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Colour me intrigued, DP and head of maths former ML? She sounds exactly like the kind of woman who would pique my interest. I have a thing for cute brainiacs. Former Selective School girls in particular.Quote:
Originally Posted by priapus1966
I do agree what I miss about those regulars was the ease of communication, the laughs, the fact that at a certain point there was no need to ask anything, it was just natural...
Good banter, conversations and some form of attraction but the key factor for me is sexual compatibility, nothing better than having that good reciprocal sex all for pleasure, you know you leave a happy man.
Connection, attraction and sexual connection.. (All for an agreed value)..
Otherwise, go and find a girlfriend.. (Naa.. punting is just so much simpler.). wish I punted when I was in my twenties instead trying so hard at bars and clubs on the weekends.
Truth be told, I actually think it is quite hard to find MLs or WLs that ticks all the boxes to become a regular esp as we become more picky.. I know I have.
I think I agree, I have not found one that’s ticked all the boxes yetQuote:
Originally Posted by Rooster18
I've been trying to find the second regular for months without luck.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rooster18
I'm not looking for a gorgeous one or one with killer figure. I'm just looking for someone who likes me and offers her body to me generously like my first regular ML.
It would look like a waste of time, money and energy. But without venturing we never know.
She kisses me on the lips
This is spot on asiafever. Build rapport with the shop Management and you'll get well looked after by all the girls you see there cause the Management will tell the girls to look after you. The fall back girl is a good option when you want to go with a girl and you know what your going to get.Quote:
Originally Posted by asiafever
I would think this is an act unfortunately. Few ml call me their boyfriend and best bf ever etc which made me uncomfortable cause i know its full of crap. I wonder do they like to hear "OMG you best fuck better then wife and girlfriend"Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonus
Hence why we have few regulars for different occasions. If we happen to find one ML/WL that ticks all the boxes then it would be trouble cause if they happen to disappear,leave or get attach its gonna be hard to fill that void.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rooster18
This is true, i had few girls telling me this however not all girls share the same view as management. There was this girl i was seeing regularly and i came in out of the blue and she told me how glad i came to see her cause it saves her from seeing some other punter management told her to see and she doesn't like that punter. Unfortunately girls can say no to management?Quote:
Originally Posted by HardCore
I enjoy the look of her ass when I’m pounding her doggy. Just the right amount to hang on to
Interesting post if you went to a boyfriend/girlfriend situation what would be your expectations.as I am in that situation but still pay for the service
Leave bro, if she going to charge you for sex then fuck Her off, all I can say is that if you get extra perks by being with her in her bed and still have to pay then enjoy it but you should be playing your own game and not hers - do things like if she wants to see you then you see her at time of your convience, don't always be too available for her, if your hanging out and want to leave because you got somewhere to be but she wants to have sex with you and you still gotta pay then walk out, see other ML etc. There is no point in classing this a GF/BF because she is in a win win situation, she still gets money from you but also gets the boyfriend experience/validation because she is lonely and you get Jack shit apart from a extra perk. If she has a whinge about it then shut her down and remind her that is not how BG/GF works. She leaves and doesn't contact you well then move on because you dodged a bullet compared to the ones who will fight for you as they actually like you and you may get somewhere better with herQuote:
Originally Posted by Rhonus
Just play her along for your own advantages and see what else she can do for you whilst she's with you, as soon as you leave her place then you do you
Thanks for the good advice unfortunately I’m in my 60s and I’ve foolishly given her a lot of money on loan, hoping to get it back,so I can’t really walk way at the moment,probably won’t get it back but have to tryAs far I can tell the only extra I get is going straight to no 3 and kissing always calls me her boyfriend had booking with her the other day made me wait an xtra 30 min while she finished some other guy off when she knew I had limited time I give her $200 most of the time plus the shop fee pretty dumb hey she expects this every time not sure what other guys are paying her for the same service
Just to add to my previous post she never invites me to her place I’m pretty sure my age is an issue except when comes to handing over money she’s not that young probably 30s to 40s but has got me by the short and curlies and no’s it
Move on from her, she's sounds like many of the girls who are head fucks and she's not worth it. At the end of the day who looks after who? - yourself. She knows exactly what she is doing and is making the most of it. So what if she kisses you and calls you boyfriend we both know it's bullshit, I even give it back to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonus
When I was in my early twenties a milf escort gave me advice which I use to this day if I was to get involved with any girl working or not, "never be too available for a girl and never be too much of a nice guy to her as they learn to take advantage of that, sometimes you have to be a dick to them".
