2nd Punt, Experienced C ML
Again, I'll be trying to avoid identifiable info, not really meant to be an AR, more of a journal. (Feel free to PM if you'd like to exchange some info though.)
2nd Punt, Experienced C ML
This is my 2nd punt with an older and more experienced Chinese ML a few days after my disappointing first punt.
Prelude:
So as described in my previous recollection, after my disappointing first punt and reflecting on why it likely was a fail for me (too much wanking and possibly nerves) I decided to go for a punt with an ML. Less "performance pressure", cheaper price so I could potentially do it more often and build up experience and 1st part massage sounds nice to relax and help with stiff back from sitting at a computer all day.
I begin my abstinence from wanking and look for an opportunity to visit an ML. I get my opportunity mid-week after hours, 3 days after the first punt and 3 days of no fap. As some people have suggested here, I assumed the issue might due in part to lower tier service from a less experienced WL and a more experienced ML might get me off easier so I contact mamasan at the RnT I was planning on going to and ask for recommendations for girls with good message skills. I cross reference the profiles on the website, mostly ignoring the pictures (which aren't very clear anyway) and I decide to go with girl that has the best English in the hope that it will make communicating what I want easier.
I confirm my booking with mamasan that morning and after work I head in for my booking which is last session of the day.
The Session
I walk in and run into another punter before mamasan and papasan quickly direct me to a private waiting room. After a few minutes in the cubicle, mamasan takes me back out and takes my money before calling out the ML. I note mamasan seems very professional and down to business, she again endorses the ML I'm going with as having excellent massage.
I'm directed by the ML to a very large spacious room with a massage table in the middle and a shower on the side. We have some small talk while I strip down and wash my body.
The Girl:
The girl isn't the most attractive woman I've seen. Not repulsive but definitely a tier or 2 down from the first Korean model WL, pretty "average". Profile had her as Chinese but she seemed a bit more Vietnamese to me though could be one of the more southern Chinese ethnicities.
Age Appearance: 30s early-mid. Most noteworthy thing is she definitely looks/feels a good bit older than me, by no means "mature" but from my perspective probably a bit older which is a bit of a turn off for me.
Face: 6/10 Nothing "wrong" with her face but not particularly my type. Pretty average. Would describe small, round "cute" type but a lot of my early-mid 30s impression of her age was from her face.
Body: 4/10* Not obese or anything majorly wrong with her body but she wore her dress the whole time, likely because she had things to hide. Though even through she dress it was clear she wasn't particularly slim or curvy in a nice way. She also had a bunch of splotching looking marks on her skin (not open sores but darker uneven patches) that made me think of cigarette burns but checking photos of actual cigarette burns I think it's likely something else.
Height: 160cm Definitely a good bit smaller than the first WL though she
Boobs: B+ on the small side but still there. Again not much of a boobs person so I don't care that much.
Ass: 6/10 Again because she was wearing her dress most of the time I didn't get to see much of it till the end but I'd rate pretty "average". Nothing wrong but not particularly attractive either. It was smooth, clean and hair free at least.
Communication: 8/10 Her English was pretty solid but not quite native level. Communicating what I wanted to do and what she asked me to do didn't have any hitches but small talk and more free conversation was awkward because she couldn't understand some stuff.
Not really the most attractive woman so I mostly tried to keep my eyes closed and use my imagination a bit while enjoying the massage lol.
Part 1
Part 1 was probably the best part. Great normal massage. Nice strong pressure when I requested it, definitely experienced. Really helped release some tense back muscles. My back still feeling noticeably better a few days after. She also got on top of my back and rubbed me. Feeling her butt and groin rubbing against be while she massaged had me turned on. She also did some more gentle massage of my arms and legs and even fingers which felt really nice too. Mamasan didn't lie about a good massage.
After about 20-30 min of massage she moved onto playing closer to my crotch and butt crack before asking me to turn over where we got started with part 2.
Part 2
I turn over and she starts some gentle kissing of my body. Starting from my chest and going down to my balls. She then starts tugging me off for a while. It feels pretty unstimulating again and after a bit I get less hard. She get me to open my eyes and look at her (not super arousing either lol) she also tries some dirty talk but again not super appealing or convincing if anything gets and awkward laugh from me. She pulls her tits out and gets me to grope them which is a bit of fun but again not the most amazing body so I'm not particularly aroused.
