What happen to this case, any update from the OP?
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What happen to this case, any update from the OP?
Been wondering the same thing. My gut feeling has always been that police won’t lay criminal charges and they will have to pursue a civil lawsuit against the ML.
I think the biggest issue is how they all met and the fact that the initial interaction was $$$ for services and then showing that this interaction had stopped at the time the ‘loan’ took place
We've been told by police to pursue civil case.Quote:
Originally Posted by J3ffrey
Without saying too much, we already have collated much info and even found her new alias.
We'll see how things go.
Yeah, you’re basically right. Police usually treat this as a civil issue first, especially when it starts as paid services and later turns into “loans”. It usually only goes criminal if the civil process turns up clear evidence of dishonesty and the Director of Public Prosecutions decides it’s worth running.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cracker38
That is a silly request. All the girls who work in all the shops use fake names for good reason. It is never the name on their passport.Quote:
Originally Posted by thefatness
Also, they have a long menu of names and often revolve through them. As we all know, they often use 2 or 3 names if they work at 2 or 3 shops at the same time.
Conclusion: think of any name you want, and that was the girl. Yes, she was Lucy, Eva, Mary, Yoko, Momo.... or any name your want. That is the girl.
The real questions are:
(1) stupid men lose money and fall for this trick every day, and
(2) Once you pay, there is zero chance of getting the money back.
Even if you have her passport name, and even if you go to the police, it is a civil matter and she will never have the funds to repay you.
The police cannot prove theft, so no prosecutor can take the case in court. All the girl might say is, "He gave me the money as a gift". You do not have a signed and witnessed loan agreement with repayment terms, and she didn't get legal advice before signing. Even if you show the funds being transferred from your bank to her account (if you didn't pay in cash), it is a totally and absloutely lost case.
What to do next? Move On, Baby!! You lost.
call the cops they may have done this to others protect your fellow punters, you dont let that shit slide
She's a repeat offender and while funding a guy in Vietnam; she a vile individual.Quote:
Originally Posted by Smoothknob
If anything good came of this, it would the fact that many have woken up to it.
Odds on the guy in Vietnam owes money to people over there as well. Birds of a feather.Quote:
Originally Posted by Legend2000
Except neither of those are questions.Quote:
Originally Posted by andrewv
Lowkey something I’ve noticed in my (very short but very active) punting era, after longer bookings some of the girls open up to me. I’m still pretty young so they kinda treat me like a little bro, which is funny.Quote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
A pattern I’ve seen? A lot of them are sending money overseas to a boyfriend or family back home. Some have kids, some don’t. It’s just interesting how common that situation is.
Jap WLs/MLs - have a good looking boyfriend they are funding overseas him and usually no kids
Viet WLs/MLs - have a regular looking boyfriend overseas they are funding and usually have kids
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Originally Posted by andrewv
Had he just swapped out two tiny words he could've turned those statements into questions.Quote:
Originally Posted by HiredGoon
1. Do stupid men lose money and fall for this trick every single day?
2. Once you pay, Is there truly zero chance of ever getting the money back?
I used to frequent the Star quite a bit and got friendly with a guy who used to pour thousands a day at the baccarat tables. Small world, turns out he's wife was working at Ginza and I was one of her regulars. Was real awkward when we all bumped into each other, but he was all cool with it and even told me to see her more often haha.Quote:
Originally Posted by ColesBag
Later i even found out they had 2 kids together.
One Vietnamese WL i was fooling around with was telling me the same thing about her dad, how he had two families to two different woman, left her mum to shack up with the other woman and then later that woman dumped him and stolen all his money. He would always message her whilst she was here working asking for money because he would gamble it away and she was always crying because of him, didnt help that he didnt work and was always fishing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Paison
These ML's and WL's all have boyfriends and husbands back home but they tell you all that they are singleQuote:
Originally Posted by Newbieguy2025
1000% correct.Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaChad
These girls lie as easily as they breathe. It’s just like a reflex action for them.
