ML borrowed few K and disappeared /blocked me

Lion's den?

Where do you people punt? With whom? Punters afraid she'll put the hoo-doo voo-doo spell on them? Putting your financial health at risk every time you walk into a shop? Myself, I always carry a condom, most of the time, use. For my wallet, its condom is COMMON SENSE and EXPERIENCE (kind of like a condom with spermicide).

Disney? Fantasy?

Without a doubt, that's what I'm paying for. Been to Disneyland many times. And I'm old enough to say, "She's most definitely an e-ticket ride". But I also know that the Princess is just an actress (again showing my age).

Regulars? Why I have the same barber, dentist, doctor; I trust them to deliver excellent service for a fair price. Same with restaurants and bars. I have my regular for each. In both, it's Cheers. I don't have to say a thing; walk in, make eye contact, slight nod, and my order is brought, just the way I like it.

Certainly venture out scouting, always looking for another starting pitcher. You never know when your team roster will be depleted. But it's just nice not having to start from zero, having some history...

Power imbalance?

I just treat her as an equal. I'm straight with her, she's straight with me. Example:

I recently had a previous regular message me. Hadn't seen her for several years, but I'll occasionally get the "how are you?" (translation: BOTG?, come see me) message. She was direct: business down, shop closed, short of money, could I help?

Understand business slack: BKK in July, well, that's a pass for me. Shop closed? That was a surprise, but a quick check and it shouldn't have been, given the development of Suk over the past 30 years. Surprised 24/1 lasted as long as it did. So with those two, understood "short".

I had some empathy, but then, perhaps unlike many here, I've worked "at will" jobs. Plenty of projects. And when you know the project is ending, you start reaching out. First to close associates. Then, as the end date nears, further and further, up to and including someone you've passed in the hallway once or twice.

I didn't take offense, bleat scam, gold digger... Understood desperation, a hail Mary. She was straight with me; I was straight with her. Sorry, cannot. And I explained why. Didn't have to explain, but she respected me, I respected her. Wished her good luck, she said thanks, come see her when I'm next BOTG.

Just BUSINESS. You don't need an MBA to participate.

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Originally Posted by Paison

I honestly dont understand how some men cant instantly see through this shit lol

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Easy, they have very little experience with women so everything is "real" and "special" to them. They think women in the industry are the same as civilians. I barely listen to the BS that women rattle off, and when I do I'm reading between the lines to find what the angle is. Females learn deception around the same time they learn to walk whereas some men as evidenced on this forum may never quite get it.

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Originally Posted by HiredGoon

You really think so? Dudes here are always talking about how these girls have a shelf life and as long as he has money there’s always another girl.

The power imbalance is definitely the other way.

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Originally Posted by Paison

That's why punters also need to keep a rotation and dont get fixated on 1.

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Correct, but still, you've got 3 prostitutes you paid in your phone, she's got 50 blokes messaging her non-stop. That's what I mean by power imbalance. Most simps only have 1 girl in their contacts. Hell, most men's inboxes are so dry they'd be stoked to get a discount coupon from Domino's. Some evil chicks know this and milk these poor bastards. This is their arena, play accordingly

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Originally Posted by forgotmyumbrella

Correct, but still, you've got 3 prostitutes you paid in your phone, she's got 50 blokes messaging her non-stop. That's what I mean by power imbalance. Most simps only have 1 girl in their contacts.

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On the other side of the coin most men cheat so unless you tell your partner you want an open relationship what’s the difference between a punter and a sex worker? The number of partners.

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Regulars? Why I have the same barber, dentist, doctor; I trust them to deliver excellent service for a fair price. Same with restaurants and bars. I have my regular for each. In both, it's Cheers. I don't have to say a thing; walk in, make eye contact, slight nod, and my order is brought, just the way I like it.

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Regulars? We’ve all got them and I'm as guilty as the next bloke; same barber, same dentist, same doctor, same accountant, same mechanic. But here’s the thing: we don’t fall in love with them, we don’t tip or pay them more than their standard rate, and we sure as hell don’t give them sexy lingerie, flowers, jewellery, perfumes, dildos, chocolates, Gucci handbag…nor do we blow up their phone every day with “hey baby how are you” or “sweet dreams darling" or “love you” or “thinking of you” on endless repeat.

Moral of the story? Have regulars, just don't fall in love with them. And if you insist on showering your regular with tips and expensive and luxurious gifts then cough up the same for your barber, doctor, accountant, and mechanic too......it's only fair

Imagine how fucked up this story would be if a punter went and saw his 'regular' bank manager or 'regular' accountant, and they come up with a convincing sob story, and then the punter transfers 10k into their account.

....it's fucked!

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Originally Posted by justincase

My dentist keeps txting me every three months.

At least I’m wanted by someone…

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wow.... talk about taking sad to a whole new level

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Originally Posted by justincase

On the other side of the coin most men cheat so unless you tell your partner you want an open relationship what's the difference between a punter and a sex worker? The number of partners.

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Well said. LOL.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

Regulars? We've all got them and I'm as guilty as the next bloke; same barber, same dentist, same doctor, same accountant, same mechanic. But here's the thing: we don't fall in love with them, we don't tip or pay them more than their standard rate, and we sure as hell don't give them sexy lingerie, flowers, jewellery, perfumes, dildos, chocolates, Gucci handbag'…nor do we blow up their phone every day with “hey baby how are you” or “sweet dreams darling" or “love you” or “thinking of you” on endless repeat.

