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12-01-2022, 11:21 AM
Riff888

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Originally Posted by hungry4love007

Lol ... yeah...

Another part of inquiry is how much people usually spend on SB per month (just to see if its viable approach financially or not) .

It's not too bad, average about $400 a week and I see her about 3 times a week.

Not a condom or lube in sight.

I've forgotten how much I love young caucasian girls.

The Seeking site has about a 80/20 split caucasian to other nationalities.

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12-01-2022, 11:30 AM
Kiryu0

I'm just a small time employee, maybe one day I'll get to afford that kind of relationship.

Though you guys really do make me envious of your capabilities.
12-01-2022, 12:01 PM
hungry4love007

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Originally Posted by Kiryu0

I'm just a small time employee, maybe one day I'll get to afford that kind of relationship.

Though you guys really do make me envious of your capabilities.

Same here mate. Still working and in late 30's.

So 400 pw = 20k per annum, thats a lot for me too.
12-01-2022, 12:05 PM
zucon

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Originally Posted by hungry4love007

Same here mate. Still working and in late 30's.

So 400 pw = 20k per annum, thats a lot for me too.

Mate it’s not a lease agreement, can be on and off or on for few weeks then off forever 😃
12-01-2022, 12:08 PM
hungry4love007

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Originally Posted by zucon

Mate it’s not a lease agreement, can be on and off or on for few weeks then off forever 😃

Lol ..thanks for clarification..

I mixed it up.

400-750 per week 3 times sex is much better than WL i would say in that case.
12-01-2022, 12:12 PM
zucon

Yea but don’t forget it can get complicated specially if you partnered, a WL engagement is without emotional attachment and can try variety lol
12-01-2022, 12:14 PM
juscruisin58

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Originally Posted by hungry4love007

Lol ..thanks for clarification..

I mixed it up.

400-750 per week 3 times sex is much better than WL i would say in that case.

We go more than 3 times a week, thats for sure, and the week she has her period, I get anal or CIM blowjobs.
During Covid lock down we were able to still see each other as we are in the same LGA and she basically lived with me for 3 months.
12-01-2022, 12:16 PM
fjfan

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Originally Posted by Vader

Nah, the real thing is better than paid sex.

Pretty obvious that a lot of us over here have become completely institutionalized by the institution of prostitution. I genuinely worry that I might be heading in the same direction.
12-01-2022, 12:18 PM
cuteguy

I have a friend who was a sugar daddy. He would pay for everything when taking the girls out or when shopping. Of course the girls wanted to dine at the best restaurants and in return he got sex out of them. This arrangement suited him because he didn't want commitment. He could afford it because he had a well paid job. The girls would also see other guys and he was well aware of this. He had a few such arrangements but they ended badly when they started to argue over some trivial matters. Probably because the girls would get close to him or they were not reachable when he wanted to see them. My view about this is stay away. Many fish in the sea and you don't need to pay great sums of money to have fun and enjoy company of pretty girls.
12-01-2022, 12:31 PM
hungry4love007

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Originally Posted by zucon

Yea but don’t forget it can get complicated specially if you partnered, a WL engagement is without emotional attachment and can try variety lol

Thats the scary part.

But trying new things like mfm, ffm will be fun i assume. With WL its mechanical.
12-01-2022, 01:20 PM
juscruisin58

Some thing that needs to be remembered, A lot of girls who are in the SB/SD scene are not working girls, and for many of them it is their first time.
Having said that, there are quite a few who are in it entirely for what they can get out of you, with minimal return.
That is the mine field of SB dating, sorting out who is genuine and who is a scammer
12-01-2022, 02:02 PM
paulgallen

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Originally Posted by Riff888

It's not too bad, average about $400 a week and I see her about 3 times a week.

Not a condom or lube in sight.

I've forgotten how much I love young caucasian girls.

The Seeking site has about a 80/20 split caucasian to other nationalities.

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$400 a week not too bad. Where do you have sex? At her place or yours or pay for hotel?
12-01-2022, 02:37 PM
juscruisin58

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Originally Posted by paulgallen

$400 a week not too bad. Where do you have sex? At her place or yours or pay for hotel?

That probably depends on whether you need to "hide" her from anybody.
In my situation, my SB spends plenty of time at mine, and that suits us both.
12-01-2022, 02:48 PM
Kiryu0

The idea of having a non committal relationship and nearly unlimited sex is enticing ahaha.
12-01-2022, 03:36 PM
ssfc

I would think there has to be some form of connection and mutual attraction to have a better experience. It doesn't seem like what some are expecting that it is purely payment for regular sex. Not for me at this stage but maybe later on in life.
12-01-2022, 03:37 PM
kiddoh

Mate you’re legend in this one!

