Originally Posted by
secret0
Hi Jack,
Sorry, I get that you feel defensive about the girls, and to be honest, I would feel the same way too (reading your post about reception/girls telling you about that customer being violent made me angry and made me feel empathetic for and defensive of the girls too, even if I haven't even met them yet). But I still feel the service she provided warranted the score I gave.
It wasn't just the website I went off. Despite knowing the last day variation, and her status as 'inexperienced', for the week before, I've been reading all the reviews for the Ginza girls (and I read all your posts multiple times), and those reviews also factored into making the booking. While the website says "inexperienced", the punters (including yourself) say she is 'service oriented' and provide service way above all the other J girls. I get there's no universal punter's definition of 'inexperienced', but if everyone (including yourself) is saying she provides some level of service, and I receive service that doesn't match (or come close), should I not be saying I didn't receive that level of service? And is that the same with other girls who are labelled 'inexperienced' but have reviews dating back over a year?
Yes, I did put in that I was tired, and while that did factor a lot into it, I would be complaining too if I wasn't tired and she provided the same service she did that day. And even in my state, I felt like I was doing most of the work to make it enjoyable for the both of us.
Yes, I took the gamble knowing it was her last day, but should I (and others) not say anything if it feels like a girl is phoning it in on her last day? As customers, should we all just spend money on substandard service and just take it on the chin?
Yes, I'm learning all this as someone completely new, so sorry I don't know absolutely everything right from the start (even with all the reading I've done of everyone else's completely differing experiences), and definitely YMMV factors in a lot. I think she is a sweet girl, and genuinely wish her the best, but as a customer, I don't think I received a good level of service, based on the expectations set by others and regardless of my own state at the time.
I swear, I'm not trying to attack you (and definitely not her), nor am I trying to start an argument (I know all the above might seem like it, but I'm really asking those in good faith), but I have detailed all the mitigating factors and titled my post as unfortunate events for a reason, a lot of things contributed to what happened, but despite all that, if you remove it all - hell, remove me from that - if some other punter received the same level of service, they would be complaining too.
Anyway, I do hope to return with better news from my next punt, and look forward to more of your reviews.
