Originally Posted by
wildstud
By your logic, nobody should ask anyone for an opinion about anything because they can simply go experience it themselves.
I'm new here. Of course I'm asking for information before I have any firsthand experiences to contribute.
That's literally how joining a forum works. You ask questions, gather information, eventually try something for yourself, and then you can contribute your own experience.
I'm not going to pretend I have firsthand information I don't have just to satisfy your definition of a “contributor.”
And if someone's appearance is important to me when deciding whether I'm interested, then asking whether she's attractive is a perfectly relevant question.
You can't simultaneously tell me to “go find out for myself” and complain that I haven't contributed firsthand information yet. The whole point of asking is to decide what I actually want to find out for myself.