Originally Posted by
Spanky69
Fifty what, I’m guessing you mean posts? It might be another few more posts, but not many. Don’t you think I’d be doing the bare minimum number of words to get to fifty if that was the case? All I have done is convey my situation. She txt me at five thirty am before I woke up this morning and I know she’s been out last night, just gotten home with her BF and good on her. I already am up and getting ready to do my own thing today otherwise we’d be spending today together. Just like I still have other girls to sort out she has a guy who she has to get rid of too. She told me all about him. He’s half my age and she told me he loves her. I’ve seen various pics of him in the background months ago since Christmas Day and I had already put two and two together. She came out and told me such just like I freely admitted I had other girls. We had a very frank and open discussion about where our feelings are with other people and how we will be letting them go.
I already have her mind and her heart. The rest will follow suit when I’m ready. If anything it shows how calculating we both can be when it comes to our current lovers. We both already have the upper hand in our individual relationships with other people so breaking them off isn’t an emotional roller coaster. I’m already controlling this situation as it’s been planned and she has the weak hand.
I’m not sure how any of you set up your relationships and if you are the dominant person? It’s a choice you either make or you leave it to fate.