A condom for the ML in case of another toilet rendezvous
Condolences card for the boyfriend
A toy for her sister's kid
And a bottle of wine for yourself
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A good "long" read, I wish you luck whatever happens...
Hi Ahl, I am developing feelings but I'm also realistic that this might not work out. Hence why I'm taking it slow. I am not planning on double dating the sisters! That's not my style.
And you're right, I don't know what my ML might have in plan for me, but at the same time, I'm not too worried. It may just have to be that secret we hold onto til the day we die...
Mate, we've known each other (virtually) for a long time, and you've always come across as a stand up kinda guy, like, a lot of guys on here should be on some kind of predator register but I have always thought you're a legit decent guy, it doesn't surprise me that a ml would intro you to her sister if she thinks as I do. So I have no doubt in my mind that while others are saying do both sisters and all that, you're not about to fuck up a potentially good thing with short-sightedness, but at the same time you're not going to put all your eggs in the one basket for something that may not go much further.
I guess what I'm saying is you're a good enough bloke to make the best call for all involved.
Enjoy dinner, take a cake from one of the Korean shops in Eastwood (or the Taiwanese bakery in Castle mall is good too) and a nice bottle or two of whatever tipple you think the girls can handle and the BF might enjoy. Perhaps a champagne and a good red, or the red and something for after dinner...
Hey bro don’t take things too serious. I’d take the invite and go over and bring a Hennessy bottle as a gift and somehow u can bang her and her sister make it a three way or include the bf if u want 4 way mmff
Hot story but imo too much drama where a ML is concerned. Wish you luck CMK - and a long life lol - whatever you decide.
Forgot to add, I think your ML friend wants you all to herself. She sounds like a go-getter, nothing much “simply falls into place” with those types of girls. Up to you what you want to do about it.
Always good to hear a bawdy tale just like in days of yore.
Aarrrgh!!!
And rum is definitely what ya should be drinking when bedding a wanton wench ya scurvy dogs!
Aarrgh!!!
I don’t understand why people here like to always question morality in everything. You’re all whinging about gold diggers, girls being materialistic and shit… on a freaking forum about paying for sex. Go to a church if you want to talk about morals. FMD…
She might be playing a game but it’s a fun game. So what if she’s got a BF and a guy she’s slept with at the same dinner, The atmosphere there must be electric when it takes place. Are you telling me you wouldn’t want to be there?
I’m not afraid to say I’m a depraved sex lunatic and this kind of setting is perfect to get you to the best fuck of your life.
Just be prepared for a quick exit out the door if it all goes to crap.
AF, thanks for the big compliment, I'm grateful. I'm going to go with the flow and see what transpires. Although, with no expectations of the dinner, I'm flying in blind. Nerves, more so than curiosity, are creeping up a bit. I'm putting things in perspective as I'm analysing my position in this peculiar situation...
I know for certain that I won't be going for seconds with my ML, nor will I continue seeing her in the shop, should things don't work out with the sister. It is the right thing to do I feel...
The moment of sex and pleasure was at best, lust, I believe. And we enjoyed each other, out of the business transaction that we would normally engage in...
Furthermore, I don't want to be the cause of a sticky point in her relationship. I know too much about the bf too and this creates a little uneasiness on my part, ever since our toilet rendezvous. If this was in the shop, it wouldn't be an issue. It would be clear cut with me. I'm very black and white...
Now, I have to comment, you are very Asianised with your suggestion of cake and wine! That was the first thing that I thought of when I received the message invitation to dinner...
I know this all too well. But, I can be aloof and not read the situation correctly when I'm relaxed and have no reservations at all. Nothing comes for free, right? I know in Asian culture when someone invites you over to a 'dinner', it usually comes with a request, favour or assistance of the monetary kind. And yes, she is a go getter, ambitious and very direct in how she conducts herself. Well, you've already read how things were initiated in the toilet!
Haha yeah very true, asianised is a good way of describing it, some have labelled me an "egg" previously...
Let's just say that I have been invited to plenty of dinners at Japanese/Korean/Chinese/Vietnamese/Singaporean etc homes for dinners over the years. Cake and wine never fails.
Mate, I reckon you've got it all under control. Well as much as it could be. Go with the flow as you say. At the very least it will be one of those unique life experiences.
Which shop does the ML work, we will help you keep her busy so she won't bother you
Not sure I ever said anything about women being gold digger's or anyone's morality.
Even if I thought I'd get more sex or the szechuan chicken was off the charts I would just find an excuse not to be there... Shake the hand of the man who's missus I just hooked up with, while sitting next to her sister, on a double date all eating a meal together. I'm nothing but a simple man lol.
But I couldn't care less or judge the bloke for going to the dinner or whatever he does.
You might be read too much into it
The situation in the bar is possibly just one off.
Some girl can be horny and good mood after a few drinks, especially after she having a bad day.
Just treat dinner as normal dinner and bring the usual wine or cake to the dinner, and expect nothing.
People seems watch too many porn if they expect threesome out of this