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Originally Posted by juscruisin58

That probably depends on whether you need to "hide" her from anybody.
In my situation, my SB spends plenty of time at mine, and that suits us both.

Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

Btw any tips to avoid spammers

I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.
12-01-2022, 03:52 PM
GoldfishMan

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

Btw any tips to avoid spammers

I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.

Ask them for their SB CV and some referrals.
12-01-2022, 03:54 PM
hungry4love007

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Originally Posted by GoldfishMan

Ask them for their SB CV and some referrals.

Best referral can be found here i assume..lol..if anyone want to share

May be a section for SB review.
12-01-2022, 04:11 PM
juscruisin58

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Originally Posted by ssfc

I would think there has to be some form of connection and mutual attraction to have a better experience. It doesn't seem like what some are expecting that it is purely payment for regular sex. Not for me at this stage but maybe later on in life.

In my situation, yes, there is connection and attraction, my SB doesn't like males her own age, and her circle of friends are up to 20 yrs older than her.
If I just wanted random sex, I would go back to punting. This arrangement as I see it is better than marriage, we help each other out, we do care for each other, and we respect each other.
Where it will go or what it will lead to God only knows, at least at the moment we enjoy each other's company and are having fun.
12-01-2022, 04:27 PM
juscruisin58

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Originally Posted by kiddoh

Yeah, reading through each of those experiences irrespective of whether it’s fictional or an actual scene. I certainly want to try it out. Not sure whether It will work out or not.

A bit costly affair though. Need to save some money to try it out.

Btw any tips to avoid spammers

I too agree with @cuteguy I had similar issue with a frequent ML.

I can assure you mine is not fictional.
Costly ??? Compared to the shit I put up.with in a marriage, this is heaven.
I guess I have been fortunate in business, worked bloody hard to make it happen and now am enjoying it. Sold my business to a bigger player in the industry I was in for a substantial sum.

Scammers, one tip, never pay them for anything online like pics etc, or as a deposit for a lunch date or coffee. If they are not prepared to have an initial coffee and chat with you without asking for payment, walk away. Thats not how it works, any potential SB that asks for money upfront is to be avoided.

If you have to "hide" your SB from anyone, you are in it for the wrong reasons and should stick to punting
12-01-2022, 04:48 PM
Sibon

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Originally Posted by Riff888

It's not too bad, average about $400 a week and I see her about 3 times a week.

$400 per week? I'm envious of you.

I pay my regular ML $600 total a week. One and half hour each time twice a week.

God must be smilling at you.
12-01-2022, 06:15 PM
Sibon

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Originally Posted by juscruisin58

Been married, got the badge and the scars.
Was psychology controlled to the point of being cut off from my family and friends for nearly 30 yrs.
As long as I was doing what she wanted, and seeing who she wanted to see, she was happy, so work was my escape and release, I have to thank her for that as that hard work has now allowed me to be able to afford my SB.
The psychological control has even poisoned my children to the extent I have had no contact from them for the 10 yrs since we split up.
I punted for quite a while, but was wanting a bit more, and the SB arrangement gives me that.
There is a bit of commitment, there is connection, and we both know that either of us can walk at any minute, so we put a bit of effort into making sure the arrangement works. A true FWB relationship.
I know that she will eventually walk away from me for someone closer to her own age, and I'll deal with that when it happens.
After putting up with marital shit for so long, I now live in the moment, and enjoy the company of a young lady who knows which side her bread is buttered on.

Thanks for your candour. Great to see nice things coming to your way.

I believe the girl would stay with you for a long time because many girls go for an elder man because not only he is established and emotionally mature, he is also caring, generous and gentle. I think you have all these qualities for her to be with you.
12-01-2022, 06:20 PM
Riff888

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Originally Posted by paulgallen

$400 a week not too bad. Where do you have sex? At her place or yours or pay for hotel?

My apartment, she now has a set of keys.

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12-01-2022, 06:53 PM
fragnwin

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Originally Posted by Vader

Nah, the real thing is better than paid sex.

From experience, the real thing is better than paid sex for the first 6 - 8 months.
12-01-2022, 07:21 PM
juscruisin58

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Originally Posted by Sibon

Thanks for your candour. Great to see nice things coming to your way.

I believe the girl would stay with you for a long time because many girls go for an elder man because not only he is established and emotionally mature, he is also caring, generous and gentle. I think you have all these qualities for her to be with you.

Thank you, I appreciate your comments.
I just showed Violet what you wrote and her response was, "well he could be right, if thats what you want"

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