Whether you gave her money or spend money on her, it's money still lost. Should make it easier to walk away from her
It can never be a bf/gf relationship if you're paying for sex and you've never stepped foot in her place. If she only wants to see you at the shop and nowhere else then it's all business for her. If you've given money to help her out in the hope she'll return it then it's more likely the 'loan' will never be returned.
Mate - the money is gone and this seems deeply unhealthy for you. Please, there are amazing sweet girls out there who would never do this. It may seem harsh but hunt around and find another couple of MLs and build some mutual respect. As soon as you realise another ML can make you feel this good or better, you’ll feel better about yourself and get a better perspective.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonus
Thanks guys for all the advice pity I hadn't gotten on to this forum a long time ago I wouldn't be in this situation now unfortunately I did tell this girl I had fallen for her not the best move.
Rhonus, the boys above are giving you good advice here.
My own two cents as an unengaged bystander is that your lady is hard. Too hard for a BF/GF situation. She has stone for a heart if she can take big money from you and then still charge in the shop, make you wait while she services some other bloke and generally be a bit of a cow. Do you really want that bullshit in your life?
People like this will just suck you dry. The sad truth is that your loan is gone. She's a great actress, not a great GF. Try this; on your next visit, tell her an investment of yours has taken a hit and can she work off your loan by taking care of you in the shop for free. Words to that effect. If that pisses her off in some form then you know what she is: a gold digger who has zero feelings for you. We on the forum already know what she is, but you need to prove it for yourself so you can take the decisive next step.
Take a deep breath, and walk away. You've just done a very expensive Harvard degree in women.
The good news is that are literally dozens of milfs in suburban shops who will enjoy your company and give you a good rogering. Explore the shops in your surrounding area. That will rebuild your spirits a little. You could also bang a couple of the young Thai hotties in some of the great shops mentioned here in. That will definitely raise your spirits too. But a lively suburban milf at your age is probably the real long term answer.
Thanks for the advice I’ll find walking away hard to do but in the long run I no it’s the only answer she’s Chinese and knows the right things to say to me we do have great sex but then that’s what you pay for I don’t think me leaving her would have much impact on her life as she works 7 days a week no time for boyfriends money money money,,,,,,,
Chinese... They always come up with the same excuses - no time for boyfriend, I need to be greedy and suck all the money I can in the world.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhonus
For Chinese people, face is more important than relationship. Some Chinese WLs showed me the items they're shopping around - $10k Cartier bangles. And I just told them what if someone comes up to you and says that Cartier is fake? Of course she gets the shits right after.
Why do you want to make an ML/WL your girlfriend? Are you aiming for a relationship where you'll have kids together or are you just wanting to get a girlfriend to cope with loneliness?
Any girl you date, sex worker or not, will always make you feel lonely 5 days a week at least. She is not there as your sex toy. You need to learn how to live a lonely life unattached to people. To be honest in my previous marriage there were times I didn't even want to be with my ex-wife or sleep with her. When she went back to her home country for 2 weeks it was almost like heaven to me as I can see other girls without creating any suspicions.
In my current relationship I made sure that my partner accepted my proposals. When I asked her to be my GF she said yes, when I proposed to her to be my fiancee she also said yes. Because before I met her I had an ML ex who made our relationship vague, wanted me to buy a $2mil apartment in Darling Harbour for us to live together yet rejected my marriage proposal. I left and never saw her again. You can't have vague relationships, it must be clear between both parties what is the goal of the relationship and if any open relationship arrangements (seeing other people while in the relationship) can happen without it being kept a secret.
I'm currently in an open relationship but I had made a promise to the partner that I proposed that once we get married I will stop seeing other girls. We agreed on having kids, and that I will focus on them both. And she didn't protest against me going to brothels since she knows it's purely just for the sex.
Not saying you should also be in an open relationship but you need to make your relationship goals clear and be okay with only getting intimate one or twice a week at most. And don't fall for bitches who make your relationship with her sound vague.