ML's can't have boyfriends...?

So my 'massage' session this week ended being a bit of a disappointment - Shame, she was great the previous week.

my ML spent most of the session talking about how she split up with her boyfriend 6 months ago because she told him she worked in a massage place (not even a HE place) and he said she had to leave... But she has study bills to pay (and mumbled something about liking going out dancing and getting drunk) so in the end split up with him.

So now she is super lonely and next time either has to completely lie about what she does 2 days a week until 10pm (kinda hard) or simply have no boyfriend for 2 more years...

I tried to cheer her up, but my jokes around 'at least you get lots of sex' strangley didn't seem to work :anger:


I guess this problem must apply to a lot of them?

Paging babycat

Where is this lovely ML ? I will provide free facetime advice for her

There are plenty of working ladies ML if you like that have boy friends some accept it some don't time for her to just move on its not the end of the world.

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Originally Posted by classicfine

Paging babycat

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Actually that's a question for you guys to answer, not me, :(

Let's be honest... How many guys will accept their girlfriend doing that sort of work? I definitely wouldn't

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Originally Posted by Babycat

Actually that's a question for you guys to answer, not me, :(

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Interested in your view, though - is this a common problem? Seems a bit sad, really.

I know of a certain ML at Sussex star that has a boyfriend she met there - he agreed to her continuing working as long as he could continue going to other HE massage places! Not sure how can work, it would completely do my head in :surprise:

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Originally Posted by ML_Lover

So my 'massage' session this week ended being a bit of a disappointment - Shame, she was great the previous week.

my ML spent most of the session talking about how she split up with her boyfriend 6 months ago because she told him she worked in a massage place (not even a HE place) and he said she had to leave... But she has study bills to pay (and mumbled something about liking going out dancing and getting drunk) so in the end split up with him.

So now she is super lonely and next time either has to completely lie about what she does 2 days a week until 10pm (kinda hard) or simply have no boyfriend for 2 more years...

I tried to cheer her up, but my jokes around 'at least you get lots of sex' strangley didn't seem to work :anger:

I guess this problem must apply to a lot of them?

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Looks like her BF see through her excuse and not trusting her to tell the truth. I think this is the right result to split up. The guy doesn't want her to be with other guys but doesn't have money to support her so she lose tge girl.
I've heard from other ML that their BF doesn't mind as long as no touching downstairs, reserved fir them

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Originally Posted by Newbee

Let's be honest... How many guys will accept their girlfriend doing that sort of work? I definitely wouldn't

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Then we don't need a damn shit relationship. Rather being alone on my way than going with the person who actually look down on us and use our job as an excuse for their cheating!

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Originally Posted by ML_Lover

Interested in your view, though - is this a common problem? Seems a bit sad, really.

I know of a certain ML at Sussex star that has a boyfriend she met there - he agreed to her continuing working as long as he could continue going to other HE massage places! Not sure how can work, it would completely do my head in :surprise:

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If she were my friend, I would tell her to leave him. That relationship hasn't built on trust and respect. That's lust, not love. He might use it as an excuse for his cheating even if she quit her job. Not putting on their shoes but that's my view. How can it works when partner doesn't respect each other? It's hard to accept, but that relationship is worth if they can work it out. Why don't guy think that their girlfriends meet guys during their days, but end of days/ every session, they only think about their partners? I don't beg for sympathy. If my partner can understand my circumstance, I will be grateful to him.
Btw, Alan86, where are you now?

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Originally Posted by Babycat

Then we don't need a damn shit relationship. Rather being alone on my way than going with the person who actually look down on us and use our job as an excuse for their cheating!



If she were my friend, I would tell her to leave him. That relationship hasn't built on trust and respect. That's lust, not love. He might use it as an excuse for his cheating even if she quit her job. Not putting on their shoes but that's my view. How can it works when partner doesn't respect each other? It's hard to accept, but that relationship is worth if they can work it out. Why don't guy think that their girlfriends meet guys during their days, but end of days/ every session, they only think about their partners? I don't beg for sympathy. If my partner can understand my circumstance, I will be grateful to him.
Btw, Alan86, where are you now?

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Hi Baby, don't get upset ! It's only opinions from all us horny punters in a sex forum !

There are plenty of good men out there, just don't meet them in the shops ok !

