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Yes I agree I thought this sight discouraged disparaging talk.
I get the point you’re making, and don’t fully disagree.Quote:
Originally Posted by GlamourPhoto
However, taking a cum shot in the mouth from a stranger for cash is not equal as giving a cum shot in the mouth to a stranger for cash imo.
As I’m human with human manners. Punting doesn’t turn you to a cheap dog, but yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by beta101
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Originally Posted by GlamourPhoto
Nothing misogynistic about punting. I reckon it's quite empowering as us men are simple brained and from some of the responses on the forums have us wrapped around their fingers.
I actually think it's quite empowering.
Is she happy doing what she is doing?
She may have been uncomfortable with you, but she may also enjoy her work?
Just like break up sex you need a fuck closure. Give it your all time best and let that be your last memory of her and her last memory of you as a fuck god.
How is being on a punting forum equivalent of being disrespectful to women lol? You can punt without degrading them - respect their boundaries.
Hey OP, you can either have sex with her or if it is too painful, better just to avoid her/the shop.
So being on a punting forum makes us all Neanderthal, knuckle dragging, misogynist douchebags?
Give me a break.
Sounds like the kind of attitude "I pay you money for sex so I am immediately superior to you." Utter bullshit.
Just because we punt does not mean we can't have a healthy respectful attitude towards women, including the girls in the industry.
I reckon we can do without the racist remarks as well.
Well said. No substitute for good manners and a little kindness.Quote:
Originally Posted by asiafever
Totally agree. It no different to walking down the street and walking to a barber shop. They just provide a service that we are in need of. We are no white knight but it doesnt mean we can't show them respect.
100% agree with what the 3 blokes above me said.
Does paying a woman for sexual services instantly mean you are demeaning and degrading her, or treating her less than as a person? I don't see why it does.
You may be right. I wish I don't have to do this. But it's a quick fix without attachment. I'm not really proud of myself and I'm trying to punt less or best none at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by GlamourPhoto
I get the sentiment but why is paying for sex or being a sex worker degrading? What is the issue with satisfying your needs or earning money?
I think the question is are you going to go back? Second and third the guys who said it's a bit of a gift! Certainly not something that happens to everyoneQuote:
Originally Posted by Carissawhore
OK, so I'm going to make some points, throw out some generalisations, out forward some things you probably already know, and so on.Quote:
Originally Posted by Carissawhore
Before i get in to anything through I want to state i have no doubt it would be a bit of a shock to have an experience like that. First thing we'll deal with is the sex with other guys and sweet innocent girl bit.
Sex is not dirty. Wanting your girl to be an innocent virgin, when you analyse it, is a centuries old stereotype forced on us mostly by various religions, and it has manifested in to the idea that somehow we guys should sample as many girls as possible, but girls shouldn't dare explore their sexuality. Extending that to her being a wl, yes coming to terms with the fact she's a wl is not for everyone. Maybe the sweet innocent thing was an act, god knows women all over the world have had society train them that way, and certain nationalities are grand masters at it... Anyway I think that point makes itself, she could still be that girl from before. It's a job that has stigma attached, up to you how you feel about it.
You didn't mention (unless I missed that part) that you would think about going back, and I would advise against it if you were. No good will come from that. It sounds like neither of you were comfortable with the whole thing (just from your description).
East Asian girls do things differently. Japanese, Korean, Chinese, often when they have decided not to pursue or continue a relationship they'll just ghost you. They're not big on calling you in, explaining their reasoning and wishing you best with your future endeavours. They'd rather avoid the confrontation and the boot to your ego. History also may have taught them a lot of guys don't take rejection well, so they try to give the message in other ways. We all want closure but sometimes we don't get it, we just have to pick up and move on. It works both ways too, be honest have you ever promised to call a girl and never done it? Ever had a couple of flings and then ghosted her? 98% of us have probably done it.
Now I'm coming from the pragmatic viewpoint, because if you take emotions out of the way we tend to see things clearer. Personally I know this would suck, no doubt about it, but for your own sake perhaps you need to file it under "Interesting life experience" and move forward.
Of course you can ignore all that, I'm no great sage, I'm just another knucklehead on a forum pointing his pipe as he offers an old timers perspective.
Yeah, had some crushes in the past that I would've love to see in a brothel.
Seen one as an ML, but yet to get FS from her - only nude HJ. Wasn't a crush, but someone I thought was an absolute knockout. Her body was every bit gorgeous as I imagined.
One girl who is now back home, her spending habits and style changed a bit abruptly and years down the road she said she started living with Caucasian guy roughly 25 years older than her. She couldn't give a str8 reply as to how she met her. Signs suggest she worked a t brothel, but nothing for sure. May never know since she's now married. I had such a huge crush on her.
Can't think of any other off the top of my head, but yet to actually run into someone. Although, I wouldn't be surprised if a girl saw me through a CCTV and excluded herself from any lineup.
That’s a really , Rare random event you’ve experienced… Have you ever given a thought to the fact that all the Lux fashion goods she was toting during university came from the fact she was working?
wow, funny topic to be going so hard in such a relatively short time.
is her name Carissa?Quote:
Originally Posted by Carissawhore
only a few dates in 6 months ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Carissawhore
Yet you went on to meet "the folks". Mmm, so it appears that you didn't fuck her, but she wanted a family ? maybe not wanting to get some practice in was your killer and lack of indication of commitment on your part was the issue.
I also would bet that she was working on the side for the appearances. I have found with these girls that the livery they adopt is indicative. Think about it, they come out here to try and settle here, you gotta ask why. And unless your chinese, they wouldn't consider taking you back to china to live.
He's said before that Carissa was the name of a bad lady boss he had in the past. I doubt that's the crush he was referring to.Quote:
Originally Posted by tpol
beta101 is been caned for inappropriate thought…?Quote:
Originally Posted by GoldfishMan
Very true we all punt cause we got damaged by the other sex I reckon n it's our equaliser...Quote:
Originally Posted by GlamourPhoto
You are not the queen, I , is more appropriate… carry onQuote:
Originally Posted by beta101