Agree with you Cumquat, there seems to be a serious number of punters out there who are either not at all interested in making a woman orgasm, or have never been able to accomplish this in their lives.
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no need to challenge yourselves. as long as both parties enjoy the vibe then orgasm is just a bonus. It doesn't mean that the girls don't like the times with you nor underrate your skills. Skill is one thing, but also feelings is important as well. I know one legend who can make me cum almost every time ( probably one time we missed it because I was too tired) but I don't have desire to make love with him. Sorry A&L but believe me, you still receive my compliment all the times.
Please kill this thread moderators. I can't believe some of these responses.
Merry Christmas everyone. Hope you all enjoy the festive season with your loved ones.
Girls have told me when they have cum with other clients so it is true. I have been with girls that cum easily and I have been with girls that get to the edge but don't quite get there, they have had boyfriend's or things on their mind which block those kind of feelings. Some girls feel guilty about cumming, they are there to serve you. I have been with girls that say they dont want to cum. It is all relative, don't think it is bullshit because you are paying for it.
I speak from WL experience mostly. Had a bit of ML experience, I am 50/50 with MLs I reckon. Had a few MLs that loved orgasms, but it also included FS so may be it doesn't count.
Sometimes I wish the girl would hurry up and fake it.
Why is it so important to make an ML cum? She’s not your girlfriend. Just a paid performer.
Many WLs and MLs have said they don’t like to cum because it makes them tired and sleepy and they then find it difficult to get through the shift
I wouldn't go so far as to say I made them cum, but I did make some of them feel real good.
One in particular (not gonna name her cos she's now stopped allowing DATY), leggy Chinese ML, used to cream so much that she'd need a bundle of tissues to wipe herself dry after our sessions. My favourite position with her was in 69 position. She'd be stroking my dick slowly (this girl doesn't give more than NHJs) while I suck and lick her clit and pussy. I can literally see the inner lips convulsing and making her juices come out, it was amazing. When she has full body convulsions, I can tell it's not faked.
I always end up with so much of her juice on my face in that position that I looked like I had a bad cold, my nose covered in snot!
Another one, Korean ML Bebe from SS, also years ago. She had the most distinct habit that I don't think can be faked. She'd be enjoying my "administrations" for a few minutes, then she'd always get to a point where she had to reach down with her hand and press down on one particular spot near her right pelvic bone. That movement caused her pussy to "stretch" a bit and I guess it exposed her clit a bit more. She'd then grind her pussy right onto my mouth. All while whimpering and moaning. I had a handful of sessions with her and she did this every single time I DATY'ed on her. I never got around to asking her why she did that, maybe I should've!
Another one, a Chinese ML who used to work at DOS. Her pussy would open and contract so much during DATY I felt suction on my chin as I sucked on her clit, and it made a faint "smacking" sound like those when you kiss someone on the face, when I moved my chin. That was such a turn on.
While it can be good money for the ML,
There are some ML that also love their job benefits.
I try to keep a straight face when the girl says she's really tired and needs to have a shower after cumming. Deed done and both are happy. That's what counts.
What I hate is when you do not pay upfront and things progress. At the end you ask how much extra they want and they wont say or say I don't know or what you think. If you intend to go back, you don't want to appear cheap, but then you don't want to pay too much because next time it could cost you a bundle.
I think some ppl are deluded, these ladies want you finished and gone. They are not your girl friend and they don’t want to be. You need to be realistic, who is who in the zoo.
The average punter is not a good looking fit young bloke, pretty young girls would not choose you!. The girls play their role, some better then others!
Treat them well, enjoy your time and stay in touch with reality
Not all girls detest men who pay for sex. Some probably ( I dont have the stats for the %) however I do know that girls will more then likely detest guys who are married or in relationships paying for sex. If ur single no one gives a shit. Its just like if we see a hot young ML then u find out oh shes married with kids. Us punters most likely won't feel the same way about her then if we thought she was single and wanted to fuck and make money.
I think some women love stimulation and it is likely that those women gravitate toward the sex industry.
Enjoying the stimulation is different to actually having an orgasm.
My experience is that under the right conditions MLs will get very aroused when I Daty . I have had women who have claimed to orgasm after sounding and feeling like they did bit you never know in the sex industry.
Many women only orgasm when masturbating. With DaTY you may need to carefully persist for half an hour of Daty or more to make a woman come. So hard to achieve that in a one hour session, particularly if she is watching the clock.
There are rare women however that are extremely able and can orgasm in minutes just by rubbiing their legs together. I have never been in a relationship with one of those women.
I have been with extremely horny MLs and WLs but sadly I think that was the result of drugs.
Have a read of "she comes first". An excellent guide to cunnilingus and the female orgasm. All men must read this.
A great and engaging post Mr Everready2 - keep up the good work. Though some of the responses allude that orgasmic MLs are as rare as unicorns.
Every inch of a woman’s body regardless of whether she’s a ML, WL or non-WL is considered highly sensitive and erogenous. Her ear lobes, lips, mouth, nipples, breasts, neck, stomach, thighs, wrists, behind the knees, arse, feet, ankles, elbows, shoulders, small of back, face, hair, scalp etc is sensitive to touch and arousal - her skin from head to toe is a woman’s largest sexual organ, every inch highly erogenous. And this doesn’t even include her vagina which is at least 100x more erogenous/orgasmic. The 2-3mm pin head of the clit has more nerve endings than the whole length of a 12 inch erect schlong with 2 sagging cajones.
By far the most important sexual organ on a woman is her mind - You can make love to a woman and get a woman dripping wet with words alone. You only gotta look at the popularity of romance novels, love songs, romcom’s, and Fifty Shades of Grey to understand that.
Turning on a man is like flicking a light switch - it’s instant and his orgasm switches off as quickly as it was switched on. Turning on a woman takes time and is like trying to light a camp fire - you gotta chop wood, gather twigs, sticks, leaves, and paper and prepare the area/pit, get a box matches and after a few strikes you might get a spark…..then you spend the next 15mins slowly feeding wood making sure the flame doesn’t blow out. But once the fire gets going it gets hot, and is very difficult to extinguish it.
Perhaps a 30min punt is not long enough to get the ML juices flowing, and If you think you can make a ML orgasm in 30mins then you should be thanking the previous punter/s for laying the foundation.
One memorable punt with a WL she was so turned on when I came in that I think I was just a continuation of the previous client.
I didn't let that thought get to me though, just rolled with it. She was so wet, on hindsight she commented on my small hands and I think was looking for a fisting...she had got to that point.
Haha, seen an ML for an hour one time and tried hard with DATY to get her over the line, like I failed many times before, and after. She messaged me later to say I got her so close but the next customer, who was waiting out front as I left had finished the job. 🤣🤣🤣