"WL's request to decline visits"

Respect her wishes. But i would keep going to the shop and bang some of the other WL.

I think you have creeped her out. You might be giving her stalker vibes. Usually these girls like regulars. Easy money and they know what to expect. But sometimes the regulars become a bit to 'regular' I woundn't go back. She definitely has the ick and you won't be able to get back to equilibrium. This is the punting equivalent of being friendzoned. Just move on.

I'd say don't see her again, but I have a feeling that you probably will try to.

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

Didn’t even know this was even a thing! Yeh I would just find another, fuck it and move to the next.

I seen a previous WL before like everyday as she was only here for short time. And she loved it. But this never happened to me, where she tells you to stop coming lol

I guess it depends how handsome the guy is as well. OP must've done something that gave her the "ick".

But remember, a guy is only creepy if the girl doesn't find him attractive.

Don't see her anymore. See someone else at the shop.
Unless what she's saying is the truth, you have ulterior motive. By seeing someone else shows she's just a thing and you're looking for satisfaction.
I do it all the time when a regular ask me do I see someone else at the shop. I tell her the truth, when she's not available i see someone else.

This is classic stalking. And as in most cases the stalker can't see that.

Shop and girl’s name? Thanks 😉

Move on.

Disregarding how you may actually feel, she thinks you're falling for her, and she's not down for that.

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Originally Posted by Mybadwilly22

Alright, Zigman, I’m feelin’ like rappin’ this response Eminem - Stan style today, ‘cause mate, you’re about to write yourself into the next AUS99 thriller.


Dear Zig, I know you’re feelin’ big, thinkin’ you’re her guy,
But that “one last visit” vibe, mate? I think it’s time to say goodbye.
She’s out here saying you’re crossing a line,
And yet you’re in this thread like, “She’ll change her mind.”

Mate, it’s the start of a stalker show, can’t you see the signs?
She’s sayin’ “don’t come back” — that’s clear as daylight shines.
All the brothers here telling you it’s time to move on,
Before your “one last chat” becomes your court-ordered bond.

Look, Spectra and cumquat already broke it down real clean,
You’re caught up in a fantasy, know what I mean?
Think she’s “playing hard to get”? Nah, son, she’s uneasy,
You’re sittin’ here stewin’ when she’s askin’ you nicely.

In Stan, it starts with letters and ends in disaster,
But here you’ve got brothers saying “move on faster.”
So why double down, mate? Just walk away,
Before your name and “creepy” get linked in the same day.

11Bravo nailed it, he’s droppin’ truth bombs right here,
She doesn’t want you back, and it’s crystal clear.
And, like Stan, if you don’t take the hint,
You’ll go from “just a punter” to full-on nightmare stint.

So please, mate, take a step back and think,
It’s one shop in the city, just one lady in the sink.
Heaps more fish in the sea, so drop this “one last goodbye,”
Before “just one visit” ends up in a jail cell nearby.

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Haha this is the best post on this thread. Even had me visualising Eminem in battle mode laying this down for the crowd. :cool2:

https://tenor.com/view/eminem-ciciri...a-gif-24132633

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Originally Posted by Zigman

Part of me thinks I shouldn’t go there if she’s uncomfortable, but at the same time, I feel frustrated. After thinking it over, I told her that I would visit once more to share my thoughts with her, though I haven’t decided yet.

What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

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She's told you in no uncertain terms you make her uncomfortable and she doesn't want you to try and see her or visit the shop ever again.

What would I do? Respect her wishes and never try to see her again or visit the shop.

Don't try to come up with reasons or excuses otherwise. Don't be that fucking guy.

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Originally Posted by Zigman

I have a favourite WL and have visited her a few times.
A few days ago, she asked me if I had ever come to the shop and then left without meeting her. Recently, I found it a bit challenging to make an appointment by phone, so I visited the shop when I had some time. However, when I saw that she seemed busy, I simply decided to leave. I explained the situation to her. She thought for a moment and then told me that it might be best for me to stop looking for her. When I asked why, she replied that it could be a misunderstanding on her part, but she felt that I might think of her in a special way, which had started to make her uncomfortable..................................


What would you all do in my situation? I would appreciate any advice.

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Oh btw OP, do this woman a favour and leave her alone. Your actions in that paragraph above were pre-emptive and not the actions of a real man. Take the hint you've been given and stay away.

Always trust women's intuition.

If she sense something uncomfortable, intimidating or even dangerous, she's probably right.

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Originally Posted by PussyBonpensiero

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

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Obviously not if shes feeling uncomfortable.
Maybe ghe guy has a resting stalker face who knows. But if she doesn't want to see him anymore. Best to move on and pay someone else.
Plenty of pussy around.

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Originally Posted by Choi

I am writing this after much thought because I think the WL you are talking about is me. You said you would visit me one more time to let me know your decision, but I don't want to see you anymore. I will tell you because you do not seem to understand. The service I provide to my clients includes my smiling face. However, I can no longer provide you with my smiling face. You never took your eyes off me for even a 1second while you were with me.You may ask why that is a problem, but the look in your eyes when you look at me is a problem for me. I have a strong feeling that you are not meeting me to enjoy your time with me, but that you expect something else from me. All my actions started to become awkward in front of you, and that is why I do not want to see you anymore.
But I know you are a really nice person (naive person), so I suggested that maybe you stop visiting the shop. You said that this experience was your first. If that is true, you may have a bad experience somewhere else, so I suggested it. I also don't think I will be a good memory for you, but this is the best I can do for you. I hope you will enjoy a healthy and happy life, and I hope you will accept my request. I also hope that you will accept my other wish that I do not want to see you posting about me on this forum anymore.

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Holy moly, wtf is this thread? Are OP and this poster real, or just a troll? In the case that this is all true, OP I think the girl is just testing your resolve and seeing how far you're willing to go to prove your love to her. If I were you, I'd step it up a notch and perhaps organise something with the mamasan before your next visit to make it extra special. I've dealt with these types of girls before and I know that persistence pays off. Go get it champ!

Id be to embarrassed to see her again. Restore your manhood n see another in the shop.

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Originally Posted by PussyBonpensiero

What if he looks like Channing Tatum?

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Nah he doesn't. if he did, she would be asking him to keep coming back. Or even give it to him for free outside the shop.

OP is probably middle aged, fat and bald or balding. Probably Chinese or Caucasian. But most likely Chinese.

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Originally Posted by keebab

If you keep visiting you'll make it awkward and her uncomfortable. Its not to say you've done anything wrong. She's just changed her mind.

I would recommend finding another shop and getting under a new WL to empty your balls ASAP. You'll feel better.

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This is actually the best tactic, nothing better to move you on by emptying your balls.

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Originally Posted by Candy1234

Shop and girl’s name? Thanks 😉

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U can deduct it easily, go to his page and see what the only girl and shop he interacts with