Cheers

Some of the ML said that they are too scared to tell their boyfriend what they really do for a job and their parents overseas. Unfortunately as humans we are selfish and we like new things and not 2nd hand. No offence implied though. And don't like to share :-)

This is the dilemma for MLs and WLs.
Guys they meet as customers they don't trust as a boyfriend.
Guys they meet outside the shop and who don't know they are WLs/MLs would probably not be OK with their girlfriend being a WL/ML so they are afraid to tell them.

Whenever this topic of MLs/punter/BF/GF, some of the responses of punters are downright disrepectful.

At the end of the day, MLs do their job because they need to fund high living costs and high international student fees amongst other things.

I can pretty much guarantee that they don't it coz the like the job!

Punters on the other hand frequent these shops because the want to. This distinction between the girls needing to do this job and us punters having the choice to see then seems to be missed by some guys.

The girls have a tough job as it is. The last thing they need is for us to look down on them as human beings simply because of their circumstances.

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Originally Posted by Hammerhead

Whenever this topic of MLs/punter/BF/GF, some of the responses of punters are downright disrepectful.

At the end of the day, MLs do their job because they need to fund high living costs and high international student fees amongst other things.

I can pretty much guarantee that they don't it coz the like the job!

Punters on the other hand frequent these shops because the want to. This distinction between the girls needing to do this job and us punters having the choice to see then seems to be missed by some guys.

The girls have a tough job as it is. The last thing they need is for us to look down on them as human beings simply because of their circumstances.

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Thanks a lot. Very thoughtful when you pointed out the differences.

Women be better off searching for unicorn than a loyal man....

There are plenty of girls surviving and paying their bills by working normal jobs, so it is possible.

We all have choices, and rightly or wrongly some choices come with consequences. That's just how things work.

WL/ML have choices just like punters do.

Less than 1% of guys will accept their spouse or girlfriend as a ml/wl. Yes, the money is good but there's a reason why nobody ever says they do that kind of job to friends/family because it's a shameful job? Plenty of jobs out there, most wl/ml love the quick and easy money to give it up once they start

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Originally Posted by Massage King

There are plenty of girls surviving and paying their bills by working normal jobs, so it is possible.

We all have choices, and rightly or wrongly some choices come with consequences. That's just how things work.

WL/ML have choices just like punters do.

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Designer shoes and handbags and drug addiction = girls working in sex industry.
Besides that some of these girls want to send money home to support family.
You would have to be a special kind of understanding guy who allows his gf to be jacking off guys all day.

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Originally Posted by poundher

Designer shoes and handbags and drug addiction = girls working in sex industry.
Besides that some of these girls want to send money home to support family.
You would have to be a special kind of understanding guy who allows his gf to be jacking off guys all day.

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Yep and dun forget girls with daddy issues, previously abused, exploited and human trafficking, pay school/travelling fees = sex industry.


I have heard ML telling me their ML friends with bf knowing full well what they do or from this forum posters mention ML marrying customers or another forum saying WL in Thailand having their bf drive them to work lol and pocketing their earnings lol. All these second hand knowledge mind, not something I personally witnessed.

At some time trust issues will come up in the relationship IMO. Will the ML ever fully trust the bf who pay younger girls to strip and jerk him off? Will the bf ever fully trust the ML who provides sexual service to strange men for cash?

Some years ago I was very friendly with the owner of a brothel in Canberra when I lived there. I would often go there in the evening to talk with her and help if she needed anything done, sometimes I'd drive girls to escort work or pickup/deliver girls to the bus terminal. I saw a lot of things that shocked me at the time such a Thai girl that would come down from Sydney to work for the weekend. Her boyfriend would drive her and stay in Canberra for the weekend, he'd sit with us in the common room while the girl would work and when she'd finish every job he was so concerned he'd ask her "how was it, are you ok?". They planned to marry and needed some cash to get started and that happened for a couple of months. She was very popular and had many regulars and was seeing around 15 guys a day but he didn't seem to have any problems with it because he just thought of the money.

Another instance was a Chinese guy that worked for the brothel part-time as a receptionist/driver and the days he worked he'd bring his wife along. She was about 40, fat and ugly but she worked on the side and was very happy to get 2 or 3 jobs a day and the husband was ecstatic to get the money. He'd just sit there while she was getting pumped
I couldn't believe it.

They were crazy days and a lot of fun as I got to know a lot of WLs.

Anyone, I saw a few instances where guys don't care about their girlfriend working.