how many guys would hit on a girl who has a bf?

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Originally Posted by faruk

As a guy, this is pure bs made up to get her number, but she genuinely believed his story so gave her number. She told me this of course, so not trying to hide anything. I didn't tell her I thought the guy was a lying cunt, as I knew stuff like this could lead to arguments (eg. "omg you're so paranoid").

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I went through the EXACT same thing that you're going through right now when my girlfriend and I first started dating. And what I did was, I told her that every guy is a lying cunt and just wants to try pick her up. Surprisingly we didn't argue about it and she did end up believing me after having a long think about it.
If you want to tell her like I did, just tell her the truth, tell her she is a beautiful girl and the only reason guys want to talk to good looking girls is because they wanna see if they can get in.

She's not gullible. She has this cheating OP head stuck between her legs. Women are like men in
that they like to show off and have a trophy partner and make a statement.
You OP are no trophy and is like a stale old turd ready to be replaced by a fresh new one.

Plenty of single ladies out there. Always walked away if they have a boyfriend. Yes I lead a dull life. *smile*

Op might be vitamin's alt lol. Anyone would feel insecure with a popular chick like Xmas as well hahahahaha

Whenever I am in this situation I just enjoy the good times & let the relationship grow. The hotter she is the more men will hit on her, fact of life. If she wants to leave & isn't satisfied, so be it. If she is interested in other men, it is either now a stagnant relationship or she got bored of you/you became needy & weird. If she values the relationship she will hold her ground and tell men she is taken.

She should really be saying "she has a boyfriend." I would just tell her that if she isn't committed to the relationship & doesn't take it seriously then so be it. Move on, find another. Why waste your time chasing someone when there are women out there who will be into you?

The more I read this I can't shake the feeling that there are some insecurities.

Ppl saying she is better than the OP lols where is this coming from?

Just sounds like we are at surrender to "hot" women - that there is a need for an arm candy.
So socia value and inner game issues here
I can relate as I been there.

I think ppl have not also realised that males are free game too, we can easily go for other girls and that it is even playing field.

If ur relationship develops to a point where u don't have to think about this - then great!!

But for god sakes don't devalue urself (being insecure) about a girls roaming lol

As some posters have pointed out - they will stay or they will leave.

Prepare for both and you'll be right and also talk to her about it, ALSO if ur banging WLs then u don't have much moral ground to stand on if she is banging other ppl lols...

Tonight, remind your GF why she like you in the first place. Maybe you have charming personality, handsome or rich. Or even some combination.

Of course some guys hit on girls that are taken. They are playboys, but your GF could also be a playgirl and stirring the fellas on in some way......

My mate went thru the same deal. He's going out with a steaming chick from our uni, and she was a member of an International society before they hooked up
So she already has a lot of guy contacts, and obviously most of them want to get with her. Its only natural
He told me that all hot chicks will have at least a few other male options, if whats going on with you falls down
You have to be quality to retain quality. His lesson to me was you gotta keep your shit in order, have good job or good chance for good job

Women are looking for the successful guy who will support her, or the tall alfa guy with all muscles and no brains who can protect her
If you arent one of those too, good luck
In the animal kingdom, for example bears or lions or seals, there is usually one dominant male, who is constantly having to fight off rivals to the women

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That's why u have to make them put their pussy on the table or gfto ;)

Your insecurities make you sound very bitch-like, to be perfectly blunt.

Just saying she could have give a fake number....

Twice for me. Ended up in a really long session on both accounts.

Get a few more roots quickly before things go South

I can't see a real problem. If you are up there. She will still stick with you. She just like being "respected" by other guys.

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Originally Posted by faruk

1. she went to the shops with a friend one night and it started raining, some dude opened up his umbrella for them and walked them to the shop and asked for my gf's number. She genuinely is the type who can't say no, so she gave it but has ignored every message he sent, she has shown me to prove it.

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She might reply to him and then delete her replies so it looks like it is just all his messages.

Sounds like she is looking for options and isn't commited to you but doesn't want to end it with you until she has someone else lined up

why would she give out her real number?

A lot of guys would, but I wouldn't say even half, maybe around 30% guys wouldn't give a fuck, even that's too many lacking integrity and morals.

As for the OP, I wouldn't worry too much as my gf is kinda like that, but the key is to pay attention to any changes in her - is she spending less time with you, is she hiding her phone from you? Small things like that.

Also, everyone here seems to assume that a girl is interested if she gives out her number, but how many times have we gotten a girl's number only to be ignored or given short one word replies (which eventually leads to being ignored)?

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Originally Posted by suka02

why would she give out her real number?

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Exactly, just have a word with her and tell her not to give out her number or FB. Not sure why she can't say no, if I asked her for her credit card details would she tell me?

Also you don't really have much of a leg to stand on posting this on a punting forum lol.

Agreed, tell her your concern, what you do not like and the reason behind. If she still does that, then you know what to do next.

if I really want to have sex with a girl then I will go after her, no matter what. as long as her bf isn't a personal friend of mine then it's fair game.
there is something strangely satisfying about banging another dude's gf. life's too short for morals.
if it comes off then it just means their relationship wasn't that strong to begin with.