Changing appointment times

After a great run of no problems with punts, I have had 3 crap situations in a couple of weeks.

What do you guys do if you book early in the morning say at 11am for 5pm appointment, then at 4pm you get a message asking can you push back your appointment to 5:30pm?

I feel like ive booked 6 hours ahead ive committed myself to it well in advance giving them business, ive planned my night around a 5pm booking.

Why the fuck am I being asked to accommodate and give my time slot up to at the last minute wtf is the point of having a booking, obviously the answer is no, it's a question I feel shouldn't even be asked, if I wanted 5:30 I would have booked 5:30....

Yes I could shit fight and try to force 5pm still, but then what am I getting? a pissed off girl in a bad mood? an awkward interaction?

If I agree then what am I getting, my night schedule thrown off, she will probably make me wait cause rushing, she will be tired from rushing back to backs with me on the ass end of it.

I ended up just canceling the appointment and probably won't go back to that shop in the near future, too many good girls and good shops out there now to put up with being messed around.

To top it off ive been a decently regular client of the girl and tipped her extra almost everytime, shows what being nice to these girls gets you, nothing at all in return not even smallest bit of respect, another dick walks in the door they throw you in the bin for that $150.

Yeah, that's just total crap. I'm 100% with you on that.

It proves that the MLs and the owners don't see us as anything but quick cash, or some 'idiot punter' to push around.

I saw that contempt firsthand, too. Back before COVID, I had an ML at one of the top shops straight-up bragging about a $3K tip plus a bouquet of flowers she got from some punter. Worse, she was laughing about him and immediately started spilling all his personal details like how many franchise shops he owns (even named the franchise), the info about his kids, and so on. That's the stuff I absolutely didn't ask for. Why would I? I was only there for the massage and fun.

That whole experience just screams that it's not simply unprofessional on the shop's end. It's straight-up contempt for punters.

Why should we feel the need to be 'kind' or give extra tips to MLs who are just going to mock us behind our backs?

Forget being generous. You didn't do anything wrong, mate. They did.

If you let the bitch use you as a door mat you'll continue to be treated like dirt

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Originally Posted by Nonodemerit

Yeah, that's just total crap. I'm 100% with you on that.

It proves that the MLs and the owners don't see us as anything but quick cash, or some 'idiot punter' to push around.

I saw that contempt firsthand, too. Back before COVID, I had an ML at one of the top shops straight-up bragging about a $3K tip plus a bouquet of flowers she got from some punter. Worse, she was laughing about him and immediately started spilling all his personal details like how many franchise shops he owns (even named the franchise), the info about his kids, and so on. That's the stuff I absolutely didn't ask for. Why would I? I was only there for the massage and fun.

That whole experience just screams that it's not simply unprofessional on the shop's end. It's straight-up contempt for punters.

Why should we feel the need to be 'kind' or give extra tips to MLs who are just going to mock us behind our backs?

Forget being generous. You didn't do anything wrong, mate. They did.

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Thanks for those words, I felt pretty pissed off about it, but after a nap feel better, this is just a good reminder don't bother trying to show any appreciation or respect as it will never be reciprocated by these bitches.

This one obviously doesn't realize if I wanted bullshit and unnecessary complicated drama I would just have a girlfriend and not be dropping $$$ to come see her, I expect for my money not to deal with womans bullshit, they cannot help themselves.

Women masters of created drama out of nothing.

any time, bro.

we are here for each other.

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Originally Posted by thunder545454

I ended up just canceling the appointment and probably won't go back to that shop in the near future, too many good girls and good shops out there now to put up with being messed around.

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Good!
Perhaps losing your booking AND your regular business will make her/them reconsider how they handle mutually confirmed bookings, but more likely is that they won't give a flying toss.
I know at least two shops where, when so called VIP clients walk in unannounced, the girls have to drop everything and accommodate those VIPs, regardless of what bookings they might have.
Maybe something like that happened to you.

At least you can get a booking in a MS.
Try ringing your GP at 11 and say i want an app for 5pm today, they won't able to contain their laughter. Also they have dedicated trained receptionists to make apps not a few Asian girls who prob can't even read English and you still sit there for hrs.

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Originally Posted by it ain't me

At least you can get a booking in a MS.
Try ringing your GP at 11 and say i want an app for 5pm today, they won't able to contain their laughter. Also they have dedicated trained receptionists to make apps not a few Asian girls who prob can't even read English and you still sit there for hrs.

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While I understand your sentiment about GPs and the 'Healthcare' system, comparing those to R'n'T shops is beyond laughable - for more reasons than I could possibly list here.

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Originally Posted by VFlowers

While I understand your sentiment about GPs and the 'Healthcare' system, comparing those to R'n'T shops is beyond laughable - for more reasons than I could possibly list here.

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I'm mearly saying one should not get too worked up about a stuff up in an amateurish booking system like most MP's have when even worse stuff up's can occur with a totally professional business.

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Originally Posted by it ain't me

I'm mearly saying one should not get too worked up about a stuff up in an amateurish booking system like most MP's have when even worse stuff up's can occur with a totally professional business.

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Good grief!
What happens at GP practices aren't stuff ups. They're dealing with a totally different set of challenges, just one of them being that the duration of appointments can only be guesstimated, and only ONE patient with an unforeseen acute issue can throw off the whole schedule for the day.

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Originally Posted by it ain't me

I'm mearly saying one should not get too worked up about a stuff up in an amateurish booking system like most MP's have when even worse stuff up's can occur with a totally professional business.

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It wasn't a stuff up it was a choice to say to me the guy who booked 5 hours early, who is a regular at this shop, to move my time to accommodate another guy who wanted my time.

She should have told the other guy you can come her 30mins earlier or 60mins later.

They said yes to my booking at 11am, end of story, they weren't forced into it at gun point, could have said no.

Flip side if I took up that slot all day long an hour before hand txt them, oh sorry don't want it anymore, would the ML be pissed off at me, having kept that slot for me all day, yeah she would be fuming and rightly so, it goes both ways.

I have never had an appointment at the GP's for 4pm and had them call me at 3pm and say can you come at 4:30, another guy just showed up and he wants your appointment time.

So no dont see how it relates to booking at a GP, never get bumped by a GP for another once you have a booking.

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Originally Posted by VFlowers

Good!
Perhaps losing your booking AND your regular business will make her/them reconsider how they handle mutually confirmed bookings, but more likely is that they won't give a flying toss.
I know at least two shops where, when so called VIP clients walk in unannounced, the girls have to drop everything and accommodate those VIPs, regardless of what bookings they might have.
Maybe something like that happened to you.

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Nah they won't care at all, they probably be confused why I cancelled.

Girls who do this work dont even respect themselves, they certainly dont respect our time and kindness.

They would just think his a weird person and blame me for cancelling the booking and not doing what they want.

If they were smarter they wouldn't do what they do.

This whole thing is just my 100th reminder that you shouldn't regularly see a girl, cause it always ends in them inevitably treating you worse than even a random walk in off the street.