I sometimes have a wank beforehand so I can last longer ... everyone is different I guess... hang in there bro!
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I sometimes have a wank beforehand so I can last longer ... everyone is different I guess... hang in there bro!
Holding off for 2-4 days usually does the trick. Just try and maybe hold off longer if needed
Try this position. Get into missionary or doggy, tell her to close her thighs tight then pump.
She has to be wet in order to do this or she'll get friction burn on the thighs
@23 years of age... not being bais but just an educated guess... i could be wrong. If you happen to smoke weed or other recreational drugs before punting it will make you go soft. Or even getting drunk beforehand perhaps. I know I’ve did a lot of crazy shit which eventually lead to a need for some punting after a good time at that age.
Im only just assuming as we do not know the whole story. Could be a lot of factors at play.
Maybe see a different girl or punt without any substances if it has the same results.
You're not alone. Sometimes it takes forever, and then with the right ML/WL, you just cum too quickly. In the end, if you can have an erection, then how long you take to cum is mostly a state of your mental mind. If you are super excited and eager, you cum super fast. If you are not clicking with the ML/WL, then it takes forever or never.
A day after a big drinking session can cause ejaculation problems. I drink a lot & it’s only happened to me once at 227 Broadway I just couldn’t cum.
1st punt for a while today, nearly two months. Ended up jerking myself off to finish. Wasn't a bad punt but still....
Get more sleep, and wank less and you will be fine
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i feel the more active you are, the harder and longer it takes to climax.
but also i feel like when i change things up and try different girls, it makes cummin easier
I have had WL get angry at me for not finishing fast enough which made me soft for rest of the session
mmm make her pussy tighter for a more stimulating fuck. i like thisQuote:
Originally Posted by tpol
Thanks for your replay DoMoSan. I don't do any recreational drugs and barely touch alcohol. I am overweight though, but recently started being active again.Quote:
Originally Posted by DoMoSan
To be fair I do agree with this. Recently I've been punting as a way to cope with stress from work. Which could be a factor of why I felt like I'm not into it i guess.Quote:
Originally Posted by toilet33
I'd prefer to finish in her than jerking myself off. I have good punts too when I jerk myself off but really keen on finally finishing in her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Raybo
Dude my last punt made me feel like the WL didn't really like me for going soft in the session.Quote:
Originally Posted by hellodemin
all mental for me mate, so “could” be the same with you?
I usually take at least 40 minutes with an Asian but when it comes to Caucasian, I’m done within 10.
Mental, psychological, physical, it all adds up. Just try not to think about it and enjoy it ;)
If she's a WL that's worth her salt, she's more likely to be disappointed in herself than not liking you for losing your erection. It's her job to satisfy and pleasure you during the session. If you don't get that, she will likely lose a return customer. Don't think too much about this.Quote:
Originally Posted by jenlai29
This also applies to GFs and wives, btw. Men always think women dislike them for lack of performance, but the main effect on the girls is they start second guessing themselves not the men: Am I not attractive enough for him? Not sexy enough? Something wrong with my pussy? And so on.
Back to your problem. Like other bros said there are a lot of factors at play, but since you're only 23 it takes out a lot of those related to health. So I think it could be libido. Do you actually not feel horny when you go for a punt?
You also need to understand what you personally like during sex. Then you take control of what happens in the session and make sure what ever you like happens. For example, I personally like to "service" the girl more than receiving it. So I always try to take charge and tell the girl to lie down at the beginning of the session. Some experienced girls like to stick to their routines and refuse to let me service them. I always perform poorly in those sessions.
That's just my example. You could be someone who likes to be serviced so you have to ask yourself what you really like and go for it.
I'm one of them have issues with mental health and it's not great..sex life with my recent ex just not that good and punt life is depends...i don't know what happen but one girl from local massage always got me.
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Originally Posted by apokalypse
It really sucks when you can't perfom how you want to. What have you tried to fix it?
That's a very interesting point that I've never tnought about. Now I think back to it a lot of the WLs I've been with mostly puts my pleasure first when working.Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
I may not have enough libido at the moment when I go for a punt. I've been abstaining away from it (incl. masturbation) though today I really wanted to go for a punt but chose not to. But I think I should crave it even more before I go for my next punt.
Another possible factor is when I change girls its more of a feeling for each others rhythm and learning how each other work. I do prefer girls that I've built rapport on. I find it more satisfying. Since I've only started going to FS places recently, maybe that's the reason why; I'm not comfortable with the girl I'm with yet.
An example of this is one of the regular WLs I go to at 42G has changed her routine to suit me and the last time I saw her, she helped me out with her hands then let me finish inside her. I thought that was a really good tactic by her. I'm really keen on seeing her again soon though, but I'm always intrigued on seeing other girls on their roster.
There is part of the Cerebellum which they call Vermis .
Its one of the more primitive parts of the brain.
When you are afraid its freezes your body functions.
I actually understand what your talking about, the rest of your posts not so much....cheersQuote:
Originally Posted by Scanlan
I don't know if it works for you, but another reason I like to service the girl is because if I let the girl take the lead, it's a bit of a toss up especially for a new girl I'm seeing the first time. What if I don't like her technique or "rhythm" as you put it? Also, after doing a lot of sessions, it all becomes the same. There's a girl here trying to get the same reactions from you over and over. Feels like you're watching different movies but all of them have the same main actor (you!).Quote:
Originally Posted by jenlai29
Instead... If I flip it around and get some action on HER instead and make that the whole point of the session... Now it is different every time. Different main actor, different reactions, different feeling.
Near the end of the session try doggy and get the girl to massage your balls and try getting the girl to crouch right down and just pump slowly as she massages and in some cases she will lightly finger your arse and this usually does the trick. Find the position that most turns you on and get the girl to do the massage and try this while going slow as it enhances the intimacy. Also very vigorous fucking can delay the cumming sensation and is a common trick by many porn stars to prolong the sensation and not cum too quickly. They then usually have a blowjob without the condom to finish as condoms can seriously dampen the sensation as compared to a handjob or a blowjob without a condom. If you watch porn then you will no doubt find some videos that really hit the mark as providing excitement and fantasy and you are wanking to the pace you favour so this is difficult to match when you are with a working girl as you are thinking of how she perceives you during the sex and this can cause performance anxiety especially if you care for the girl. During sex you need to immerse in the amazing sensations of being with a sexy lady that is actually letting you fuck her and every girl responds to guys who care about them and allows them to get some enjoyment from this work. Don't overthink the situation of performance and whether she thinks you are a good lover as this can overcrowd your brain and distract you from the pleasure of the sex. Once you find the right combination the girl will respond and her actions will give you a mental boost. Its all about excitement so surprise her with a gift and take her a nice flower or chocolates or give her a tip before the sex then try something romantic by kissing her neck and whispering in her ear that she is so sexy and beautiful and do this during the session as well.
The other punters have also put some very valid comments here.
Man once tired out a regular of mine I felt sorry as her hand started going numb. Guess times like this should see if Spanish is on offer.