Dating a ML

Bro . You could not have summed it up any better!!!

I had uncle who gave me this piece of advice, that 8 years is about the ideal age gap . Thought it was a joke as he gave me no reasons . But how wise he was wise for the reasons you stated. Lol.

Some of us punt. Others choose to have affairs . The more decisive ones end their marriage and move on. That's life.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Not always, but for us who are punters it is more likely to be bad. The fact that we punt means that we have a higher sex drive than people who don't. Then any little thing that could deprive you of sex at home would become a big problem.

Eg. Wife getting old, lack of sex drive, doesn't want to have sex that often because she's not that into you, etc.

Not only that, YOU could lose interest in her as she gets on with age. This is the biggest problem I reckon.

It's all about sex for us, whereas for normal folk it could be maybe only a 20% factor. Their marriages could still work without that 20%.

That's why I always say, do your best to choose the right girl to get hitched with and hope that you were lucky with the choice.

A few things can't go wrong, other things are more about luck. Her age must be at least 10 years your junior because this makes it aligned with the male and female biological clock. If you're 40, you marry a late-20s to 30 yo girl. By the time she gets to menopause at around 50, you'd be in your 60s. Your own sex drive would've slowed considerably, and you would've had 20 odd years of great sex at home with her. That's a great thing, no?

Looks, body shape, etc... of course always go for the girls who suit your taste to avoid yourself losing interest in her.

If you get all these things right, you'd still need a bit of luck for the other things that could go wrong.

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Not always, but for us who are punters it is more likely to be bad. The fact that we punt means that we have a higher sex drive than people who don't. Then any little thing that could deprive you of sex at home would become a big problem.

Eg. Wife getting old, lack of sex drive, doesn't want to have sex that often because she's not that into you, etc.

Not only that, YOU could lose interest in her as she gets on with age. This is the biggest problem I reckon.

It's all about sex for us, whereas for normal folk it could be maybe only a 20% factor. Their marriages could still work without that 20%.

That's why I always say, do your best to choose the right girl to get hitched with and hope that you were lucky with the choice.

A few things can't go wrong, other things are more about luck. Her age must be at least 10 years your junior because this makes it aligned with the male and female biological clock. If you're 40, you marry a late-20s to 30 yo girl. By the time she gets to menopause at around 50, you'd be in your 60s. Your own sex drive would've slowed considerably, and you would've had 20 odd years of great sex at home with her. That's a great thing, no?

Looks, body shape, etc... of course always go for the girls who suit your taste to avoid yourself losing interest in her.

If you get all these things right, you'd still need a bit of luck for the other things that could go wrong.

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If I had to decide to marry again I'd make sure the lady could drive or had the confidence to learn.

I’m of the opinion that a man only needs a casual sex partner and a housekeeper.

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Originally Posted by JJBlows

Man, i have witnessed and heard stories of these situations go wrong very quickly because of that exact thing.

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Yep for sure.
Moral of story - never trust a WL/ML. I would say 90% have basically sold their soul.

It just never ends well.

You attract what you use to impress.

If a chick uses her body to impress, she will attract blokes interested in her body only ie until they catch the feels for the chick then start posting threads about falling in love with a WL/ML.

If a bloke uses money to impress, he will only attract chicks interested in money, so don't expect the chick to discover or appreciate any of your other hidden talents and attributes.

It's that fucken simple! be careful with what you show the world or what you show or do to impress chicks in a RnT or Brothel. The only thing chicks should be impressed by is the size of your cock and how you wield the sword.

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Originally Posted by themort

Well for me, I met one, dated her, she immediately wanted to leave the game, so she spent her own money to retrain, and we bought her a shop that she runs, and she makes plenty of money. With her business and my business, we managed to buy some property and we have it pretty good. We're married now.

I definitely know smart ones that are in the game for a purpose but know if and when you find someone you can't go in in that industry. Equally I know girls now on the wrong side of 40 who have been in it too long and have never made the transition to do something else, and I wish they would.

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Does she know you still punt?

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Originally Posted by Misohappy

Moral of story - never trust a WL/ML. I would say 90% have basically sold their soul.

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Damn, maybe I should go buy a lottery ticket. I've always had good luck when I've trusted them. IME, no difference in "that" population than the general population. I don't flash my cash, but I also don't take my wallet with me when showering alone as I have no reason to mistrust the vast majority. Basic caution sufficient.

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Originally Posted by Double_Adapter

You attract what you use to impress.
If a bloke uses money to impress, he will only attract chicks interested in money, so don't expect the chick to discover or appreciate any of your other hidden talents and attributes.

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If you're seen as an ATM, can you really be surprised that they'll keep wanting to make withdrawals, and not just from your sperm bank either.

IME, you give trust and respect, it is returned. I'm often told that I'm a "nice" guy. Sure some cynics here would substitute "simp", but I'd disagree, just BASIC civilized behavior with another PERSON. As my mate once said, "if guys like us are seen as nice, what does that tell you about the average customer?"

