Just imagine 10 punter bring similar things the wl/ml have to exchange with someone. That's was why money was invented by the Chinese.
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The only time I ever used credit card for sex was more than 20 years ago. I was in Christchurch NZ for business.
Back then I was a bit of a gambling addict. Lost all my cash at the casino, withdrawn maximum cash advance from my Visa and MasterCard. Pretty fucked up night on the roulette table. Back to the hotel room and badly needed a fuck to get over the awful feelings.
Took out the yellow page adult session and rang up an agency. Ask for an escort and checked that I could paid with American Express card, she said yes but had to process the charge first, it went through and was told the girl will be there in 30 min.
She came, I fucked and had a good sleep afterwards........ lol, can’t really remember much about the girl and the punt, it was pretty ordinary to say the least, but a fuck was a fuck.
Was actually worried about how the charge would appear on my statement, it actually shown up as something Pty Ltd so there was no issue there .
That was an one off and only ever used cash since.
Well, if I link a virtual CC to my main card and use the virtual CC to pay, the transaction will appear on the virtual one I assume... Which can be deleted anytime. I also assume that something will be shown on the main card that money went out to the virtual card? But I don't know how that will appear on the main card transaction in this case.
@cash, how do you deal with deposits... Or you don't do privates? 🤔
Beemit is anonymous so long as your handle has no connection. You'd be surprised (or maybe you wouldn't) with what it gets used for. It turns up on your statement as beemit charge or refund, which is also nice.
The only issue with beemit is that girls don't seem to use it.
Maybe Afterpay? Fuck now, pay later.
A lot of privates require you to pay a small deposit in advance and from what I've noticed a lot of them usually take beemit. No deposit = no booking. Which is a bit shitty if you're planning to pay cash in full. But they're probably fed up with cancellations and time wasters so yeh...
A lot of girls on SB seem to use beemit. So it shows up on bank transaction as simply beemit? Does it show anymore details such as to what acc its transferred to?
always pay cash. although you can ask staff about there company name.
some shops set up different names to protect clients
1. Cash
2. Cash
3. Cash
Most shops have a generic sounding name that will appear on the CC statement, but a suspicious partner with smarts will easily track that through ASIC, or registered business address. And also, do you want a regular payment of $180 to Dicklik pty ltd or whatever every Saturday showing up on your statement? No. No you don't.
Cash is easiest, for both the shop and privacy.
Get into a habit of keeping a slush fund of cash available.
Whether regular smaller withdrawals over multiple times or when you receive cash from anywhere, keep it aside.
I appreciate your advice and 100% agree about cash.
However, it's a bit slow to withdraw bit by bit and also may be suspicious to take a big lump sum at once.
Also, I understand that shops will take cash. How about privates who require you to pay an early deposit before the booking? How do you do this anonymously. That's why I'm asking about beemit and the use of a virtual CC, etc...
If you go to maccas for a coffee, add some extra as a cash withdrawal / Take some cash out for work lunch etc
I have separate bank account to my partner, so not a huge worry for me as I also keep a fixed amount available in my account.
As someone else has said though, Beem It doesn’t show details on account statements.
Why would you pay a deposit to a private?????
Specially one you've never seen before.
I notice this is a trend starting to take hold recently. Private girls requiring an initial deposit of X $$ to their account in order to confirm bookings. It may be a reaction to another trend which is cheapo customers ripping private WLs off by doing a runner after the session.
Some girls are also too naive and may leave the cash payment on a table somewhere while they go for a shower etc.
Something to consider lol. It's been so long since I've used and dealt with cash. It's always been CC and debit cards..
Precisely. That, and they're probably fed up with time wasters who book and then cancel so they need to confirm it by taking the deposit and state "no refund." Sucks for cash players but yeh... Lol
I always pay cash my wife told me years ago now that her girl friends husband got caught out when his accountant told his girl friend about his use of his credit card. The accountant and his girlfriend happened to be friends with the guys wife.
pay cash its safer.
Always cash, unless you are single and nobody looks into your bank account.
What happens if you pay your deposit, get to her place on time then get a text saying she's running 20 minutes late?
This happened to me recently, but I wasn't stupid enough to pay a deposit so I left.