A guy who would try to leverage his status as a 'reviewer' to a girl or shop is the punting equivalent of those obnoxious narcissist moles who think they should be allowed to eat in restaurants and stay free at hotels in exchange for "exposure" to their followers. In other words, they are beyond reprehensible and are the kind of douchebags I would gladly leave inside a burning house to save a pig...
So the short answer is no.
Shops get to know who you are obviously, they may pass that info on to the girls, nothing you can do about that, but really no need to be telling the girls you write reviews on forums etc. Reviews help shops, but from what I've been told can be a real burden for girls, especially when every second bloke walks in expecting service like they read about in a partially or wholly made up review..
And I tend to agree with nejums, without knowing what actually goes on in here it doesn't paint you in a good light...