Just thinking out loud

Lovely. :cool2:

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Originally Posted by samdv

Just want so see some opinion and your thoughts. By no means I want to start any sort of disrespectful arguments, but it most of the times it seems to go that way with some punters anyway.

Ok, lately it seems like a few members in here keeps mentioning names of MLs in public forum and some of us agree that its a big NO NO. Even though it has been mentioned millions of times but it doesn't seem to get in their head - may be they think they are "cool" or whatever.

Who in here thinks that we need a new forum or may be a different section within this forum but only the respectful, sensible and experienced punters are allowed?-- and long time users of this forum already know who they are -- BW, BS etc etc... i know this will be hard to control but may be access by invitation only?. Its just a thought, I know it probably isn't possible but i was thinking that way we can just be comfortable discussing our regulars "hidden gems" and be assured that chances of their names being revealed in public forum will be minimized.

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As long as no ML's mention my name:miao:

I think someone's forgetting why it's not cool to mention names or too many details here because this is a "public forum". Who exactly do you want to exclude? Find a new forum or make some forum as private as you can and I'm sure you can exclude the majority of the readers of this forum but you wouldn't exclude any QLD law enforcement or skilled hackers, not that it matters. You shouldn't think you can share secrets online unless you want others to find out.

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Originally Posted by peter42

I think someone's forgetting why it's not cool to mention names or too many details here because this is a "public forum".

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As one of the people who's post prompted this thread, I would like to ask about this. I totally understand the point about posting inappropriate details, and have reviewed and edited my posts where I felt appropriate. But is posting names a real problem? Some of the girls I see and mention are purely rub and good conversation or I am only commenting on their appearance or personality. Sorry for the noob question, just trying not to rock the boat.

My thoughts exactly ecchi.gaijin
I would be very surprised if any of the MLs were operating under their real names

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Originally Posted by heatseeker

My thoughts exactly ecchi.gaijin
I would be very surprised if any of the MLs were operating under their real names

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Maybe 5% are operating under their real English names which do not change even when they move shops. Some use the same names as their wechat / kakaotalk online ID

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Originally Posted by brownwallaby

Maybe 5% are operating under their real English names which do not change even when they move shops. Some use the same names as their wechat / kakaotalk online ID

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yeah, its like wrestlers or some movie stars - we know them by their stage name and not the real name :) .

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Originally Posted by ecchi.gaijin

As one of the people who's post prompted this thread, I would like to ask about this. I totally understand the point about posting inappropriate details, and have reviewed and edited my posts where I felt appropriate. But is posting names a real problem? Some of the girls I see and mention are purely rub and good conversation or I am only commenting on their appearance or personality. Sorry for the noob question, just trying not to rock the boat.

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I think the problem is that just because you get one type of service, the girl may not give the same service to everyone. If, for example you had a great massage with a certain ML, receiving all kinds of extra's, then write a review and name her, then the poor girl will be inundated with customers expecting the exact same, or more from her when she might only give this to select customers. There are a lot of sleaze bags out there that would be extremely rude, or worse towards a girls if they did not receive the same service. My guess is it's generally going to be the one's that read the threads but don't post. It's these and the non members and lurkers (not all but a small minority) that would be the biggest issue for the girls. I think the best thing to do would be to keep things relatively vague in reviews, and if you must name names, maybe ask the girl in question first. Or if you do recommend a girl by name, then don't give specific details of what's on offer. Keep this to PM's for members you trust. :)

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Originally Posted by popeye96

I think the problem is that just because you get one type of service, the girl may not give the same service to everyone. If, for example you had a great massage with a certain ML, receiving all kinds of extra's, then write a review and name her, then the poor girl will be inundated with customers expecting the exact same, or more from her when she might only give this to select customers. There are a lot of sleaze bags out there that would be extremely rude, or worse towards a girls if they did not receive the same service. My guess is it's generally going to be the one's that read the threads but don't post. It's these and the non members and lurkers (not all but a small minority) that would be the biggest issue for the girls. I think the best thing to do would be to keep things relatively vague in reviews, and if you must name names, maybe ask the girl in question first. Or if you do recommend a girl by name, then don't give specific details of what's on offer. Keep this to PM's for members you trust. :)

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Agree..Wish there was a "like" button here.

