Some girls would like to talk and ask when we enjoyed each other’s bodies, which made me distracted and became softer and softer. How about you?
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Some girls would like to talk and ask when we enjoyed each other’s bodies, which made me distracted and became softer and softer. How about you?
This is one of the main reasons why I chose those that speak little or zero English.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexybee
At $150-170 per hour I don’t pay to socialise.
This is an interesting one...I admit I am a bit on the chatty side myself and get quite into a convo if the girl is talkative. I think it does help build rapport even if there is a bit less hanky panky initially, but I do understand how it can affect the transition to naughty stuff as the topics can end up quite unrelated to sex and somewhat kills the mood even if the atmosphere is friendly. I had this happen the other day as I was with a Japanese ML, and my fluent Japanese encouraged her to talk a lot, even after she had flipped me over. Lovely girl who is super pretty but I failed to get over the line.
Just leave your cock in their mouths, can’t talk with a mouth full, can they ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexybee
Nice topic
As many have said many times, this is a business transaction
You are paying for 30,45,60 minutes to maximize your pleasure. And punting isn't cheap anymore
By all means talk, but only when there is 10 minutes to go, after you have had the physical payoff
Dont you realise WL are much happier to talk rather than fuck
Unlike you, they have to work in a tiring job for hours after you have gone
Talking is best left for after your have got your value for money
She isn't your sister, time isn't cheap and your aren't there for conversation
With a M/L i like to have general conversation with the girl during part 1 just to be nice, so i get a more personal part2/3 instead of a mechanical motion
With a W/L i like to have a friendly pre chat to make the girl feel comfortable with me, so she doesn’t feel threaten or vulnerable during sex, if she knows your here to enjoy her company they kind of put more passion into their love making instead of just lying there like a starfish hoping you will finish quickly and leave
So too much conversation could also be used a defence mechanism for the girls, as people tend to talk too much when they are in an awkward position
My cock will behave as if it is dead when a WL ask for an increase of another $50 tips.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexybee
Yes you are there only for your cock and her pussy to have a brief conversation. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by frisson
I once tried to talk to a Chinese Milf who couldn't speak English.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ghost2hauntU
I told her I wanted intercourse.
She pointed to the Intercom in the room thinking I wanted to speak to the Receptionist.
言わぬが花.Quote:
Originally Posted by gedinsyd
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Lol. Just flop your dick out next time. You’ll be understood at once.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sibon
Very good advice 🤔🤭Quote:
Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
Indeed! Lesson learned...
I don't mind a bit of a chat before as long as we are doing it at the same time as the general routine of intro, showering and jumping into bed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexybee
Women do love to talk and they spend most of their shifts in a room by themselves alone and when i ask how their day is etc, I find it's gives me a better service because the girl starts to feel comfortable with you and not feel like a awkward situation vibe, nothing pisses them off more than a punter having the attitude of "shut up and just suck my dick"
but I have had a few punts where I am thinking "will you just shut the fuck up" only find out on a AR that these girls are just generally time wasters for everybody.
I think most of the bros problems here is they let the girls steer the conversation and get distracted themselves when they are the ones who should be steering the conversation instead
Yes that’s why I don’t like massage shopsQuote:
Originally Posted by Sibon
I think they are just buying and wasting enough time so you can do less on that you paid for.
It's kind off distracting, it make perfectly sense.
i find im able to icebreak when talking with the girls. i find it awkward when we are too quiet in the room
+1... I like a little chatting - funny the more of a connection/attraction I feel the more I want to talk to (and fuck) them.... I tend to just book longer sessions. Book and hour - I'm usually done by 40-45 min, can chat a little for the last part....Quote:
Originally Posted by Refedust
The only lips I want to see movement from are ones that don't talk
I find my punts much better when we chat & have a fun vibe
Definitely, if the girl is nice. It's a nice way to finish a great GFE session, them laying up on the side of your chest with a little chatting.... I'm finding I like seeing my new regular over other girls, as we have a little history, makes talking easier, more fun and relaxed.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shoryureppa
I second that. Only do massages when in Thailand or similar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexybee
Too much talking can kill the vibe for me. Some girls pulled me into really thought provoking convos about real life problems, I totally stopped thinking about sex. Ended up focusing too much on their problem, lol...
Nothing wrong with a bit of convo.
I think it makes the session more special and intimate.
Recently a J girl who had recently turned 20 told me about her her 20yo coming of age party (like a 21st in Western countries) and showed me her pics of her in her Furisode which is a special coming of age Kimono.
It was very sweet.
The thing about punting is you can have your cake and eat it too. You can have a very special intimate and passionate experience with a girl and then you can go off back to your normal life.
You just have to learn how to switch on and then switch off and then your punting pleasure increases 100%.
The mistake a lot of newbie punters make is to take one of two wrong paths.
They either 1. fall madly in love with a girl and totally lose the plot or 2. take a hard attitude toward the girl, treat it like a transaction, and take a misogynistic or hostile attitude toward the girls.
Both these approaches a will just lead to unhappiness for both you and the girl.
The middle path is to switch on and totally be in the moment with the girl and totally enjoy her company and fuck like crazy, and then when the time is up switch off and go back to normality.
Once you master this skill, punting is a beautiful and amazing thing.
Life can be beautiful. There is no need to be sad or mad or angry or bitter. Enjoy!