Moral of the story? Have regulars, just don't fall in love with them. And if you insist on showering your regular with tips and expensive and luxurious gifts then cough up the same for your barber, doctor, accountant, and mechanic too......it's only fair

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Agreed. Like I said, it's BUSINESS. Pay an agreed upon fee for an agreed upon service. Now, I have bought a girl a small birthday cake on her birthday while she was LT, I know what it's like to be away from home and friends while an expat. We shared it. While home, I've bought some t-shirts to give to regulars on my return; NOT designer, just some local store logos to give as gifts to regulars on my return from vacation (more than likely made in their home country but it's the thought that counts). In return, I've received some nice tea, and one gave me a nice tea-set (looks very nice, but those small teacups, not something I'd use, but nice to put on a shelf).

Likewise, I've picked up some Hard Rock shot glasses for my barber - he collects them.

Just a nod of respect to a person.

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wow.... talk about taking sad to a whole new level

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Yep, it’s the deep dark dingy and often times murky world of secret men’s business that I’ve been drawn into.

Financially mentally physically and orgasmically drained only to be thrown on the scrap heap of life, like a used condom a one use wonder and now no use anymore, teetering on the brink of indecision, wondering “does she love me, will she love me, how much more do I have to give her”?

Waiting waiting waiting for her once a day textual response only to be greeted by a 😁 and a few broken words of English telling me I’m her “special customer”!

Now you know!

This my life, my self inflicted purgatory and yes it’s sad oh so very sad!

My only solace is seeking the comfort from my fickle fellow fellated forum brethren who suffer similar sympathetically but are stronger than I and have travelled this testicularly tortured well worn path many many times before!

They have the gumption and the willpower to override this “fools folly” and soldier on, keeping their women on rotation and their money in their pocket!

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My only solace is seeking the comfort from my fickle fellow fellated forum brethren who suffer similar sympathetically but are stronger than I and have travelled this testicularly tortured well worn path many many times before!

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Don't go typing sentences like that anymore please. Bravo will get all upset when he realises putting sentences together isn't a skill unique to him.

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Originally Posted by Cracker38

Yeah, I actually messaged the op about this. Even though I donÂ’t approve of the actions of the ML, as I tried to point out, any action taken against her ultimately ends up hurting an innocent child. I just asked for that to be taken into consideration before any action be taken.

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If her daughter gets hurt in the process, she only has the mother to blame. You likely have no idea how she has been using the daughter and being a single mother as pity to trick all of us for money. All the while spending up on luxury clothing, handbags and living in a lavish apartment.
All she can do now is block us and not return our messages. Its bullshit.

Damn straight she can't blame no one else. Ask any of the ladies at SP or the other parlours she's worked at, every one of them will tell you that this isn't isolated to men as she even owes the owner of SP money (a woman!).

This isnt just about a ML milking her clients with a girlfriend experience. It's a scammer taking money wherever she can to fund her luxury lifestyle at others expense.
This is why we need to take action.

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Originally Posted by Legend2000

Damn straight she can't blame no one else. Ask any of the ladies at SP or the other parlours she's worked at, every one of them will tell you that this isn't isolated to men as she even owes the owner of SP money (a woman!).

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I don't even think she's the only one from SP that has pulled this scam...

Can someone pm me who the girl at SP this thread is referring to or what page it's mentioned ? thanks

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Can someone pm me who the girl at SP this thread is referring to or what page it's mentioned ? thanks

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Ditto for me pls...I want to avoid her. Thanks folks!

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I already mentioned on page 7 of this thread. She hasn't been at SP for a long time but continued the scamming even while pregnant and even used her baby as fodder for it.
It's been eye opening trading notes with others in the same position.
Honestly, its agood thing she is being exposed. Aside from the fact that we should all go test for STDs now.

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Originally Posted by Urbumcrack

I already mentioned on page 7 of this thread. She hasn't been at SP for a long time but continued the scamming even while pregnant and even used her baby as fodder for it.
It's been eye opening trading notes with others in the same position.
Honestly, its agood thing she is being exposed. Aside from the fact that we should all go test for STDs now.

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I can't believe all you blokes got played like a fiddle by this Hooker

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Originally Posted by Legend2000

Damn straight she can't blame no one else. Ask any of the ladies at SP or the other parlours she's worked at, every one of them will tell you that this isn't isolated to men as she even owes the owner of SP money (a woman!).

This isnt just about a ML milking her clients with a girlfriend experience. It's a scammer taking money wherever she can to fund her luxury lifestyle at others expense.
This is why we need to take action.

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Jessie is a nice person and not surprised this ML took advantage of her given their close relationship. I've had some dealings with Jessie and the ML in question even tried to take advantage of that.
Massively money hungry.

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Originally Posted by Urbumcrack

I already mentioned on page 7 of this thread. She hasn't been at SP for a long time but continued the scamming even while pregnant and even used her baby as fodder for it.
It's been eye opening trading notes with others in the same position.
Honestly, its agood thing she is being exposed. Aside from the fact that we should all go test for STDs now.

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I just sent you a PM

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Originally Posted by themort

I don't even think she's the only one from SP that has pulled this scam...

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I also heard from my regular ML that couple other girls from SP who no longer work at shop did similar.
I wouldnt be surprised if it was this ML who was the one that coached them how to do it as when these other girls ran the scam, this ML was working as the reception and waxing there when she was pregnant.