Why doesn't my wife like having sex?

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Originally Posted by Dick_Stark

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

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Some possible reasons why she doesn't want sex........

She doesn’t feel attractive and sexy.
She doesn’t find you attractive and sexy.
She is unhappy with something completely unrelated to sex.
She is depressed.
She has a boyfriend, or she wants one.
She has a girlfriend, or she wants one.
She is selfish and doesn’t care about your needs.
She thinks you use her like a machine, doesn’t feel loved.
She has an untreated medical condition of some kind.
She thinks you don’t love really love her.
She doesn’t like or love you enough to have sex.
She wants some sexy clothes and you won’t buy them for her.
She wants you to buy many other things for her & unit/house.
She wants to feel like a slut and charge you money for sex.
She has a low libido or sex-drive, just not interested in sex.
She gets tired easily and doesn’t feel like sex when tired.
She doesn’t like her job.
She needs a change of some kind to freshen up her life.
She finds her life boring and without excitement.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another man at same time.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another girl at same time.

Cheers....

It sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you at this moment. You probably did something that makes her feel disgusted about you. All you have to do is try to win her back. Do good things to her for days after days for a month or so. I think you will get some progresses from that way :miao:

I personally think humans are monogamous, but only if they are lucky enough to meet a perfect partner, or if there is enough mutual respect they can compromise

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Originally Posted by TMC (free cage girl)

Oh! hehehe:cool2:

we sounds like a Sushi chef Sir^^ I never eat my product. because Mr Max will get angry to me, I only feed them:cool2:

I pick up fresh girl on the street, outside of my house is ocean, i drive my ship for catch fresh product.



i will have a your sushi very sooooooooon!!!!! can i ?:grimace:

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Yamady, pls leave Therapist and her training to me!!!

That's women in this world. You need to earn her respect and trust, as well keep her happy.
Sound simple but it's hard work lol

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Originally Posted by suka02

That's women in this world. You need to earn her respect and trust, as well keep her happy.
Sound simple but it's hard work lol

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Hello sir^^

i never lick woman pussy. if i have wife and she want to me to lick her pussy, i might slap:cool2:

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Originally Posted by Max Impact

Yamady, pls leave Therapist and her training to me!!!

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she is too innocent:cool2: if she does not change by your training. i might use my special tools for training sir:cool2:

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Originally Posted by harmony

I personally think humans are monogamous, but only if they are lucky enough to meet a perfect partner, or if there is enough mutual respect they can compromise

Book Amazon Matthew Fitzgerald
"I'll tell you how bad it is out there.
Every time I meet a woman, within five minutes she's dragging out a questionnaire, like I'm applying for a job just talking to her
Do you own a house, what kind of car do you have, things like that
All it is is, they're trying to find out how much money you have
So finally I got fed up with it and I said to one of them
"Let me see those boobs of yours to see if they're big enough for me'
She was shocked-she didn't get it. It's unbelievable
They're so used to hooking, and to thinking only of their own welfare, that they don't even realize how mercenary they are"

Unfair ?

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we dont need house and car. if who has penis, very lucky:cool2:

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Originally Posted by whoareyoumate

It sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you at this moment. You probably did something that makes her feel disgusted about you. All you have to do is try to win her back. Do good things to her for days after days for a month or so. I think you will get some progresses from that way :miao:

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I think, his wife give him sign, but he did not see it. :grimace:

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Originally Posted by SirLaughsAlot

Some possible reasons why she doesn't want sex........

She doesn’t feel attractive and sexy.
She doesn’t find you attractive and sexy.
She is unhappy with something completely unrelated to sex.
She is depressed.
She has a boyfriend, or she wants one.
She has a girlfriend, or she wants one.
She is selfish and doesn’t care about your needs.
She thinks you use her like a machine, doesn’t feel loved.
She has an untreated medical condition of some kind.
She thinks you don’t love really love her.
She doesn’t like or love you enough to have sex.
She wants some sexy clothes and you won’t buy them for her.
She wants you to buy many other things for her & unit/house.
She wants to feel like a slut and charge you money for sex.
She has a low libido or sex-drive, just not interested in sex.
She gets tired easily and doesn’t feel like sex when tired.
She doesn’t like her job.
She needs a change of some kind to freshen up her life.
She finds her life boring and without excitement.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another man at same time.
She likes you but wants to have sex with you and another girl at same time.

Cheers....

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i know the woman she is 60yo, but she fix boobs and face and most of parts of body. she became Sex machine now:cool2:

I dont know which woman is best option for partner,

1,sex machine
2.does not like sex

Gday mate,
just go have a few punts and try to enjoy them without the guilt, after you have a few roots you may or may not have sex with your wife, if you dont have sex with your wife at least you have had sex. You wont be so needy for it from her, you will be more relaxed with the issue, you wont be trying so hard to initiate a romantic interlude with her which may now be more of a problem for her than actually having sex with you. You may even find that she will initiate the encounter with you now that you are not so focused on it.

Maybe something will change on the home front? Maybe nothing will change?

But the one thing that will change is at least your getting laid.

Nb: I am not a psychologist nor have I been in a meaningful relationship with a woman for many a year.

But good luck and I hope whichever way it turns out you are being serviced by someone, for a man needs to be serviced.

