you down & hopefully to have financial security. The old biological clock is ticking.

Especially if she is a WL/ML, she knows full well that most men who are in their right minds will never marry her, knowing she has had thousands of dicks. Only a very low value man will accept her after she has been used and abused by thousands of men