Regular taking advantage of me

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

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'ya think!!

.....piss this chick off....

She is giving you the full-on wife-experience now.....

Find yourself a new provider, someone got way too comfortable with taking your money

Some girls are grateful for regulars, and some take them for granted.

A bit of give and take is one thing, but if they start taking you for granted, you have to move on.

She’s not your friend
She’s not your girlfriend
She’s not your wife

Vote with your feet - start seeing some others at the same shop or the one next door / across the road.

The best way to get what you want is for her to realise you can get it from someone else.

Do I REALLY need to drag out the ole' Yul's "Move On" clip again...

https://youtu.be/1Ar5OdHtQrA?t=68

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Originally Posted by Folcis

Some girls are grateful for regulars, and some take them for granted.

A bit of give and take is one thing, but if they start taking you for granted, you have to move on.

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Well said. Loyalty and consideration cut both ways.

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Originally Posted by MindTheGap

She’s not your friend
She’s not your girlfriend
She’s not your wife

Vote with your feet - start seeing some others at the same shop or the one next door / across the road.

The best way to get what you want is for her to realise you can get it from someone else.

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Originally Posted by bung72

'ya think!!

.....piss this chick off....

She is giving you the full-on wife-experience now.....

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Why bother, taking the time to piss her off? Just Ride On to new, greener pastures, not worth the time and effort to linger...

At some point, IF she texts you, then it's up to you if you return. Holding grudges just not worth it, IME.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Why bother, taking the time to piss her off?

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I guess I was using the term 'to piss off' someone, to mean, get rid of them.
I'd start booking other girls at the same shop.

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Originally Posted by bung72

I guess I was using the term 'to piss off' someone, to mean, get rid of them.
I'd start booking other girls at the same shop.

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Misunderstood; thanks for the correction.

Still, I wouldn't necessarily book from the same shop (unless there was someone I REALLY wanted to see). There are so many shops, why limit yourself? And I wouldn't want to be caught up in interoffice politics, especially if a small shop. Like I said, just not worth it. It's just BUSINESS.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Do I REALLY need to drag out the ole' Yul's "Move On" clip again...

https://youtu.be/1Ar5OdHtQrA?t=68


Well said. Loyalty and consideration cut both ways.




Why bother, taking the time to piss her off? Just Ride On to new, greener pastures, not worth the time and effort to linger...

At some point, IF she texts you, then it's up to you if you return. Holding grudges just not worth it, IME.

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Because it works. I’ve used the tactic and ended up getting more than before.

You forget it’s all about the money for them

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Originally Posted by MindTheGap

Because it works. I’ve used the tactic and ended up getting more than before.

You forget it’s all about the money for them

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Worked for you, great.

Myself, I NEVER forget it's just BUSINESS. All depends on how much YOUR cash flow is worth to HER. I just don't play games, MY life is too short. No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see. What, you're not showing up, she's thinking, "Oh, he must have joined a monastery" or staying home with a broken heart? I've had some come back (her office, my bar), others not. It's just BUSINESS. Personally, when I lose a regular, I take the opportunity to scout for the next one. And she will be found... well, so far, anyway.

Well there may be others in the same shop

It might be that the shop is the most convenient for your lifestyle and personal circumstances. When I lived 40kms outside of a major city that was an issue for me as options were limited

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Worked for you, great.

Myself, I NEVER forget it's just BUSINESS. All depends on how much YOUR cash flow is worth to HER. I just don't play games, MY life is too short. No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see. What, you're not showing up, she's thinking, "Oh, he must have joined a monastery" or staying home with a broken heart? I've had some come back (her office, my bar), others not. It's just BUSINESS. Personally, when I lose a regular, I take the opportunity to scout for the next one. And she will be found... well, so far, anyway.

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Never underestimate burning jealousy in a woman. 100x if she is an Asian woman

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Originally Posted by MindTheGap

Well there may be others in the same shop

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As I said:

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

No need for the "same shop" UNLESS there's someone you really want to see.

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Originally Posted by MindTheGap

It might be that the shop is the most convenient for your lifestyle and personal circumstances. When I lived 40kms outside of a major city that was an issue for me as options were limited

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And why I always live, or stay, in the big city. Used to drive 70 minutes (120 kph) each way to work just so I could avail myself of the big city opportunities (though on foggy days, would often question that decision as my hands GRIPPED the steering wheel :question:, especially in an environment where many believed in "fate")

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Originally Posted by MindTheGap

Never underestimate burning jealousy in a woman. 100x if she is an Asian woman

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Ever heard "Feed the ducks?"...