Regards
OTB

This is a +1 to the argument that monogamy is not natural because women and men are so different biologically, particularly when it comes to sexuality.
Judging from the number of years some of the posters on this thread have been married, I would guess their wives would be around or well pass the 40 year-old mark. At that age, and with the sudden disinterest in sex, it is likely that they are going through menopause.
Menopause literally shuts down a woman's ability and the urge to reproduce. Look at the list of effects: painful intercourse, decreased libido, problems reaching orgasm. Why would a woman want to even lift a finger for sex with all those problems that come with menopause?

On the other hand, men don't have this problem. We don't get less horny when we reach forty... in fact i think we get even hornier. The old-man-fucking-a-young-girl fetish comes to mind. Plus, with the help of modern technology (looking at you, Viagra), we can literally keep fucking till the day we die.

I'll say, to those with problems in this thread, keep punting and try to be more supportive to your wife's problem, because it is not easy to go though menopause!

If you ask sex for wife, its very hard sometime, how about just ask wife for BBBJ? or maybe CBJ? or maybe HJ?

Oh! maybe tell your wife, you pretend became ED,and ask wife with serious face.

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Originally Posted by 5 Star City

Don't need to ask:cool2:

Best come TMC and 5*:grimace:

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That's my Method of Operation!!!

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Originally Posted by Dick_Stark

Hi all first poster long time lurker. After being married for 10 yrs my wife doesn't like having sex. I don't know if this a phase or she completely doesn't have the urge anymore. After numerous attempts at trying she always knocks me back. This is so frustrating because I want to have sex. I haven't punted in a while but I'm afraid I have to get back into the game to satisfy my sexual urges. Since winter is coming my dick always faces to the north. Thoughts? Comments? 2 cents?

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That's funny because she seems to enjoy my company most Wednesday afternoons :haha:

That is why I am very reluctant to get married again.When they lose interest in sex...what are we supposed to do...wank all our life thereafter! If we go to sex workers and the wives find out,we are in the shit and they make up pay(both $$ and emotionally) for the rest of our lives.
Without knowing the circumstances of the OP...I feel a lot of sympathy for you...and I do not wish to upset you...but maybe she is getting sex elsewhere or she is just sick of the routine with you.I have worked with plenty of middle -aged women who have told me that they are so bored of the sexual routine of their partners...they actually know what the men will do,when the men come and then without exception the men will go straight to sleep afterwards..Some actually predict the number of thrust by their man until he comes,and tell their equally not-interested-in-sex fellow middle aged female colleagues.

It's not your job to "please" your wife 24/7. If she doesn't want sex for a sustained period of time, then she's giving you a message.
If she is ill in some way, or unhappy about some other particular aspect of her life, which is impacting on her sex-drive, then you can
listen and respond. If that is not the case, then you now have the choice either to work around the situation (discretely) or grin and bear
the life of a five-finger shuffler.

I'd recommend 50:50 split between discrete punting and increased shuffling to address your needs. This is a sensible response to a situation
that could escalate and eventually impact on your well-being, if you do nothing. Your wife is not your keeper or boss, and should not be someone
who determines your behaviour in a rigid cause-effect manner. Think for yourself. But like I said, if she's unhappy about something or
unhealthy in some way, then you should try to help her out.

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Originally Posted by SirLaughsAlot

It's not your job to "please" your wife 24/7. If she doesn't want sex for a sustained period of time, then she's giving you a message.
If she is ill in some way, or unhappy about some other particular aspect of her life, which is impacting on her sex-drive, then you can
listen and respond. If that is not the case, then you now have the choice either to work around the situation (discretely) or grin and bear
the life of a five-finger shuffler.

I'd recommend 50:50 split between discrete punting and increased shuffling to address your needs. This is a sensible response to a situation
that could escalate and eventually impact on your well-being, if you do nothing. Your wife is not your keeper or boss, and should not be someone
who determines your behaviour in a rigid cause-effect manner. Think for yourself. But like I said, if she's unhappy about something or
unhealthy in some way, then you should try to help her out.

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you are good man. :cool2:

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Originally Posted by 5 Star City

Don't need to ask:cool2:

Best come TMC and 5*:grimace:

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I got russian girl last night. she came from gold coast. I asked many things to her. i cum in her mouth and i put my finger in her ass.:cool2:

i was drunk, i did not know what i wanted to her. final position was put finger in her ass+ BBBJ+CIM+choke her neck by one hand. hahaha :cool2:


I should try another chicks :slobber:

I'm sorry to hear your story. Your marriage sounds like there is no love or passion left at all. My advice is to divorce this woman and move on. For both of your sakes. You should also stop seeing prostitutes and try to form a normal healthy relationship with a regular girl. You can do this bro. You deserve to be happy!

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Originally Posted by Oneonone

Welcome to the club bro I had the same problem when my wife was about 40.

I told her I was not happy and wanted more sex.

She said she didn't, go and get it somewhere else, like a friend of hers whose husband did but he got caught (a brothel).

She told me just don't leave her or let her friends or the kids find out.

Must admit its still not as easy as it sounds particularly in the beginning well in my case I still wanted to be with my wife, didn't really want someone else.

If we wanted to be monks we would have joined a monastery wouldn't we.

Best to discuss it first though and try and get some agreement.

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