Profiling My ML, Her BF & Her Sister...

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Originally Posted by DrBean

Can I please clarify if you were born in 1976 or you are 76 CMK? If the latter there are some rather inevitable nearer term consequences to consider?

Do you have family and a will drawn up out of curiosity? I would think asset protection for your family and your choice of new partner would be relevant and early in the thought process, so much so it may render you preferring to remain single?

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I was born in 76. I'm not 76. I have my assets and will in order. It's early days to think about this factor in the relationship. But, I get it. It might creep up on me before I know it...

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Originally Posted by beta101

It's a trap bro. Run. You male instinct is right. Don't get involved. Single life is best life. I wouldn't trade anything for that freedom.

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I've fallen into traps time and time again. I never learn, so you could say I'm a glutton for punishment. I like the complexity of relationships. I'm always attracted to complicated and uncertainty...

My previous traps include, fathering a kid at 13, dating a single mum ML, dating an ice addict WL, dating a high class uni escort, dating two non working best friends from Thailand, at separate times of course...

There will be a day when I have to stop running, because I'm getting tired. Things might be coming full circle for me. Maybe, I'm craving a little normality in my life? Plus, memoirs make good writing and reading for the next generation about cmk76's secret punting life?

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Originally Posted by asiafever

And to add to that, from personal experience.
So the kid accepts you, forms a bond with you, and then you break up and the kid is affected as well, it's like a break up for them too...
But we're getting ahead of ourselves here, there are many bridges for cmk to cross before these conversations need to be had. I have a friend who is divorced with kids, met a guy who'd never been married nor had kids, they are incredibly happy and he has taken those kids on as his own and loves them dearly, and they him. He never tries to replace their real dad, but is just a real stand up father figure type for them, it can work, it just depends on the circumstances.

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This gives me hope. It sounds ideal. I'm most often than not a half glass full kind of guy. Even when all the warning signs are in front of me. I always try to make best of every situation that I find myself in...

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Originally Posted by cmk76

This gives me hope. It sounds ideal. I'm most often than not a half glass full kind of guy. Even when all the warning signs are in front of me. I always try to make best of every situation that I find myself in...

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It's a good attitude to have. Keep moving forwards.

Sorry cmk but to add another profile to the list...

What about her ex, how close is he to his son? How would he react to another male in his son's life? How would he react to another male disciplining his son? How would he react if you went to a father son function?

Now I'm overthinking it for you!

Mickey, has to be the most patient man on earth, if he's ok with minnie still doing what she does...

AS for dating Daisey, no harm in seeing how it goes.. but everyone here has some pretty sound advice on the subject already or some experiences...

Good luck

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