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Originally Posted by popeye96

I think the problem is that just because you get one type of service, the girl may not give the same service to everyone. If, for example you had a great massage with a certain ML, receiving all kinds of extra's, then write a review and name her, then the poor girl will be inundated with customers expecting the exact same, or more from her when she might only give this to select customers. There are a lot of sleaze bags out there that would be extremely rude, or worse towards a girls if they did not receive the same service. My guess is it's generally going to be the one's that read the threads but don't post. It's these and the non members and lurkers (not all but a small minority) that would be the biggest issue for the girls. I think the best thing to do would be to keep things relatively vague in reviews, and if you must name names, maybe ask the girl in question first. Or if you do recommend a girl by name, then don't give specific details of what's on offer. Keep this to PM's for members you trust. :)

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Hi Popeye, As I said I understand the importance of omitting inappropriate details. I was asking what the problem was of merely naming a girl in any context as it was mentioned earlier than this was a no no

"it's not cool to mention names "

Some of the girls explained to me how they determine whether a particular customer is worthy of special treatment or not. Surprisingly it has little to do with how the customer looks or how thick his wallet is. At least that's what they said

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Originally Posted by brownwallaby

Some of the girls explained to me how they determine whether a particular customer is worthy of special treatment or not. Surprisingly it has little to do with how the customer looks or how thick his wallet is. At least that's what they said

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So you mean that me saying "suck it now bitch" might be where I am going wrong? :cry:

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Originally Posted by brownwallaby

Some of the girls explained to me how they determine whether a particular customer is worthy of special treatment or not. Surprisingly it has little to do with how the customer looks or how thick his wallet is. At least that's what they said

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In other word:
If you are not as flamboyant and sincere as me (from inside!), you stand no chance mate.

ecchi.gaijin, all jokes aside, disrespect to a lady isn't a good look
We put every lady on a pedestal
As James Brown famously sang:
"Its a Mans World, but It would Be Nothing Without A Woman"
Amen brother

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Originally Posted by ecchi.gaijin

Hi Popeye, As I said I understand the importance of omitting inappropriate details. I was asking what the problem was of merely naming a girl in any context as it was mentioned earlier than this was a no no

"it's not cool to mention names "

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There is no problem at all in naming girls in some context. eg. I saw such and such at xyz today. She is a great girl and gave excellent service. This is probably ok. But if you say I saw such and such today and she gave amazing service, She got naked and even let me have full service with her. This is not appropriate as she obviously does not want the entire world to know. I think we all need to just used some common sense when we do and don't name the individual girls. No problem, IMO making a recommendation to someone of a girl, without going into details of any illegal activity that might get the girl into trouble.

I never mention MLs by name. The exception being in pm. I think youd have to be a dickhead to mention their names. While everyone knows their names are made up, the name means something in the industry, by the thousands that read this forum, other mls, they can be indentified. If you are one of the dickheads who thinks it no big deal, then stop being a cowardly hypocrite and post your real first name and place of business here. If ur out of work, post your address. Thst shouldnt be hard, I mean, Its not a big deal right ?

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Originally Posted by brownwallaby

Some of the girls explained to me how they determine whether a particular customer is worthy of special treatment or not. Surprisingly it has little to do with how the customer looks or how thick his wallet is. At least that's what they said

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Yeah, especially my regular that you recommended. She told me that I was special, and that's even before meeting face to face.

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Originally Posted by tikogoh

Yeah, especially my regular that you recommended. She told me that I was special, and that's even before meeting face to face.

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Unfortunately she doesn't think that way about me :(

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Originally Posted by gpeck80

I never mention MLs by name. The exception being in pm. I think youd have to be a dickhead to mention their names. While everyone knows their names are made up, the name means something in the industry, by the thousands that read this forum, other mls, they can be indentified. If you are one of the dickheads who thinks it no big deal, then stop being a cowardly hypocrite and post your real first name and place of business here. If ur out of work, post your address. Thst shouldnt be hard, I mean, Its not a big deal right ?

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Hi, I'm Bill from Yourafuckingmoron in West End. If you are not saying anything inappropriate what is the problem with them being identified? eg I saw Jill the other night, really nice girl with a great body. OMFG soemone in the industry now knows that Jill is NICE?!?!?!?!?!

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Originally Posted by ecchi.gaijin

Hi, I'm Bill from Yourafuckingmoron in West End. If you are not saying anything inappropriate what is the problem with them being identified? eg I saw Jill the other night, really nice girl with a great body. OMFG soemone in the industry now knows that Jill is NICE?!?!?!?!?!

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haha this is funny. I guess you both have a point. ecchi.gaijin, i guess like popeye mentioned earlier - it is OK to post names in our example but may be ask "Jill" first. I know an ML who got fired from a shop after her name got posted in here. All that was mentioned was she gives good service. This is how the story went: Lets call her "Berry". Brothers started to book Berry and she got busy one week. One day while one brother was waiting for Berry in the waiting room got questioned by a different ML if he had Berry before, punter said no but he heard Berry is good and got mentioned in the forum. This ML was apparently a jealous type and reported Berry to her manager with other made up comments and then she got fired.

This is what i was told by "Berry" so the story might not be entirely true but the point is, it is somehow related to her name getting mentioned here (atleast thats what i was told).. it could even be that she got caught having sex with a punter in the room...who knows ;)