As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Do they? I thought they’d fool themselves into believing they were the “only punter” that meant something to a WL?

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Those who wish they were the "special punter" to their regulars are those who probably saw something inside that person and wanted to show her how special she is to him.

If they were only interested in sex they wouldn't even bother having a regular - just rotate girls every now and then. I think the problem is that many girls just don't appreciate their regular customers and think that they can manipulate the hell out of them.

I know what my choices are, but I reckon not many guys can follow my example, nor many girls in the industry can follow my advice on how to treat a man properly if they want to quit the industry and start settling down.

Like in one of my life story told recently, I dodged a bullet coming from a Thai girl who was after me for 10 years. I could've "saved" her from getting pregnant and living a life of hell but she took me for granted. She got what she signed herself up for - the karma for taking someone for granted.

Lesson to learn here is to not take anything or anyone for granted. Do not listen to friend's advice on over-testing your potential partner, grab him/her immediately as the opportunity will never come around twice.

With my crush, she's different. 3 years and the opportunity came around twice, I didn't hesitate on my second chance with her. I just hope she also feels the same.

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Originally Posted by bleekpit

i'm not really someone that has any regulars, but curious if you guys just stop visiting out of the blue or if you actually let the girls know whatever the reason may be. I imagine some girls may wonder or even get upset especially ones that have been very long term.

I know that when i leave a city, i usually tell people i built rapport with that i am leaving. how does the punting world work? do the girls even care? do the punters?

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Nope. While I like to have a regular as a backup and/or when IÂ’m lazy to punt, as soon as the service or connection is not up to previous standard, I donÂ’t see them. ThereÂ’s just no point. Do you tell your greengrocer or shopkeeper that till no longer go to their store?

Nothing stays the same forever.

WL’s have seen numerous punters disappear. We only think about it from our side.

Unless they’ve chosen to connect with you then your departure means nothing.

Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.

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Originally Posted by Vincent888

Of course I do. It’s only right to not leave them hanging.

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You're begging to be noticed, to be heard, to be begged to stay even when you reach 2K posts.

Edit out the F word in your previous post and I'll beg. I have no tolerance for vulgarities.

Would say it's entirely dependant on your rapport with them.

At the end of the day though, if you feel like you should then go ahead, no harm in it. Just don't go in expecting her to care and you're set.

Anecdotally I'd have told my only regular if I was going disappear but it just so happens I ended up seeing her on her last day in the business. We now occassionally chat and catch up, so you never know how they may view you, they're human too after all.

Rapport?

How many guys have stayed with a ML or WL and lived happily ever after?

Tell me one, anybody?

I did...
When i got engaged, i told her one day i wont be seeing her after i got married...
The last month before i got married, i increase my visit in seeing her to like 3 times per week, its almost like saying my heart wants to get married, but my brother wants to keep seeing you hahahaha...

Im just now a frequent visitor on this site.

I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL :cool2:

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Originally Posted by charmingninjaman

I've left FWB's without saying a word - so there's no way I can be bothered doing it with an ML or WL :cool2:

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Your loss. A WG I knew, when I visited her country, made contact, she showed me around, very convenient as I couldn't speak or read the language. I set the itinerary, she handled logistics. Never paid tourist prices either.

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Originally Posted by bleekpit

As regulars, do you let the WL/ML know if you won't be able to visit them anymore?

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Leave softly like the quiet of the night.