Don't shit where you eat
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No this hobby did not change how I see women. For the sex workers is just a job. When they wake up in the morning they are not excited about going to a brothel and fucking several strangers. I don’t make a connection between sex workers and those who do other jobs. It is just an occupation to make money. Objectivity folks.
Yeah, me neither. It's a very clear demarcation for me and I, as a natural course, don't entertain the thought of connecting an attractive woman in general life/occupations with possibly being a WL.Quote:
Originally Posted by ditchtheboss
It's probably semantics but I also don't connect my punting with being a hobby, but more an activity I undertake to fill voids in my life. I enjoy it and don't regret it but being a hobby seems to normalize it more than it deserves. Just my thinking, not a criticism.
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Originally Posted by Hiptohip
Only ask out a girl at work if you are very handsome and attractive.Quote:
Originally Posted by keebab
If you are ugly or just average looking, expect a call from HR the next day for sexual harassment and you can kiss your job goodbye.
I'm in a little bit of a dilemma myself RE: a co-worker.
Work trip a couple of months back to Tokyo for a whole department conference, beautiful Japanese internal workplace coordinator, get chatting with her during the breaks, we end up going for Ramen & Sake together on my last evening in town, communication details exchanged (Line), can't stop thinking about her (very smitten). Sad that it's very difficult to pursue things further, cultural differences and 10hr flight between us, etc, but also glad at the same time looking at the bigger picture. You definitely have to think logically (with the big brain and not the small one).
Back on topic - same for me, punting with MLs/WLs doesn't change I see women in the real world.
Never mix pleasure with business and work. and work place relationship and/or affairs will never end well - with the only exception that you two dated and eventually get married. But then again, many companies have policies, in which married couple will not be employed together, so one of you has to resign or something like that.
Just have a think about it, if the relationship/affairs ends and you are still workmates, it will be very complicated especially when one of you move on to another person at work, it could turn into a real life Dangerous Liaisons no less.
Not worth it. if you get the hots for someone at work, just go out to have a fuck and let go the tensions and frustrations and had a beer and play some pokies and life will go on.
Cheers
I second what has been said already. The only time that a professional relationship is acceptable if not welcomed is between a WL and a punter. That’s the only business transaction where sex should be involved. Any other will not end up well. Words chosen deliberatelyQuote:
Originally Posted by MDPorto
Tbh this hobby makes non wl relationships feel good knowing for the time it’s all yours, no bs faking etc and don’t have to feel bad if you wear them out too much.
Co-workers that you have to directly work with especially if they report to you should be kept off limits. Inter department is ok though if she’s in to you too I’d say go for it.
If it happened outside of work hours, the cunt could sue for unfair dismissal.Quote:
Originally Posted by ChadThunderrcock
If it happened during work hours in the office toilet or storeroom, both will get the arse on the spot.
Anything in between lands you with written warnings, disciplinary action, a ton of paperwork, and never ending office gossip
I’ve had affairs with women I work with and one I’d pump up to six times a day whilst at work. Never got any work done … had a few dramas, the worse was when one threw coffee over me and chased me around the office because she found out I wasn’t loyal.
I’ve never been loyal.
Why be loyal? Some don’t need to be loyal or want to be loyal. I see loyalty as a crutch. If you’re insecure then sure, be loyal.
So I re-crossed paths with this hot married blonde piece last week and asked for and got two cuddles after I told her “I like you”. That was all I sad. Whilst cuddling the second time I unthinkingly slapped her firm arse and she told me to “call her”. Last time we met she kissed me on the lips and I thought this is strange why not the cheek as a parting gesture?
Thinking about it now she has a supposedly stable marriage and I wonder if she’s seeking sex only? I’m a player but her husband is weak and I know it’d break him if he ever found out. I wonder what she wants besides sex?
Last night another married women looked at the bulge in my pants and then back at me. She was at dinner with her husband. I turned up and she blatantly looked. You know when they look and it’s something that happens a lot. Even guys hit me up, in the last two days it was two lots of comments about my eyes both from guys. Admittedly I said “nice nails” to this one guy who had them done but that was it.
Maybe there’s a lotta desperate people out there?
Once you get yourself “up to speed” things just happen naturally. No need to chase as opportunity always presents itself. Like these sex workers I date, you guys think I talk shit about how many I pick up but if you’re “the catch of the day” then it’s very easy.
Bro, it’s time to stop flexing and start focusing on managing the chicks in your rotation.Quote:
Originally Posted by justincase
BossMack Topsoil has a great lecture on the subject. It's a pity that most blokes can't manage one chick let alone several (and simultaneously).