Hey lads! I know I might get some mixed opinions but I’m curious to know everyones take on this, would you consider punting cheating towards your partner/wife? Why yes/no?
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Hey lads! I know I might get some mixed opinions but I’m curious to know everyones take on this, would you consider punting cheating towards your partner/wife? Why yes/no?
Ask your wife ?
I know yea this question might trigger the troll out of you.. lol I was actually genuine as I had an ex who was totally OK with with it as long no communication should happen outside the brothel house. Her take was ML/WLs are just as any other workers trying to make a living. I wonder if other have different experience that’s all.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rodman
I think most wives and GFs would say yes, although their attitudes vary Eg HJ is OK but nothing else. What if the tables were reversed, would you be happy to be cuckholded, most guys probably wouldn’t.Quote:
Originally Posted by ABG4LYF
Of course its cheating, because you are not being loyal to your partner,
most men cheat, because their sexual needs are not meet, there could be a number of issues that makes it impossible to have sex consistently,
but they do love their wife, so that's why they go to a brothel do their business, than come home and be the perfect husband,
So Punting does save marriages as long as the wife doesn't find out,
Yeah you are not wrong brother.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aphantom
Would it be cheating if wife go to a massage parlour and have extra like ml hand playing her pussy to orgasm.
Maybe if it was a male doing it:grimace:Quote:
Originally Posted by Climax598
Catching an STI and passing to your partner is a bit of a give away if anyone has a doubt.Quote:
Originally Posted by OLD SNAKE
The oldest profession is such for good reasons, but religions have been trying to put rules on what men have been needing to do for millennia. Monogamy avoided the risk of infecting the tribe. Thank you Mr Flemming and the advancement in medicine. 😬
I was thinking the same thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rodman
Don’t think it’s a troll answer. It comes down to what you have agreed are the boundaries in your relationship.
My answer is I don’t know, because I’m not the one who can define that, it’s my partner.Quote:
Originally Posted by ABG4LYF
I think the more important question is do you feel guilty about it. For that, I can emphatically answer No. I love punting.
If you don’t feel guilty, then it’s no, if you feel guilty, then don’t ask this question.
If your ex was totally ok with it, then she knew she would be your ex anyway, she didn’t love you enough to care. I might add the only exception is for old couples where the woman is over the hill, no interest anymore, so she settles for the little compromise.
Of course it’s cheating !
It's honestly each to their own on what is and what isn't. Best discuss with your partner and social circles, the consensus would a yes,.but you never know.
Your philosophy is spot on. Maybe extend to ‘in another suburb’.Quote:
Originally Posted by GlamourPhoto
Two WLs definitely cancel each other out because two ‘wongs’ make a right lol
Its cheating, but I have seen some girls from asian countries that don't mind there husband going out and paying for it as long as it's discreet and its not a relationship. Don't know if it they don't mind or just don't care.
It’s only cheating if you get caught
100% yep, cheating. Twist it whatever way you like, all the husbands and bf on here are plain jerks :)
In my assessment, there is a distinction between cheating with someone you know, and a WL. That said, I imagine it would be lost on your partner. The distinction is emotional attachment.
I suspect that using a WL whilst staying in a relationship is common, with the root cause being a mismatch in libido. Cheating with someone you know will involve emotional attachment, which I'd suggest indicates the relationship is dead.
Using a WL while in a relationship is sad; but at the end of the day, purely functional. A full-on affair is much more. I expect that is the mindset of people who do not regard using WLs to be cheating. And that point of view is not without merit.
The contribution of a naive moron, for who the world is a simple place.Quote:
Originally Posted by poida
This is such a STUPID question. Vice versa would you let your wife go to brothel or RNT massage? how does that make you feel? you also wanted the same way? well, your marriage aren’t working out. Answer is obviously cheating! feels good for me to say because i’m still single hahaQuote:
Originally Posted by ABG4LYF
Strike a nerve? I guess ya not single with no hassles :pQuote:
Originally Posted by verbatim2
Chill out dude :p
cheating or not cheating...who cares? Life is not so black and white.
I'm sure this subject has been brought up a few times in the past. Speaking as a married person, I consider it cheating only if you keep it a secret from your partner, as I do. Do I feel guilty! A little I do. But for me punting is completely a sexual thing. Go in, do my business and want to get out as quick as possible. I virtually hate that moment after coming when an ML/WL feels they need to make up the time left with conversation. I don't need to pay a person to talk to me. 30 mins sessions with WLs is all im doing from now on. As I don't wank any more, I consider punting the same as masturbating. Is it considered cheating if you masturbate to porn without your partner knowing?
Cheating means not honest. If you go brothel and tell your partner "i will go brothel have a relax", that is not cheating. To tell any other excuse, then it is cheating.
My situation is similar to that. I hooked up with my current partner at a time in my life when I was being completely reckless about my love life. All I wanted to do was fuck as many young girls I could get. I divorced my ex-wife and one of the things I did was I told her all about my punting activities in an effort to make her see what a monster I was (didn't work, she wanted to continue). After that marriage ended, every GF I had I just let them know I punt because I didn't want to get hitched. It was a stretch of a few years when I went absolutely bonkers.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tiankou
Then I partnered up with my current partner. She's had the same treatment as all the others, she knew I punt from almost the beginning of our relationship, but even so, would I just let it all hang out like I did back then?
I'm older and much more lazy now. I wouldn't do what I did back then unless I wanted my relationships to be just for fun and to end quickly. Then what? SBs? Nah... Too much work, and it's probably not going to be better sex than with my partner.