She asks me tell her how I want her to touch me. I try telling her to go harder but as with my first punt it still feels pretty unstimulating despite her worrying she's squeezing hard enough to hurt me. I also get her to try a few different techniques to jerk me off but it's all still feeling pretty boring.
After a while she's clearly getting tired and more desperate to help me finish. I suggest asking her to try rubbing me with her body so she slips the top half of a dress down (still keeping her mid section covered) and tries rubbing me with her tits. Because of the way my dick goes that's bit easier said then done so I assist by taking her boobs and squeezing them together on my dick while she has her hands on the table rubbing her chest back and forth. This is pretty fun but still not getting me off much and definitely not making me cum. After she stops and starts jerking me off again while rubbing my dick into her boob. This feels better but still not enough. I too would like to finish so I grab my own dick and try jerking myself off while grinding my glands into her boob. Alas I still do not cum. After some 30 min of part 2 she ask me if I want "real sex".
Part 3
I'm a bit apprehensive of the offer. This is RnT doesn't offer FS as a standard and this ML didn't even have CIM option on her profile. Also the way she asked it I'm not sure if she was offering it as a freebie or an extra. So I ask her if it's an extra and how much she asking for but she just says "what ever you want". I'm thinking if I pay an extra $100 and I can cum from some FS then that still puts the total damage at less than normal market rate for 1hr FS. I also know that this RnT is fully licenced and FS is not forbidden, even if it's not standard. I also do want to finish off and have a good time so I agree to it and say $100 in the moment.
Being that this isn't normally a FS RnT there aren't any condoms around and I didn't bring one so we have a bit of a break while the ML goes through her purse to find a condom. She also warns me to not let the mamasan know we're doing this because she's told mamasan she doesn't do this kind of service.
She asks me to do her doggy style and I agree while she gets on all fours and pulls her panties off, still wearing her dress to cover her mid section. I penetrate her from behind with an ample view of her average looking pussy and butt hole. Again the feeling is pretty mild but a bit tighter then the first WL. I start pounding away while she makes noises (which I am not really convinced by). Getting a decent view of her pussy lips gripping my dick is pretty nice (even if it not the prettiest pussy in the world).
I try pretty much every thing I can think of. Varying the pace, varying the angle, a bit of gyration, pushing in hard and grinding, grabbing her by the hips, grabbing her by the shoulder, grabbing one arm, both arms. Again, not really doing much for me. She's making some noise and I notice her tighten up a bit a few times which feels good but again not enough to make me cum and I'm feeling unconvinced her reactions are genuine so not particularly aroused by it all. I could probably have gone harder but again I held back because I didn't want to hurt her. After ~20 min of doggy style I'm starting to really feel bored and have given up hope of cumming. The condom is starting slip off and we've gone well past the time too (although its last session of the day) so I pull out and call it quits there. Kinda felt like I was the one doing the service instead of getting serviced with how unsatisfying it felt for me.
I take a quick shower and get dressed. While the ML is getting dressed, I get a glimpse of her front where I see some scaring and some stretched skin. So I guess that confirms she was trying to hide that part of her body :eek: I stop the ML and I give her a $50 for part 3 even though it kind of seems she was good to just leave since it wasn't really successful. In the end about 1hr 20min total and I didn't cum. I did find I stayed harder then the first time so I think the 3 days no fap is helped.
Epilogue
So yet another unsuccessful and and disappointing session. Feeling let down and a bit frustrated while also unsure of what to try in order to have a better experience I came here and wrote my OP.
With a bit more time to reflect and look back. I think the first time with the Korean model WL was overall more enjoyable and memorable. I'm with what GoldfishMan and some others have advised that physical attraction is more important than service; at least in my case, for the current time.
Still abstaining and haven't cum since my wank after my first punt. Definitely feeling more horny. The worst is trying to get to sleep at night or when I wake up early and am trying to get to sleep with morning wood. Pretty annoying trying to relax and sleep but being way too horny; I usually try doing a bit of exercise to distract myself but that doesn't help falling asleep.
I was feeling sick this weekend so wasn't able to go out to see a WL even if I wanted to. Hopefully will have a good punt next weekend after 2 weeks of no fap.
TL;DR
ML had a good massage and service but didn't provide much physical attraction. In future I think I want to put more emphasis finding physically attractive girls rather than experienced service girls.
