Couldn't get hard. 3 times. WTF is wrong with me?

Over 800 bucks spent on 3 different girls, still, I couldn't fuck them cuz my dick is so shy. I always managed to get hard in the shower but as soon as I lay on the bed, I feel like I don't have a dick anymore.

My Johnny is always as hard as X-man's bones whenever I'm jerking off alone. But why is it that I can't get hard when a girl is all over my body completely naked? Is it sexual performance anxiety? How do you solve it really?

I just feel bad for the girls, they think it's their fault when the reality is it's just me. I always had to tell them that I feel nervous.

If you ever been through this, how do you solve it? HELP ME. I WANT TO FUCK

Cialis the night before will be your best friend

I would exhaust every option possible i.e. DFK, BBBJ, DATY, B2B, cat bath, etc. It’s not over if you can’t get hard, I’ve managed to get over the line with a semi hard. On the few occasions that failed I would make use of the time by fondling her boobs.

Stop watching porn, stop wanking with gorilla grip

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Originally Posted by 17012430

Stop watching porn, stop wanking with gorilla grip

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This OP

Stop doing the deed yourself and stay off porn

Yes stop the wank, have a few days rest or weeks and see how you go

Maybe try a male escort.

Just get viagra. GP's get asked for it multiple times daily so they do not care. And it's cheap. It's not worth paying hundreds of dollars just to end up pushing rope.

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Originally Posted by neveragain

Just get viagra. GP's get asked for it multiple times daily so they do not care. And it's cheap. It's not worth paying hundreds of dollars just to end up pushing rope.

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this, i don't need the blue pills but i have them anyway cause when I know it's probably a multi shot session it just makes the second shot easy, no refractory period

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Originally Posted by iikaannn

Over 800 bucks spent on 3 different girls, still, I couldn't fuck them cuz my dick is so shy. I always managed to get hard in the shower but as soon as I lay on the bed, I feel like I don't have a dick anymore.

My Johnny is always as hard as X-man's bones whenever I'm jerking off alone. But why is it that I can't get hard when a girl is all over my body completely naked? Is it sexual performance anxiety? How do you solve it really?

I just feel bad for the girls, they think it's their fault when the reality is it's just me. I always had to tell them that I feel nervous.

If you ever been through this, how do you solve it? HELP ME. I WANT TO FUCK

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Don't feel bad for the girls. EASY job for them. And don't worry, when they all get back to the breakroom, they'll tell EVERYONE about mr. limp_noodle. IF they use their index finger to demonstrate, consider yourself lucky. It'll probably be their pinky...


Your problem is obvious.

Just like Mommy told you, having sex with a girl outside of marriage, you're being a BAD BOY, a VERY BAD BOY. BAAAAAD BOY, BAAAAAD BOY, NAUGHTY, NAUGHTY, NAGHTY, SHAME, SHAME, SHAME. Now go to your room.

Or, seriously, you seem very young and immature. I'd say take the energy, money, and time and go find yourself a REAL relationship. Get some REAL life experience before P4P.

And remember: MOTHER IS ALWAYS WATCHING!! SHE KNOWS!!!

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Originally Posted by iikaannn

Over 800 bucks spent on 3 different girls, still, I couldn't fuck them cuz my dick is so shy. I always managed to get hard in the shower but as soon as I lay on the bed, I feel like I don't have a dick anymore.

My Johnny is always as hard as X-man's bones whenever I'm jerking off alone. But why is it that I can't get hard when a girl is all over my body completely naked? Is it sexual performance anxiety? How do you solve it really?

I just feel bad for the girls, they think it's their fault when the reality is it's just me. I always had to tell them that I feel nervous.

If you ever been through this, how do you solve it? HELP ME. I WANT TO FUCK

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Pause masturbation and porn, your body has gotten used to being pleasured a certain way that actual sex doesn't stimulate you as effectively.

Relax, don't overthink it. Just enjoy the moment, whatever happens.

Take a week or 2 off and get some good sleep. You are probably just burnt out.

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Originally Posted by iikaannn

Over 800 bucks spent on 3 different girls, still, I couldn't fuck them cuz my dick is so shy. I always managed to get hard in the shower but as soon as I lay on the bed, I feel like I don't have a dick anymore.