All I'm saying is, if it works for you, fine. But when one door closes...

You become less important to a regular, a regular becomes less important to you. 2 sides, same coin.
Cheers.

Don’t see her anymore. In fact, you should make it known to her that you’re seeing others. Even better if it’s at the same shop. For the ultimate effect ask for a lineup, and from that lineup pick someone else. Make sure she’s in the lineup.

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Originally Posted by thefatness

Don’t see her anymore. In fact, you should make it known to her that you’re seeing others. Even better if it’s at the same shop. For the ultimate effect ask for a lineup, and from that lineup pick someone else. Make sure she’s in the lineup.

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Too much effort bro for that. He should just see another girl and if she happens to see him there the he should just say hello and move on. A girl like that he shouldn't waste any energy on.

I'm curious to know which girl this is

One of my regulars stopped offering one or two things she used to offer too...but it was her choice for health reasons and she stopped doing those things for everyone, to the best of my knowledge. So I simply respected that choice. I understand it could be a dealbreaker for some.
As for the overtime for the previous punter, do you still get your full session time regardless?
Regarding her being okay to meet, I guess she is happy to get the money regardless of whether you can put a finger in her lol.
It could also be that she simply doesn't like you that much and hopes you get the hint...not nice I know but it happens.

OP
You have clear simp‐tom's that you are being taken advantage of.
You do have my simp-athy that she just sees you as a weekly pay check.

Let us know who's your regular is and will do you a solid and bang that pussy outa revenge for you. No need to get your hands dirty for this. We got you bro.

Lol... I reckon if you keep seeing her, she'll end up putting a gimp mask on you and tie you to the corner.

Just ditch the bitch and move on.

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Originally Posted by Kiki kong

OP
You have clear simp‐tom's that you are being taken advantage of.
You do have my simp-athy that she just sees you as a weekly pay check.

Let us know who's your regular is and will do you a solid and bang that pussy outa revenge for you. No need to get your hands dirty for this. We got you bro.

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Well you explained that simply enough. If you bang her too hard she may become bow legged so just give her a simple bang,

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.

1. She's getting more comfortable saying no, including some stuff she used to do before.
2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session. That means she went overtime with others but never with me.
3. Sometimes she said she's tired because the previous punter was rough and asked for cuddles. Why let other punters go rough, then make me pay the price?
4. Once I texted her beforehand to check if she was okay to meet, and she said yes. But when we met, she had pussy pain and I couldn't even stick a finger in. Why not let me know earlier?

At first, I just kept my head down. But after a while, I started thinking, what the fuck is this bullshit?
Anyone else faced this before? Is it common for regulars to become complacent? I'm starting to think it's time to cut her off

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She does not respect you AND she will not improve.
Simply stop this business (yes, it’s business) arrangement and use your money to buy at another shop, you have hundreds of options.

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Originally Posted by Sinkie

I've been seeing a working lady regularly but instead of the service improving, I feel like she's starting to take advantage of me.
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2. She's always late. I've had to wait 10–30 minutes every session.

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Every room has a clock so while she’s in the bathroom having a shower just wind the hands back twenty minutes or so and you’ll be ahead of yourself but don’t be too greedy and go too far back or the previous punter may come into the room looking for more action.

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Originally Posted by andrewv

She does not respect you AND she will not improve.
Simply stop this business (yes, it’s business) arrangement and use your money to buy at another shop, you have hundreds of options.

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Simply put, I like it! Have you ever thought about giving advice on a forum? I’d keep the advice simple though and not advise a punter he has hundreds of options. You may find it a simple task but others not so simple.

Why do you guys treat some of these girls like your girl-friends. They're WL, if they don't provide the services agreed then move on. If anything they should treat regulars better instead, which isn't the case here.

It's a WL and u keep seeing the same one? That's the fkn headline! FFS get variety not the feels.

Regulars should be looked after but instead she treats them like crap because she knows they'll keep coming, and throws all her attention at random customers who won't see her again. Now isn't that stupid? Can't expect much logic from these chicks anyway