I broke the no.1 rule

If you want to meet a HAB go to Sunnybank regularly for a coffee and lunch and try to strike up a conversation ot two (although I am sure a lot of the local girls are wise to these tactics from Aussie guys who have a thing for Asian girls haha). I live on the Gold Coast and I went there a while ago out of curiosity as I'd never been there before and bloody hell there were some cuties walking around. Had a nice lunch at a place in the shopping centre near the cinemas and the girl serving me was lovely. If I lived closer I would be there all the time for the Asian food options and the girls of course.

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Originally Posted by Batting100

Jesus... what’s going on???? This is the most united I’ve ever seen this community

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New year, new attitudes.

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Originally Posted by Batting100

Jesus... what’s going on???? This is the most united I’ve ever seen this community

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we've all sworn to only accept BBBJs after signing the covid register with our real names and checking that the shop has an ABN. 2021 is the new normal.

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Originally Posted by LoveHer

we've all sworn to only accept BBBJs after signing the covid register with our real names and checking that the shop has an ABN. 2021 is the new normal.

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I signed in with one name and told the lovely girl another. Funny how when one head is getting worked over it affects the other!!!

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Originally Posted by merlin200

I fallen in love with a massage girl. I know i shouldn't. I need your help brothers she is the only one i go to because others girls cant compare for me. How do i get out the vicious cycle

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Follow scottysackedfrommarketing's advice. Also DO NOT reveal who you are to anyone on this site. Might be a jealous punter/boyfriend that wants to beat you op.

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Originally Posted by kamas

Once she has her permanent resident visa and meets someone with more money than you, are you sure she will stay with you?

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And most likely a man from her own country or that community.

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Originally Posted by LoveHer

having met the girl through the application of money to the relationship that changes the likelihood of success.

do you still pay to see her from time to time?

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Yep. Usually relationships end how they begin. If you stole your girl from another guy, she'll cheat on you eventually and move up. If it was financial at the start, you'll get divorce raped if youre dumb enough to marry her. If you were friends first, more likely the relationship will end on good terms. etc

in summary : it's not going to work.

in practice, isn't there a ex-massage girl and her partner running a cafe/takeaway place in Brisbane? I think the partner was a former regular customer who has taken her out of the massage biz.

Maybe think of it like this - what is the chances it may work ? Lets be really really optimistic - lets say 15%.
Now ask yourself if before hopping on a plane you knew it would land safely only 15% of the time would you hop on that plane. Fuck No. Now what are the alternatives - find another girl, keep punting and playing, etc etc
Re in practice "isn't there? " "I think" - there are always exceptions to the rule like the guy who smoked all his life and lived to 100.
or
So you started punting a while ago ..... are you never ever in your life going to punt ever again?
Love can be cruel, I have found guys are a lot more sensitive than women. Did you know in the Vietnam War they used to get the female Viet Cong to interrogate the prisoners as they were much more brutal.
But its your life, your money ........best of luck.
4FoW2

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in summary : it's not going to work.

in practice, isn't there a ex-massage girl and her partner running a cafe/takeaway place in Brisbane? I think the partner was a former regular customer who has taken her out of the massage biz.

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I can site at least 5 cases where the ex ml is living “happily ever after” with the ex punter. Its possible, but it takes something special to make it work. They each know what the other did with or for money

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I can site at least 5 cases where the ex ml is living “happily ever after” with the ex punter. Its possible, but it takes something special to make it work. They each know what the other did with or for money

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It just takes maturity... I know couples that are in open relationships and I know couples that got together when he was a customer and I even know a couple where he knews what she did (she left the biz a long time ago) and he was happy to have her go to work every day knowing her feelings were for him and not the mostly pieces of shit she sees everyday.

IMO, the biggest detractor in a relationship will be you as you will 100 percent punt again

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the mostly pieces of shit she sees everyday.

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that's a bit close to the bone. :)

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Originally Posted by Scotty from Marketing

It takes a special kind of man to love a woman knowing she has sex with other dudes or at least touches their dicks. At some stage there is an imbalance in the relationship.
If you have an ounce of jealousy, it won’t work. It’s an intimate environment.
Every case has it’s own set of circumstances and personalities involved though so all rules are meant to be broken.


If merlin is already at step3, he is doing better than 90% of punters.

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I disagree. I consider myself very prone to jealousy in relationships. But somehow the nature of my girlfriend's work, of which I respectfully compartmentalised as transactional did not affect me at all.

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I disagree. I consider myself very prone to jealousy in relationships. But somehow the nature of my girlfriend's work, of which I respectfully compartmentalised as transactional did not affect me at all.

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It takes a special kind of man to love a woman knowing she has sex with other dudes or at least touches their dicks. At some stage there is an imbalance in the relationship.
If you have an ounce of jealousy, it won’t work. It’s an intimate environment.
Every case has it’s own set of circumstances and personalities involved though so all rules are meant to be broken.

It works better when they stop working however.

If merlin is already at step3, he is doing better than 90% of punters.

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If you make it work, congratulations, you beat the odds.

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Originally Posted by zakthekat

If she doesn't feel the same..... quit your job, sell everything you own, move to another planet and try starting life again.

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Best advice ever!!

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Originally Posted by LoveHer

that's a bit close to the bone. :)

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Well.... Most of us have heard the stories..and the stories are often about dudes who seem ok so....

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Originally Posted by merlin200

I fallen in love with a massage girl. I know i shouldn't. I need your help brothers she is the only one i go to because others girls cant compare for me. How do i get out the vicious cycle

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Can you pm me pls?

[QUOTE=benyan;2114185]Can you pm me pls?[/QUOTE

Doesn't let me msg you

[QUOTE=merlin200;2114764]

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Can you pm me pls?[/QUOTE

Doesn't let me msg you

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New guy doesnt have 5 posts yet.

Ok thank goodness i thought it was problem with my account

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Ok thank goodness i thought it was problem with my account

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Is she Chinese?

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Originally Posted by merlin200

I fallen in love with a massage girl. I know i shouldn't. I need your help brothers she is the only one i go to because others girls cant compare for me. How do i get out the vicious cycle

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who? Francis from pure massage?

falling in love with these girls is hard thing to overcome, i have experienced the emotions first hand too. good luck hope it works out for you

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Originally Posted by Darkwolf

falling in love with these girls is hard thing to overcome, i have experienced the emotions first hand too. good luck hope it works out for you

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I too have been there and done that, and it is too much of a cycle tbh. Two words "emotional rollercoaster"

Has the OP said how the ml feels about him?