My Johnny is always as hard as X-man's bones whenever I'm jerking off alone. But why is it that I can't get hard when a girl is all over my body completely naked? Is it sexual performance anxiety? How do you solve it really?

I just feel bad for the girls, they think it's their fault when the reality is it's just me. I always had to tell them that I feel nervous.

If you ever been through this, how do you solve it? HELP ME. I WANT TO FUCK

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I hate to tell you mate... you might need to switch sides.

PUSSY is your Kryptonite dude

"... Is it sexual performance anxiety? How do you solve it really?..."

its SEXUAL PREFERENCE dude !... literally !! you have to try dudes from now on !

This means you are gay

There are 2 possible reasons and remedies, depending on which persona OP is on:
1. His dingdong is too big for his small 58kg body. This results in insufficient blood flow to get hard. Remedy: Go for dingdong size reduction surgery.
2. It's race related. His dingdong is racist, doesn't like the girls OP pays for. Heck, it doesn't even like OP's race. Remedy: Go for dingdong separation surgery.

This forum is spiralling into lunacy. It's like a madhouse in here lately, lollll

Stop alcohol as well - porn, wanking, thinking, the Mummy factor (they even watch from beyond the grave in some cultures) are all good advice as already provided. Some people need hypnosis for this issue but a doctor can also probably help, because they will ask you about your lifestyle etc which takes the emotion out of the picture. Dr Feelgood used to give advice over the radio on these matters, too. Perhaps there are articles of hers online you could consult? Good luck and consider the practical help as good natured and sincere.

Don't make a big deal out of it. Shrug it off and say "oh well better luck next time".

Healthy diet, good sleep, regular exercise no masturbation, no porn.

If you got soft lying down try a different position. Find a position that works for you.

I dunno how old you are but it happens and the worst thing is when it gets in your head.

I have sort of the opposite problem with retarded ejaculation and it that gets in your head you are toast, and for the girl this is probably worse.

If you're over 40, I don't think your doctor would blink an eyelid to give you blue pills, and even if you don't actually need them, they are a wonderful blue placebo that will get it out of your head.

I do agree with posters above, jerkin off to porn is like studying for an exam stoned, if you're not stoned when you turn up for your exam, you can't remember shit. State dependent learning is the phenomenon. Go easy on the jerkin the gherkin.

When this happened to me I realised I was punting when I had the opportunity rather than when I was horny. I don't watch porn and masturbate 2 days before a punt, I don't punt more than once a week. problem solved.

Happened to me when I was tired after work or if the girl doesn’t click.
If the girl doesn’t click I’ll try and use more imagination, but it’s a bad idea to punt when tired. All the comments about not wanking is very true for me too. Likewise for hard wanking…Wet pussies aren’t as tight as your grip.

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I dunno how old you are but it happens and the worst thing is when it gets in your head.

I have sort of the opposite problem with retarded ejaculation and it that gets in your head you are toast, and for the girl this is probably worse.

If you're over 40, I don't think your doctor would blink an eyelid to give you blue pills, and even if you don't actually need them, they are a wonderful blue placebo that will get it out of your head.

I do agree with posters above, jerkin off to porn is like studying for an exam stoned, if you're not stoned when you turn up for your exam, you can't remember shit. State dependent learning is the phenomenon. Go easy on the jerkin the gherkin.

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Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is

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Im only 20 bro do u think i should take cialis? I dont even know what that is

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I experienced some performance issues in my early 20’s as well.

Theres so many contributing factors as to why.
It’s tough to get over the performance anxiety and constant thinking “Will i actually get hard this time”

I cut back on porn/masturbation and made sure i was actually getting enough sleep as i would normally get a few hours a night.

To ease the anxiety i ended up getting a script for Cialis and it definitely helped… A lot. Just don’t overdo it. The effects last 72hrs, strongest in the first 24. You won’t be walking around everywhere with an erection but you’ll find it incredibly easy to get one.

Think of Cialis as Viagra’s little brother.


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It's probably just a mental thing of some sort, don't reach for the pills at 20. Worst case you need to go see a Dr. to get a couple free therapist sessions.

But yeah, also stop jerkin the gherkin for a bit, then try again to rule that out.

I agree your cocks like a dog you have trained it