Nothing wrong with selling the fantasy. Truth is, most of us punters dont want to drop 300/hr if we found out the WL advertised in her early 20s was actually a milf in her 30s with loose hole due to kids and funding a degen overseas.Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaChad
It only becomes a problem if the WL tries to take that fantasy outside of the shop to try drain some lonely poor schmuck of all he's money.
In this case that's what happened. Had a DM on here that this ML is still at it, scamming poor guys with her lies of stories to feel sorry for her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Paison
This reminded me few years ago i had a massage with Vietnamese ML. First time seeing her as she was giving me massage we small talkQuote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows
Eventually she opened up about her situation and why shes doing massages, its because she owes alot of money to loan shark. Shes quite sad about it but i thought about it too and i can see why she would do this cause loan sharks can be deadly, you may see it on the news sometimes either drug related or their family member gambling or borrowing or what not but with loan sharks if you dont pay it off they charge you interest and you end up owing interest too so it piles up! To the point you'll get killed, or forced into smuggling etc.. I know cause my family member was in similar situation.
She opened up how her sons doesn't help her out at all after i told her how i help out with my family similar situation.
Anyway part 2 was just standard HJ, she mention she doesn't offer anything else. I told her she's not gonna make enough with just HJ, she would need to do abit more and if its okay i can give her extra.
she ended up giving me BBBJ, wasnt the best but enough to get me to cum. Paid her extra and she suggested to see her again.
i told her sure next time.
Never went back after that. She was old looking 50's, but her body was fit.
I felt bad for her at that time but people lie so i forgot about it until now..
Sometimes you're better off limiting with just small talk and never go too deep. Life isn't fair. Just enjoy your transactional time with the WL and just leave it as that.Quote:
Originally Posted by 1inchguy
It's the biggest turn off when you start feeling sorry for the girl, or worst off, she lied through her teeth and conned you emotionally.
Before I go any further, I just want to say this post wasn't meant to smear all MLs. I still visit massage parlours and brothels, not going to stop.
I've met plenty of good people over the years. In fact, two of the women have been instrumental in helping connect some of us and shed some light on whats been going on and spreading word in the community so this doesn't happen again.
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Most of the women are just in the industry to make a living like the rest of us - this post is only about one very vile individual and the pattern several of us have experienced.
Anyway, just in case any of you might be in a similar situation (and still in denial), here’s the pattern we’ve seen:
- Spends time building what feels like a genuine relationship
- Sleeps with the guys and acts like a normal relationship is building
- After a while starts asking for financial help
- Usually begins with small things - couple hundred bucks, bills, gifts, help with travel and when you say you can loan it to her, she will reply ok - sometimes like in my case, she may even pay back the small amount (and come back for an even bigger amount which won't get repaid)
- Amounts slowly get bigger once you've helped a few times
- Seeing several men at the same time who don’t know about each other (big overlap)
- Emotional stories or problems that make you feel bad for her
- If you start asking for the money back or questioning things about where things are going, she ghosts or blocks you
- The guys who don't chase her for the money tend to stay in contact (lighter after she gets money)
- Those same guys often get reapproached again later for more money until they are bled dry and can't give anymore, then she will block them or disappear
- She’ll disappear for a while, then pop back up weeks or months later like nothing ever happened with “hey how have you been” or asking to catch up for coffee
- Thats usually the start of the whole cycle again
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Originally Posted by Legend2000
To be honest it sounds like a typical telationship outside punting.
You could meet a girl and the cycle starts there.
Gold digging is a real talentQuote:
Originally Posted by Legend2000
Thanks for the update Bro.
This is a stark reminder for all the bros roaming the punting wilderness: keep your wits about you. Romance scams are still alive and thriving. They’ve simply evolved from the old-school model of exchanging emails and photos...to the diamond package that now involves the exchange of body fluids.
my apprentice is always complaining about how little he earns and how much he spends on his GF.Quote:
Originally Posted by 1inchguy
You should explain the economics of how punting is cheaper. Although at his age the cost per root may still be cheaper with his GF.Quote:
Originally Posted by JJBlows