Or maybe it's just a benefit of being (you say old, I say mature), Asians respect their elders. They would certainly have NO problem outrunning me.

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Originally Posted by Mr.Robot

Does she know you still punt?

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i think his missus is the mamasan at Chanel at home he’s a rich Indian 😂

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Originally Posted by Misohappy

Yep for sure. I know one Viet ML who got pregnant and used the opportunity to extract money off multiple guys and claiming they were the fathers.
Funny thing was, while she was pregnant, she was playing victim and still getting with couple new guys (not the fathers) - one was dumb enough to give her 40-50k 😅 and she blocked him not long after 🤣.

Moral of story - never trust a WL/ML. I would say 90% have basically sold their soul.

It just never ends well.

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ouchhhh thats rough

yea i am sure it does exist but also such a small% that you meet a WL/ML that is true and genuine

one who is smart and only in it for the short term with plans of a proper future career and would quit once she achieves this and would quit earlier for you....

but finding a girl like that is like finding the next ronaldo or messi lol

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Originally Posted by 11Bravo

Damn, maybe I should go buy a lottery ticket. I've always had good luck when I've trusted them. IME, no difference in "that" population than the general population. I don't flash my cash, but I also don't take my wallet with me when showering alone as I have no reason to mistrust the vast majority. Basic caution sufficient.



If you're seen as an ATM, can you really be surprised that they'll keep wanting to make withdrawals, and not just from your sperm bank either.

IME, you give trust and respect, it is returned. I'm often told that I'm a "nice" guy. Sure some cynics here would substitute "simp", but I'd disagree, just BASIC civilized behavior with another PERSON. As my mate once said, "if guys like us are seen as nice, what does that tell you about the average customer?"

Or maybe it's just a benefit of being (you say old, I say mature), Asians respect their elders. They would certainly have NO problem outrunning me.

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Inside the shop - 90% of them are good, as its their job to be good and courteous for the $$$.
When they are outside of the shop and in a relationship with you where they are not getting paid $$$ for their time, its a totally different story.
The ML I mentioned in my previous comment had plenty of reviews on this forum saying how great of a person she was.

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Originally Posted by Mr.Robot

Does she know you still punt?

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tbh I don't really. I'm on all the wechats, and lurk here but looking is really all I do.

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Originally Posted by Misohappy

Yep for sure. I know one Viet ML who got pregnant and used the opportunity to extract money off multiple guys and claiming they were the fathers.
Funny thing was, while she was pregnant, she was playing victim and still getting with couple new guys (not the fathers) - one was dumb enough to give her 40-50k 😅 and she blocked him not long after 🤣.

Moral of story - never trust a WL/ML. I would say 90% have basically sold their soul.

It just never ends well.

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A working girl's job is to extract money from the customer. How she gets the job done doesn't really matter. Sex, cuddling, sob story to get a "loan", etc. Maybe you get turned on by sob stories, who knows.

And you gotta understand how they think. If you're a customer who has now paid a lot more than you'll ever pay even if you were the most loyal customer going to see her daily, that's the end of the game for you. You don't get rewarded for loyalty, you get blocked because she's already extracted maximum benefit from you.

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Originally Posted by Misohappy

Inside the shop - 90% of them are good, as its their job to be good and courteous for the $$$.
When they are outside of the shop and in a relationship with you where they are not getting paid $$$ for their time, its a totally different story.
The ML I mentioned in my previous comment had plenty of reviews on this forum saying how great of a person she was.

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Point taken.

One thing when it's day-to-day, but another when it's "end of life". I was thinking of the expat BFL's that would condo sit for me while I was traveling, the longest a month when I was 1/2 a world away. When I returned, the only thing missing was dust. Never bothered to record their passport details... they could easily have disappeared. Or the expat BFL's who used my guest room for a week or two while they were waiting to go home, having not renewed their apt leases. Never bothered with a suitcase inspection when they headed to the airport. Yes, they got free room, I got home cooked (from scratch) dinners. Mutually beneficial.

AND this off-shore, where simple unmarried co-habitation was illegal, to say nothing about P4P. So any LE involvement, that's DOUBLE trouble...

Lastly, I certainly don't condone the ML's actions, but... I also understand it's not like she could run down to CentreLink and apply for benefits either... So I don't see it as "an opportunity to extract money", more of a "considering the future..."

Bottom line: as I said, their "population" equal to the general population...

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On further consideration, I don't know how she got pregnant. OK, I DO KNOW how she got pregnant, but not the FULL details. Gold-digger looking to entrap someone, or naive and believing "we have a future, no need for a condom..." until the rabbit died. There's a reason providers come to OZ for "work", and returning home with a "mixed" package not exactly the bonus one would be looking for, especially in the Asian "not my blood" culture.

So those raw-doggies, are you going to be willing to submit to a paternity test freely without a paternity suit, or... looking to duck and run...

I wouldn't contribute, but I also wouldn't be throwing stones either...